When you are in your twenties, it will not be the hardest time in your life.

Zhihu has a very hot discussion recently. The topic is "Is it the most difficult time in your life in your twenties ?". Below are some answers that I think are quite good.

-- "I Am a 28-year-old girl with a four-year master's degree. I have just met a husband who has been derailed for seven years during pregnancy and is divorced. I live with a daughter less than one year old. Once upon a time, a woman needs to take up the lives of two people. Hard to imagine. But this is definitely not the most difficult time for me. I have no way to imagine the difficulties I will face in the future, and I don't want to think too much about them. I have to do what I should do and what I should do. If there is a kind of life, there will be breeding. Be happy, cherish your loved ones, and enjoy your life. Don't be afraid to marry a suitable man. I'm glad that I can continue to make great efforts, and there are people worthy of my love. What do men fear ?"

-- "If you are in your twenties, you have no money, no room, no car, and you need to consider your future. You need to give your other half happiness and consider your parents. When you go out to do things, you have no status. There are people older and more advanced than you. They teach you how to rob your girlfriend. This day is really difficult. It would be better to be over the age of 20. This is what I thought before I was 25 years old. I am 26 years old. I still have no money, no room, no car, and I am still worried about my future. I still have to consider all things to consider. I just want to understand. These are difficult, but they are by no means the most difficult time ."

-- "The most difficult time is when you wait for the majority of your life to discover your inner struggles and fall into a hard life. Only then will you suffer from major changes and failures in your life. Because, at that time, your hopes, your possibilities, and your variables were not enough ."

-- "The most difficult time is to give up on yourself and give up on hope. It may happen at any time in your life, not just in your twenties. If you don't give up, the hardest time will not come. It sounds like chicken soup. After going through a lot of pitfalls, many of them will be cool, not as terrible as you think ."

-- "26-30 is a bitter journey. It seems that it is too far away from success, but it has been over again. You may wish to lower your mindset, do what you have to do in a down-to-earth manner. It is a good thing to suffer and struggle. It means you are not numb ."

-- "I had the honor to step on a piece of shit when I went home last night. My shit is coming soon ."

-- "Using Shu benhua's explanation: in our early years, we used poetry, novels, rather than reality to understand life. We are at the beginning of the rising sun, and the images depicted in poetry and novels flash in front of us. We are suffering from the desire to see those scenes as a reality and can't wait to grasp the rainbow. Young people expect their life to be like a interesting novel. This is why they are disappointed ."

-- "Will you envy me who is ill at the age of 70. -- No, because I can be 70 years old, I can be 20 years old, or I can be ten years old. I thought that happiness will not last forever. I know that one day is better than one day. Life is just a constant choice and a way to have fun ."

When we were in our twenties, we were ashamed of ourselves and looked at people older than ourselves. We were always envious of our family and career. But I don't know who are older than us, who are counting the gray hair and the out-of-the-box wrinkles, worrying about their children's lessons and concern about their parents' health, what I miss in my heart is the young man at the stadium more than a decade ago. In fact, the difficulty that many people feel is caused by the disparity in strength in the face of powerful opponents, but it is not a sense of powerlessness brought about by cruel reality. After all, under the pretext of being difficult, too many people complain, but escape the change.

When we were in our twenties, we thought this kind of day would last for a long time and thought it was important to decide whether to live or not. Later on, we thought that it was impossible for us to get over the threshold, even though it was a bumpy journey. We always think that the most difficult is always the present, but we find that life has never been the most difficult, but there will be more difficult. The only thing to be thankful for is that all that beat you will make you more powerful, and all that beat you will not beat you completely.

In the movie "this killer is not too cold", Lori Mathilda asked l é on: "Is life always this hard, or is it just when you're a kid? ", L é on replied:" Always like this. "You see, even if life is so difficult, some things still need to be exposed.