What Should Chinese men learn from Western men?

The title "What should a Chinese man learn from a Western Man" does not mean to belittle Chinese men. There is no doubt that Chinese men are also worth learning from Western men. We have no intention of raising or degrading a man in a country. We just come to the truth with a rational attitude. Chinese men can compare and reflect on their own.

 

White profiling of "Chinese men"

· According to a survey, the image of "Chinese husband" in global women's eyes is "the most loyal, reliable, and responsible husband ".
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· Chinese men are very pragmatic in their marriages. They do not dare to step into marriage without enough money. After marriage, they will invest most of their income into their families. Chinese men will do their best, it provides reliable material support for families.
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· Most Chinese men have a "sense of family responsibility". In decades of life, even if there is "Aesthetic Fatigue", even if the original passion has become numb, chinese men can still stick to their original commitment to marriage and maintain even a seemingly complete family.
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· Chinese men value family, but this value is not based on personal happiness and value, but more on outside comments and opinions. They often ignore the internal harmony of family life.
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· Chinese men do not lack persistence in their families, but lack concern for family members. They can buy villas and BMWs for their wives, but it is difficult to send roses and affection to them. Chinese men can bring warmth to their families.
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· Chinese men like to treat "Wives" as "Relatives". In the name of "Relatives", they ignore the feelings of their wives and the quality of mutual love, and think that a husband and wife are "ready to live ".
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· When "Family Ties" cannot satisfy the desires at the bottom of my heart and lead to emotional outflows, Chinese men may not be able to get divorced or choose to manage their marriages, it is a strange phenomenon that "the red flag does not fall at home, and the red flag is floating outside.
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The voice of Chinese Women: What do you want to learn from Western men?

01 understand me and understand our hearts
It is hard for Chinese men to understand why Charles abandoned the beautiful young Diana for the appearance of Camilla. Due to different social environments, men in the West are pursuing personalized development. In terms of feelings for men and women, Chinese and Western men have different ideas and understandings.

Western men look for women to focus more on their emotional fit and the echo of their hearts. When they are with women, respect, pleasure, and happiness coexist. Therefore, Western men do not care much about more external factors, it will take more time to explore and understand a woman's inner world, and pay more attention to communicating with her wife's mind.
 
Chinese men should learn:
She understands and supports her hobbies, appreciates her, and praises her.
Spend more time chatting with her and doing what she likes to do.
She expressed concern for her activities on the day. Follow her books and contacts.
Respect her and do not force her in the name of "husband.
 
 

02 caring and considerate besides material
Chinese men are used to measuring their contributions to the family with material and money. They are also used to regard material as the only way of caring for family members, thus ignoring their real needs. They don't know. There are many ways to care and be considerate.

After marriage, Western men often send flowers, greeting cards, and souvenirs. They also say "Love you forever !". Chinese men generally do not want to say this. They will also say to their wives that there is no need to do this. Our money is the same. What are the meanings of these forms? I will send them in the future, here is a BMW. The goal is indeed exciting, but there is no touching process.
 
Chinese men should learn:
Do not care about the value of the gift, but increase the number of gifts (regardless of the size of the gift );
When your wife is in a low mood, Please comfort her, instead of being impatient or indifferent.
Often kiss and hug your wife, so that she can often feel your love.
She felt tired and tired, and offered help to do what she could.
 
 
03 please give me fun and confidence in my life
Chinese men can bear the burden of humiliation and sacrifice everything for their families. This is not easy for Western men. However, it is difficult for Chinese men who are willing to give their lives to you in the face of disaster recovery to bring humor and confidence to you in ordinary life.

it is not that Chinese men do not have the taste and taste of life, but the number of such men is obviously less than that in the West. For example, when Western men propose marriage, they will kneel down to their sweetheart at the party and take out the engagement ring. They say with deep affection, "dear, marry me, so that we can share our life's happiness ." What about Chinese men? The general tendency is true. At most, I can say, "Alas, we have known each other for a long time and we have done things too. Have you gotten a chance to get your marriage certificate? I want to ask my mom to buy a house ."
Chinese men should learn:
just like running your career, you can manage your marriage with your heart.
not only have the determination to face difficulties, but also maintain self-confidence and humor in the face of difficulties.
buy a monthly pass for her based on her favorite movies, ry ballet, or other forms of performances.
regular exercise, healthy body and normal body.
04 What I want is true integrity
Western men refer to the principle of" Marry one and love one, pay attention to the quality of love between men and women. If he does not love you, he would rather choose divorce and abide by integrity. Unlike some Chinese men, "the red flag does not fall at home, and the red flag is floating outside", it is just a nominal and painful marriage for the wife.

In general, men in the West are very stable in marriage loyalty. Divorce is common in the West, but it does not mean that they regard the relationship between husband and wife as a child. On the contrary, because they have high expectations for marriage, because they pursue emotional harmony, because they want to know each other deeply, they would rather not have a marriage without love or lack of understanding. It's not like some Chinese men we see. They don't mean to be confused with you, they just mean to end with you, and they feel that they are good men if they don't go back to divorce.
 
Chinese men should learn:
Please give your wife true loyalty, not just the shell of marriage.
If love disappears, you can also take marriage seriously and look for the best solution for the two, instead of escaping from or having an affair.
 
 
Conclusion
Of course, growth should be on both sides. Can Chinese women learn Western women as they yearn for an equal and soul-fit marriage, not so important to men's appearance, do not require a man to have a house, do not compare his husband with others all day, do not require a man to be "amazing "...... What about it?