Who blocked my sunshine?

Each of us is striving for success. But why do some people seem to have succeeded easily, while we are standing in the same position? What is supporting them and what is restricting us?
When I complain, my first boss told me: "To stop complaining, you must observe and study carefully. A person who succeeds must point out that a poor person must be hateful ". When I was in my early s, I did not agree with it, and even felt a little disgusted: you have money, you have succeeded, but you have not seen anything extraordinary about you? Our wage earners are not as good as you, but is there anything we hate?
After many years, I have seen more people and experienced a wide range of things. If we find that people in the world use a standard, there are actually two main categories: winners and losers.
Of course, success is not just about the world. It may be about achievements in the career, harmonious and happy life and family, and self-satisfied people. The losers are not all about the poor, but their self-feelings are all the same: why am I inferior to others? Is my luck poor or my ability poor ?......
Looking at these various people, I often think of what the boss said. It feels like truth.

Life is equal. This equality is not only reflected in human rights, but also in other aspects. For example, people both have an animal instinct and a rational one. According to the animal instinct, people will unconsciously greedy for the physical enjoyment of the senses, such as laziness, freedom, and self-interest. It is not "bad" to say that they play for a while or sleep for a while ", it is an animal and inertia. On the contrary, rationality leads people to pursue things and enjoyment at a higher level, spiritual pleasure, and emotional harmony, that is, to pursue excellence and success in all aspects.
But do you know? The process of pursuing success is actually a process of rationally defeating instinct, overcoming its own inertia, defects, and challenging itself. It is a process of constantly fighting against its own inertia and shortcomings. Reading the biography of famous Chinese and foreign great people in ancient and modern times, from the experiences of successful people in real life, I think they are just as ordinary as us, with all kinds of faults and inertia, after recognizing a goal, they insisted on overcoming their inertia and made unremitting efforts. In the end, they held up a noble head in the crowd and looked at all sentient beings in a forward manner.
Every day, I overcome my own mistakes and make progress every day. Success is just that simple.
Unsuccessful people are giving up every chance to succeed and blocking their own sunshine. If you do not believe it, I ask you: you have been learning English since primary school. If you remember five words every day, what is your vocabulary today? Do I still need to memorize words all night before the test?

A poor person must be hateful. What is this hateful thing? In fact, it is also very simple, that is, the animal's instinct-like inertia, that is, the small faults that you care about inadvertently, bad habits.
Most of us are ordinary and ordinary people. They are born not a genius, nor are they a great evil or a terrible evil. But why are you still looking at others in a "poor" position? Your intelligence and other conditions are not inferior to others, and the starting line is similar. Why do you watch others go to your front?
To put it bluntly, it's just a small problem that you don't realize whether you're making up your mind to change it or you don't even realize it. Do you want to stay in bed for a while instead of morning exercises? Do you want to watch TV at night instead of study? Will the chatroom go straight online? It's time to get off work. Even if these jobs can be completed in 10 minutes, will they be waiting for tomorrow? This cigarette smoke starts, so smoke less in the future. If you are tired today, remember the boring words tomorrow. If you do not have a clear plan, you will often remember that the most important thing is not done; you can't find anything at will. Your boss's face (in fact, his wife quarreling with him) makes you unhappy for a day and has very low work efficiency. A friend's request makes you unable to refuse, I had to let go of what was going on ......
Such a small thing is endless. Day by day, you get used to this kind of rhythm, or you will find it when you wake up, or how great the power you get used to is, or you have no chance.
Every bad habit has a huge inertia. Every faulty inertia has a great temptation. The problem is: you cannot enjoy the future when you are ready. Those who are afraid of hardship often suffer for a lifetime, not afraid of suffering, but suffering for half a lifetime. Don't ignore these traps, don't enjoy the temptation of sleeping for half an hour, get up and take actions, and overcome the nasty self to welcome the sunshine of your own.