Wealth is not the only expression of success

"Success" is a good word, and the desire for success should be a common psychological trend of everyone. Our society is increasingly keen on promoting "success ". Go to the bookstore and take a look at it. You can find that the book "Success learning" has long been the top seller in the book "×× determines success or failure", and similar "clone version" has already been overwhelming. The concept of "success" was originally very innocent and everyone had a part. However, since the word "successful man" emerged in the past few years, the taste has changed. Just as some clubs only allow the rich to join and some games only allow the rich to participate, today's "success" seems to have become the patent of the rich.

If "successful people" are just a group of rich people, they may not be able to seize the name of "successful. The problem is that today, almost all people are eager for wealth, and they have provided a fertile ground for collective and unconscious cultivation of the superiority of the rich. They are regarded as the pride of the times, resources and psychological advantages. Rich people not only feel good in economics, but also in identity and even cultural style and aesthetic taste. The winners all eat, And they achieve the goal of "100,000 bits" and yearn for the elegance of "riding a crane down Yangzhou. Note that there is always an aesthetic arrogance in the descriptions related to the consumption activities of the rich. They are more in a mood and leisure time than others, so they may be more body‑fit; they are more convenient to enjoy expensive concerts, so they are more elegant in taste; they join a golf club or club, so they seem to be more refined in their way of life; they have the opportunity to travel around the world, so they are more open-minded, more attractive to talk ...... As a result, the rich seem to have become the spokesperson for "success.

For those who cannot become rich, the channel for "success" becomes very narrow. In the Bible, it is difficult to enter the "narrow door" of the kingdom of heaven, and it is difficult for the rich to enter the kingdom of heaven to put camels through the needle eye, but the situation today is different. People who cannot or do not intend to earn enough wealth, no matter how high they advertise themselves, don't care. In today's discourse atmosphere, almost all of them can only be labeled as "losers. Can someone despise money? It must be Qiu Fu, sour grape. Is self-reliance and self-esteem good? Typical Q psychology. Can it be a success if you have a good life? Are you kidding me!

The concept of success is being modified by the rich. To realize the meaning of the concept of success, the rich are alone. Others' intentions are very important. If a singer does not have tens of thousands of screaming fans, he will be overwhelmed. The rich bloat into "Successful People" and lock them into the most penetrating and tempting value symbol through the advertising media, because there are countless eyes of thirst behind the symbol. Too many people are involved in the mythical Construction of "getting rich is successful. As long as you look at the rich, as long as you lament that you are not rich enough, it will help the rich to establish their "successful" pride, and further turn themselves into the loser situation.

However, in the end, the so-called "successful people" is just a product of identity rhetoric, just like makeup. People dressed up with luster are just looking at the scenes, after makeup removal, it will reveal the original appearance of vulgar and mediocre. The concept of "success" is simple. It is not dedicated to the vanity queen in the dress dance, and the proud winner on the battlefield of fame and fortune. Those Wealthy people who are good at gathering wealth but have no intention of sharing money have gained too much favor and arrogance. However, the Internet saying goes well, "getting out and mixing, always have to pay back". The envy and respect of excessive overdraft will also be recovered. When the fog of value passes away, people may return to their places closer to their meaning, just like the English word fulfillment: a sense of perfection and realization after hard work. In this way, if you yearn for success, you will respect labor from the bottom of your heart. Even if the labor is very humble, you will respect creation. Even if the creation may not be able to get rich, you will respect freedom, even if the cost of freedom is nothing.