Last night, I saw a question on the subject of the Lord: "What is the purpose of reading and studying, and is it worth it?" "Aroused a wide range of heat. In fact, this problem oneself also have thought, study day in the laboratory to do experiments, busy hair paper, but these paper in the end can for their future employment bring what? Before also asked a lot of looking for work or already work of the elder sister, they give the unanimous answer is, graduate student's paper and find a job half gross money relationship not. I also often think, why do I read research? What did I learn in the study? How is it going to help me in the future? In fact, these questions in their own heart already have the answer, yesterday to see a netizen's answer, immediately feel uttered my own voice, in particular thank her.
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main question Questions:
i in Beijing, a agricultural Institute of the study, at present, the second grade last semester, immediately 26, home in the countryside, parents at home farming, there is a brother outside work, has not married. 1. Three years ago, the parents are busy every year for younger brother Blind date, but the foolish younger brother not to live up to, so far unsuccessful, parents for his brother broke heart. 2. Tonight, a classmate, very disdain to ask me, you read after the study can do, why to study, then a language, poke pain my heart.
As the eldest son of the family, 26 years has not been able to share the burden of parents, and even let them my own life worries, then I continue to study in the end is not worth, whether should come out a year early for the home to relieve some burdens.
User answer:
I have a graduate student, he from a not so good undergraduate graduation, do a job that he is not very satisfied, and then he came to our school, and then in the study period to find a girlfriend (that is, my roommate), after graduation he returned to his hometown to test the civil servant, now he has a job is satisfied with his wife, There are children, is simply the world of Datong, to obtain the great harmony of life.
He thought it was good to study.
My senior classmate, love the French culture, life dream is to go to the Chinese Embassy in France as ambassador. He went to the foreign Ministry of the University, and now runs on the Seine every evening.
He did not study, but it was the only one of my classmates who realized the dream of his youth very precisely.
I have a friend, from a not so good undergraduate graduation, test to Wuhan University. I remember being subject to family conditions, he had to give up because of high tuition fees, and finally he went to school. After graduation, as far as I know, he has two offer, one in my city and the other in Shanghai. Then he went to Shanghai, a blind date to meet a girl, is now married.
I sometimes chat with him, if he did not go to Shanghai Graduate school, but to my city, life does not know what it is like.
At last, with him sigh, life in which direction, full of chance coincidence, and read research seems not necessarily contact.
I sophomore of the same table, the University of the same test to the outside, after graduation to the Graduate school, now working in Beijing, every day to do the flying trapeze, to a lot of I may not be able to go to a lifetime. Idle and I chat, I said very envious of her, she said big city pressure, the most happy life or early birth baby doll.
Finally, it's me. After three years of postgraduate study, I have a good resume, which says I participated in social practice during the study of the results, and my professional achievements of the half-dime relationship is not, on the other hand, when the Graduate school director told me for some reason, my graduation thesis can not participate in the "Provincial Superior" selection, This is a very critical one for a three-year professional who has invested countless energy and time. This time I have a kind of reading research without the use of eggs feeling.
Later I took part in the present unit of the interview, very inexplicable, interview my vice-president asked me is a professional problem. I suppress the ecstasy fluent, find a job smoothly, feel that their professional investment in those times is not so unworthy.
Then worked three years later. Unit has a higher than my girl, did not study, graduate into the unit work, now is a department head, and I was just a bitter force of ordinary staff. Sometimes I also think that if I did not go to study direct work at that time, perhaps today can also be able to do this position.
However no if.
We can only live in the present, and no one can foresee the future, and then come back and tell us what choices we make now are more worthwhile and more rewarding. It is not worth to read the research, this question to my answer, I can only say "sorry I do not know." It's possible that you'll get a good job when you graduate from college, but you'll lose that opportunity after you finish your study. But I think so many people whether it is the independent choice, or the flow of the same, embarked on the study of the study of the road, presumably or out of the status quo is not satisfied, want to seek a higher platform. Whether you read the study or not, know what you want the most important, otherwise we can only see ourselves because of a choice lost, and do not see what we get.
