Why do we have less of our own personality?

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The heart of the book

2015/10/25 Night

Recently saw the latest issue of Oriental TV, "The Laughter of the Lake" program, as always, this episode has not let Me down, this episode has and other past program different places, so I was particularly impressed. So decided to share my thoughts with sharing.

I was most impressed by the song Dandan in the evaluation of the "hidden embarrassment" this program, asked the audience whether people think this program is not good, do not like the program. Silence for a few seconds, the whole silence, unexpectedly no one to express their views, we all God synchronous think this program is good, we all like it. So Feng Xiaogang and song Dandan all expressed the following view, that is, "the audience should also have their own personality, have their own views." ", this short dialogue in my heart left a deep impression, perhaps oneself may also belong to the flow of the audience of a member, have clairvoyant feeling."

Perhaps I know that the cause of the heart will be touched because of the mention of their shortcomings, causing different feelings. Life will temper people's character, but I do not know from when to start, unexpectedly, we have not been grinding their own personality, everyone is stereotyped, as if we are mass production in general. This is a terrible phenomenon, after all, human society is precisely because of the personality of people and people will become colorful wonderful, imagine, if one day our world has developed to not need through the sexual reproduction, and can be directly cloned in the way to generate a new population, walking on the road, everywhere is a picture of the same face, Even if you know people around the usual performance is the same, personality, preferences, dress, such a plot is often seen in sci-fi films, but if society really developed to that stage, I personally feel that the society away from the day is not far away, because everyone is a member of the community, The individuality shown by each molecule can make the whole society show vitality.

We love life, love the planet, love this society, but also willing to work for the development of the community constantly pay their own efforts. However, with the increase of age, we also slowly lose their own personality, the cause of this situation is multifaceted, there are from the social environment, but also from the educational reasons, and even from other non-subjective reasons, and so on.

I do not know whether we have noticed that similar situations abound in the work and life, a group of people in the conference room are discussing the feasibility of the programme, and the facilitator has asked the programme and the people in the place after the introduction of the programme, most people tend to agree with the proposal, if they have questions or not, They would say that they have no problem, is the plan really perfect to impeccable? I think it is unlikely that one of the celebrities said, "if everyone's opinions are highly unified, it means that we are not thinking." "I like this sentence, indeed, as the saying goes," 1000 readers, there are 1000 Hamlet ", each person because of the angle, skills, social experience, life experience and other differences, will have their own different views, if there is no heartfelt doubts, That can only mean that the meeting room is full of a bunch of people who don't think about wood.

So, from a certain point of view, one of the reasons I think we lose our individuality is that we are lazy to think. Look at an article or read a book, read it through, and then abandon the brain, in front of others also proudly claimed that they have seen, and if someone further asked him about the book's own views, they tend to be speechless, because they have not thought of the author's views, the author's views are correct, Whether you agree with the author's point of view, if you disagree with what your opinion is, and so on. This is only one aspect. Life needs our own independent thinking in almost every aspect of life, thinking is a process of groping, the answer is often not easy to conform to, it is because others for our own thinking, lazy sex drives us to choose to put other people's thinking results on their own, as their own thinking results. So the result is that 1000 readers have only one hamlet, and the normal result should not be "1000 readers there are thousands of Hamlet"?

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I think that being lazy to think is just one reason why we are getting less of a personality, and another important reason is that we are slowly not "curious". In this regard, I have tried to think carefully, children tend to be personalized, like and hate are more distinct, there are problems like to get to the bottom of the world, no fear of the unfamiliar worlds, so there is a "dictionary" this said. And when we grow up, the vitality of childhood is lost. I think the other important aspect is "curiosity" besides the world view and the social experience accumulated by people growing up gradually. The children of the world are unknown, so full of curiosity, curiosity, they like to explore the unknown, in this process will have their own thinking, because the answer is often accompanied by the process of cloud-driven fog. After growing up we used to use the accumulated life experience to come to the answer, if we can not get the answer within our ability, we also no longer have the strong desire to explore the answer, because we have slowly don't care what the answer is, or we may be accustomed to wait for others to get the answer after the results of their own, and then suddenly realized , continue to live a life of peace and conscience. As a result, we become more and more less interested in thinking after this habit. Without curiosity, we gradually have no interest in most things, so we slowly have the situation mentioned above, the audience unexpectedly no one has their own views, because they simply enjoy the joy of the program brought about by the physical and mental pleasure, And forget to use their own independent way of thinking to see the entire performance process and then draw their own thinking results.

Actually said so much I also inevitable vulgar, I think I was lucky, has the inner touch, has had the above ponder. In many cases, I am also a member of a large number of non-viewers, so I began to realize the importance of diligent thinking and curiosity. From today onwards, to slowly change their way of thinking, do not let their thinking into the habit of forming a mindset, slowly cultivate their habit of changing the way of thinking, diligent thinking is often the first step to success and improve yourself.

So, come on.

Why do we have less of our own personality?