What do college graduates lack most?

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This is probably because it has always been a potential reason in the e-Learning industry. Almost every year, some friends who are interested in college students' employment training will communicate with me, the general content is mainly about how to conduct college students' employment training through the Internet. However, no institution has yet established a training market in this field. Through the contact in the job training field for college students, I have gradually gained some feelings and shared them with you...
First of all, we can see that there is indeed a knowledge gap between college graduates and employment. Employment Training is to try to fill in this "vacuum knowledge band" through training ". Due to the disconnections between the content and settings of University professional courses and the actual situation, this knowledge gap is quite large, college students lack not only communication skills, corporate culture, career planning, image etiquette, and other content that enterprises cannot learn. Even professional courses are far different from what they use. So what should we train for college students' employment training? If we look at the long-term development of students rather than the market or employment, the most important thing for college students is not those aspects mentioned above.
I personally think that college students lack two things-faith and understanding of social potential rules. However, although these two things are the most lacking of college students, but it does not seem to be able to solve the problem through training.
Let's talk about the issue of faith first. This question is hard to tell. I think it is not just the current college graduates, but the general lack of faith in the whole Chinese. The generations that have grown up in the New China have received the education of "God of God". What are the common problems people face when the ideal of communism is shattered? Those who do not have a firm and eternal faith will always fall into a strange circle of confusion, when designing the future, many college graduates think of the first step of making money to buy a house and buy a car through years of hard work. In the next few years, they will climb to a position or get a salary. In fact, these are short-lived goals, not faith. If there is no faith, there will be many problems on the road to striving for the goals of life, for example: the spiritual emptiness after the goal is met, and the difficulties in achieving the goal due to unscrupulous means. Faith is like a beacon that shines on the path of life. With this beacon, you will not deviate from the correct path of life. Without faith, you will walk in the dark, and there is a danger of hitting the wall at all times. It is a good time for college students to establish their faith before or earlier employment, and employment is a turning point in their lives. Generally, at this stage, middle school students will go from ideal to reality in the spiritual world, after employment, we need to constantly experience and choose good, evil, beautiful, and ugly in the real social environment. without faith, we will follow the trend and lose the basic judgment on some things.
Since faith is so important, how should we establish and uphold our own beliefs? First, we must avoid dangerous beliefs. Generally, dangerous or incorrect beliefs include the following:
I. Worship of money right. The dangers of money right are clear to everyone. I will not talk about it here.
2. Do not believe anything. Believe in yourself only. Believe in yourself as the most dangerous thing. Faith is a reference object and a guideline for correcting your own behaviors, people are changeable. They only believe that they are easy to cause inferiority and self-confidence, while they do not know.
3. Believe in materialism and science. Believe in materialism and science without any mistakes, but believe that it cannot go up to the level of faith, because materialism and science are still visible and accessible, they are both human understandings, and they cannot dominate people's beliefs. Recently, I have consulted some documents, most people think that science, philosophy, and belief are essentially different and cannot be confused. We can use a belief to explore and study science, but we cannot use it to study science.
4. Incorrect religious beliefs. Excluding the above factors that cannot be considered a belief, it seems that only religion is believed. When it comes to religion, it is believed that the vast majority of Chinese people will oppose it, this is in conflict with the education of our generations on the part of the list. However, it is precisely because the education on the part of the list of our generation that I lost my faith that we began to look for again. When I put my faith in religion, I personally think it is both dangerous and correct. Compared with the "pseudo" belief mentioned above, religion can indeed become the true belief of mankind. However, if there are various religions, it will go astray even if it is not very practical. Apart from the three religions of Buddhism, Christianity, and Islam, there are countless religions. It takes several years to understand the doctrine and the scriptures, let alone make the right choice. A better practice is to make some comparisons and then make choices. For example, look for people who believe in different religions to see if they live happily, have their families harmonious, and work actively; at the same time, you can also learn about accomplished scientists and artists to see if they have faith or, if so, what they believe in. I believe that through comparison, everyone can have a clear judgment.
Before paying attention to the issue of faith, I believe many of my friends will often read books about success and motivation, but the result is that they have little effect on work and life, everyone knows the truth, but it's hard to change yourself. In the United States, there is a classic book about designing life. It is the "Life Plan" written by Grace brandd. The book mentions that successful life is balanced, and among the elements of the balance, the first point is the balance of spiritual life. It is the foundation of all other balancing elements. Isn't spiritual life a firm belief? There is also a best-selling book "rich life" in Germany, written by German efficiency management expert Dr. joelger. I have the honor to hear Dr. joelge's report on rich life, after the report was over, someone asked Dr. joerge what his life creed was. The first point that Dr. erge answered was to pray. Many friends present, including me, did not understand it, why did a wonderful report suddenly fall into the idealistic prayer? Then, some people raised the question of "God-driven" in the part of the audience, but the actual communication was no longer possible. Some people think this is a problem of cultural differences between the East and the West. I personally think this is not a cultural issue, it is a matter of faith. Is it not what everyone needs to pursue a successful and meaningful life out of the meaning of religion and belief? If religious beliefs can ensure a successful and meaningful life without any harmful side effects, this belief is meaningful.
The above is a piece of advice on building a personal belief. Next we will talk about what other college graduates lack-The Hidden Rules, as the name suggests, are non-bright and implicit rules, there are many invisible rules in society. These things cannot be learned in books and need to be understood slowly at work. If you do not understand the rules and do not follow the rules, you will encounter difficulties everywhere, even if you have great ideals. Hidden Rules are everywhere. It can be said that there are hidden rules in organized places, especially in China. We can see many examples of university graduates who do not understand the rules and violate the rules. For example, the example reported by the media that "poverty-stricken counties feast with people to entertain volunteers for Poverty Alleviation" is a typical example, after learning about the hidden rules, we will know that, in fact, there may be no news for a student who understands the hidden rules to come to this poor county, in other words, this news is still available for students who do not understand the rules. The difference is that they have changed to another county. Speaking of this, I found that one way to understand the potential rules is to watch online news. The news body is a social rule described (relative to the potential rules), and news comments will see a lot of potential rules, these comments are always behind the news and cannot be published in the text. This is a characteristic of the hidden rule. I recently read a book "concealed order", which lists the rules of the Ming and Qing dynasties in detail (it seems that only one dynasty can see the rules of this dynasty in books ), although it is a secret rule of the Ming and Qing Dynasties, its essence is similar to that of today's secret rules. It also exists in every corner of society. If you are interested, you can read this book. The history of potential rules is called bad rules. To put it bluntly, they are ugly and bad rules. In a rational, healthy, and democratic society, hidden rules should not exist, unfortunately, we are not living in this ideal society. Since there are potential rules, it is necessary for us to understand it so that we can better avoid or use it, it is by no means an inheritance and development.
Here again, we stress the importance of the above-mentioned issue of faith. Good people who do not have the right faith often say that they are "People in the rivers and lakes and cannot help themselves". It is really difficult to defeat potential rules, for graduates who have just taken a sales position, the first customer may ask for kickbacks. For those who graduated from the Police School, on the first day, some may come to "filial piety". All kinds of potential rules are powerful tools, it will hurt us, and building a correct belief is like wearing armor, so it will not hurt us by the potential rule weapon. Without faith or belief mistakes, you will not only be hurt by potential rules, but also be a member of a society with potential rules to continue hurting others.