(a) The life of the mouth said
That year when I left home kept to my hard drive to plug "slam dunk", my mother a pair of face looked at me, it seems to say: "Such a big person is incredibly still so like to see the animation." ”
I did not know how to respond to her, had to shrug, because I really can not tell my dear mother the meaning of this animation to me.
You know, some songs have that kind of power. Even if it's been hidden in your phone for years, even if it's already over the golden stage, even fewer people will mention it. You know, when you listen to this song, when you look at those comics, you will think of the past yourself, you will gain an inexplicable power. This power allows you to feel your rhythm and to be able to operate alone in a different way from the world, and you can hear yourself. For example, the Forever butterfly and until the end of the world, they are more reliable than memory.
In the memory of the most impressed you, must be the same year of your own. Because only at this time only to find that when you shout "time changes too fast" at the same time, in those so-called "different", the most changed person is you. I do not know how life is the most terrible, but I know when you look back one day, when you find that you have said everything, you have vowed to all of the time to become said, it will not be good to be where to go.
It seems that when people grow up, they will lose a lot of things. For example, those who are simple but can enrich themselves with a day of things, such as the ability to make their own tears and laughter, as well as those who have been together in a companion. The most terrible thing is not to lose these things, but you become complacent. You start to comfort yourself, that's growth, that's what we'll eventually become. You just find an excuse to go on living like this and scoff at the old self.
It's just that every time you listen to a song, or you see someone holding on to his own path, you're going to be like a big mouth.
Look at the efforts of others to envy and then turn around and go back to live your life, and why you want to live your life?
(b) Efforts are made to account for themselves.
Once with friends in order to negotiate a project to Beijing, the other side is a standard 80 after the North Drift. It was the third year he floated, accompanied by a straight-up character that he had not changed. It was the third job he had changed in the third year, and he had never been secure. He said: "I have seen a lot of people these years, some people do not have to do what can have a good prospect, some people Pinsipinhuo still have no way to survive in this city." ”
A little girl met on the Hujiang, she had almost accompanied for her boyfriend to go abroad for a year, but then they broke up. Later she decided to go to Shanghai alone, the most bitter when even the meal did not eat, take a few steamed buns in the subway station, do not know where to go.
Once I always can not understand, obviously back to mom and dad side work better, also can accompany parents around, why in the big city, still not get a good result. Like I once wrote the girl who cried in the train, in the end there is no way to go home. I used to think it was not worth it, but when I faced the choice one day, I finally realized what it was like to make a decision.
The North floating buddies said, even if their own struggle for a lifetime is a cock silk, then at least such son himself will not have an excuse, not in the old time regret should not. Did you say it was worth it? I think it's worth it. Although my straight to the character to bring myself a lot of trouble, but this is me, this is the way I exist.
In fact, all wandering people, but to one day can no longer drift, can use their own strength to prop up behind the family and their loved ones. What do you think is the best state of life? I think the best life state is, in your youth age silly to persist in order to ideals, and finally back to the plain with the real way to live. Can realize the dream is the best, but not to achieve their dreams that there is no pity. The first step in growing up is to accept the diversity of the world, to realize that the reality is not good, and then decide to stick to the initial insistence.
When I was a child, I always shouted, efforts to change the world, but now I would feel that some people strive just to become an ordinary person, some people try just to give their own account, perhaps we are always a small person, but this does not prevent us to choose the way to live. Stealing thought, those in see through the helplessness of life, or choose not perfunctory do not complain not inferiority still love life still strive to do the things around the people, efforts are their own account.
As I have discussed with Li Jing about where to work, at the end of the day we come to the conclusion that it is not easy to live in any city, but no matter what it is, you have to bear it.
I have the courage to make the choice, naturally must have the ability to bear the consequences.
(c) Only action can relieve all of your uneasiness.
You say you want to be a freelance writer, but you don't have to work hard to write, you say you want to take an examination, you can not see your back word to do the problem; you see the genius haunt and then scoff that this life is not boring, you see someone traveling and dismissive said it is only from the big stream. I'm starting to wonder if you're on the pretext of escaping from reality, and I'm beginning to wonder if you're getting restless over the escape and comfort of yourself.
So you slowly succumb to your desires. Obviously in a few years later can have a better life, but must now buy the latest package. Everyone began to want to achieve a certain social status and material conditions, it seems that the result is the most important. However, have you ever thought that all your efforts are meant to satisfy your desires or do you really want to be motivated? Like Wang Feng's song inside said: "Few people walk but trapped in situ, how many people alive but as dead, how many people love is like separation, how many people smile but full of tears." ”
Finally one day, you find that you have achieved the results, but after that, but no longer know how to continue.
When you are 20 years old, please put yourself in the position of 20 years old. You have no reason or ability to have a 40-year-old people have the experience and wealth, you in addition to the youth you have nothing, but you have a few things in hand, you can decide what kind of person you are.
I don't know if there is really a sense of security in this world, or because everyone says they are insecure, so you feel insecure. My definition of security is only two: one is the energy that others give you will disappear someday, only their own security is the most reliable, only action will bring you security; second, always remember that no matter what kind of virtue you are, you are the security of your parents.
So when you feel uneasy, think of the parents behind you, think they are fighting for you, please think about your original intention, and then raise your head to continue stubbornly go on.
Only action can relieve all of your uneasiness.
(d) Have a dream, do not complain.
As time passes by, we will become rich or pale by our efforts or our depravity.
I spend two hours a day reading, I don't have time to read 20 minutes before I go to bed, I can read the whole book on weekends. Do the thesis once do not do well I do two times, the manuscript requires me to write 10,000 words I write nearly 20,000 words and then delete. To write a good article is luck, if a person has been writing, it is by effort. More often, the world's attitude towards you depends on your attitude towards the world, and there is nothing to complain about.
Why do we have to keep on moving? Why is it so disappointing that we are not willing to give up a person and an ideal?
Everyone, all of us, is still walking forward just because he wants to go forward just because he is not willing to surrender like the world. Maybe no one is exactly the same as you, and no one can stay with you at all times, maybe we look back a long time later, will even now cherish the appearance of people do not remember. But my greatest luck is, even so, there are people willing to spend a limited amount of time with my heart to walk through this section. Willing to work with me in order to dream, experience those who are lonely and displaced.
Such a thought, life is also really good.
When you read a book and see a headache red, when you press the remote control to turn the table, when you do not know the name of the phone call, when you go through the crowd alone to see the lights of the cross-Strait can not find a sense of belonging, you should listen to a song, read a book, Think of your initial insistence and your reasons for standing in this place, and then raise your head and walk bravely.
The song has a word: "Whether to find a reason to drift or brave to move out of the cage," I think, you know the answer.
you have nothing now, but you have everything, because you have a dream. As long as the road is their own choice, not afraid to go far, life will always leave something to the people who have confidence in it.
Wen/Lu Siho
When you were 20 years old, you had nothing, you had everything.