I just want to say: There is no road that has to go. The puzzle of the Lord is also my confusion. When we were young, we had too many entanglements, as if we had gone the wrong way, and our life could have been lost. But in fact most of us are just ordinary people, spent a lot of effort to think to make a choice, and ultimately only through the ordinary life. We are at some point in time, always want to see the future, but forget that the most should do is to take the right path. While I was studying, I did not think that the examiner would ask the professional questions in the future interview, but if I did not seriously study professional knowledge, I would certainly not answer the questions of the examiner. Maybe you will think that it has no eggs, but you may not be able to be a very helpful person if you don't read the research. What I could have done was to take the same doubts, to look carefully at the professional books and write the reading notes.
Graduate that year, the defense is over, I met a school on the road outside the college sister, asked why I want to study, if after graduation or to compete with undergraduates, will not feel that time is wasted.when I was a teenager, I answered her: "Three years, with the favorite teacher, read the professional love, time is wasted is also worthwhile." "
Three years later today, when I was surrounded by frustration, I felt the road ahead of the confusion to see the direction, inadvertently turned out the graduation thesis, only to find that the writing of every word with their own professional love, now read still let me feel excited unceasingly. In the three years that I graduated, whenever I felt depressed, I would look at professional books, learn about the current professional research, and then be able to calm down quickly.
Sometimes I also like the title, feel that the study of life is not good, feel that the work of life will be better, feel more rich life is not better, married life is not better, but now I understand, even if I realized all the things I want, also does not mean that I can always enjoy happiness and happiness. But fortunately I found something that could be a safe haven for me when I was in pain, and let me have a temporary peace.
This may be the meaning of reading and studying to me.
2 reading and studying is what I mean.
The question has been around me ever since I started reading.
I personally think that there are three types of graduate students around me:
1) A type: Daily rush in the classroom and laboratory, busy doing experiments, write paper;
2) Type B: Learn some things according to their own interests, often participate in some extracurricular practice and activities;
3) C type: In the dormitory, playing games every day, even eat no time.
I'm not going to comment on what kind of a better way to go, maybe playing games every day is especially proficient in the field of games, and will eventually be selected by some big companies to do high-paying jobs in the game, which is possible. In fact, no matter what you do during the study, every day to write paper, to participate in the practice, play games, I think the most important thing is that you have to learn to develop their own learning ability, in particular, to identify problems, analysis and problem solving skills (this is my mentor often hanging on the mouth of a word). Because this ability will be our future in the society to work and life of the most basic skills, but also the most important in corporate recruitment.
3 Is there any use of professional achievements and paper during the study period?
I don't dare say. Recruitment does not value your professional achievements during the postgraduate course and all kinds of tall paper, but I would like to say you do not value them too much. I personally believe that the professional grades and paper do not show you better than who you are or worse than you, a poor academic performance than some genius looking for a better job is not uncommon.
Of course, I am not saying that professional grades and paper useless, on the contrary, I think they are very useful. At the very least, they can demonstrate that you have a strong understanding and learning ability as recruiters in the business. I have a lot of classmates around every day to engage in paper, of course, I am also a member. Now close to finding a job, these students feel that they do not have a lot of things, such as what distributed computing Hadoop, MapReduce, database language and so on. On the contrary, some students who do not often engage in academic research, often perfunctory teachers seem to have an advantage in this respect. I want to be like me to the graduate student a large part of the time to engage in academic research students said, please do not underestimate yourself, you can complete the paper in your hand has been explained that you have a strong learning ability, once you need to use other knowledge, you will quickly learn and familiar.
4 Reading Research is not a shortcut to success
Three years of time to study and three years of work experience, in the end which is more important?
This question may not be convincing answer, as I said before, study for me is to exercise their ability to learn independently, when their own future in life and work encountered problems, I should through what channels to understand the problem, analysis and solve the problem is the most important. And this ability can be obtained through any channel, not necessarily the study, three years of work experience may be more able to develop a person's learning ability, make him in the field of Daniel.
Therefore, study is not a shortcut to success, it is only a channel, please face your graduate experience.
The above views are personal humble opinion, hoping to bring help to others, do not like to spray.
What is it worth to study for?