You can decide your luck

You can decide your luck
People always blame their current situation
Luck. I don't believe in luck. Amazing
People take the initiative to find what they want
If they cannot find it, they will create
Luck.
-- George Bernard Shaw

"Just give me a chance"
Recently, a new patient came to see me. Her name is Silvia,
She is a member of an outstanding family-her father is famous in Boston.
Surgeon, Mother assistant to British literature at a prestigious university
Professor. Her family has a great deal of help and support for her, and she has a full chance to implement it.
Current ideal.
Since she went to college, she had been dreaming of connecting to the TV station.
Host of the program to be visited. She thinks she has this kind of talent, because every time
When she gets along with others, even strangers are willing to grow down with her. View
People trust her. She is willing to talk to her about her secrets, and she is willing to kiss her.
Near. She knows how to "speak out" from people's mouths ". Her friends named
She is their "intimate portable mental doctor ." She often said, "As long
Someone gave me a chance to bring me to the TV. I believe it will succeed ."
After I have been in touch with her several times, I tend to believe that she may
Talents. But what does she do for this ideal? Nothing!
She waited for someone to appear like a god and promised her wishes.
I hope I will become the host of the TV program.
When Silvia told me her Unrealistic expectations for the first time
This kind of attitude is very uneasy, almost jumped up from the chair. "You
There is no such thing you think about, "I said to her," if you want
In a profession, you have to do something, you have to act, you have to take the necessary
To master the necessary knowledge.
"No one will ask someone with no experience to serve as a TV program interviewer.
Such a star role! In addition, the directors of the program are not interested in running the program.
When someone goes outside to search for talents, they are all people looking for them. Some of my patients are on TV
They have been studying for many years in professional training, but they are still working in
Learning. We need to work hard to improve and improve our TV skills ."
Next, I told Silvia about another patient, Cindy -- Xin
Di has realized Silvia's ideal and became a famous TV program host.
Cindy was not white enough to wait for someone to give her a chance. Unlike Silvi
Asia has a reliable economic source, so it works during the day and goes to California at night.
I attended the night school at the La-based stage art department. After graduation, she began to work
He traveled through every radio station and regulation station in Los Angeles. However
Fang's manager replied almost to her: "Not the same camera for several years.
We cannot hire people with experience ."
Cindy argued with each of them: "If you say to me
If I don't have experience, how can I get experience? It seems that
It is impossible to start this line !"
However, she does not want to retreat, nor wait for the opportunity, but goes out to search
Find opportunities. She carefully browsed various magazines on radio and television for several months,
I saw an advertisement: a small TV station in North Dakota recruited a pre-engineer.
Girl reporting the weather.
Cindy is from California and does not like snow. "I will die in North Dakota.
State, "she said to herself. But is there any sunshine? Is it snow or rain?
Snow or a hurricane does not matter. She wants to find something that has something to do with TV.
Can do anything! She seized this job opportunity and left for North Dakota
His state is now.
Cindy worked in North Dakota for two years, and finally at loxuji's TV station.
I found a job and was very excited to return to my hometown. After five years
To get the promotion, to engage in the long-awaited broadcast program.
The idea of Silvia's loser is exactly the same as that of Cindy's winner.
. The difference is that Silvia has been stuck in phantom for ten years.
Think about it, wait for the opportunity, and expect it to run; however, time passes. While
Cindy is taking action. First, she was educated: Then, in North Dakota
The State has been trained, and then has accumulated a lot of experience in LA, the most
After that, he worked on an important program.
When the Losers talk about the success of others
How to Use luck, "" catch up with good times and good places ." They do not purchase
Take action and wait for "one day" they will be lucky. They regard success
An accident that comes to the head of "lucky. The loser thinks the winner
Destiny is smooth sailing, and fate is unlucky.
The transport women refuse to take care of them. What do they have besides complaining and secretly bitter?
What can we do?
Year after year, these people follow the loser's life pattern.
Son, but they do not know what they encounter is exactly what they give up on their own.
. They don't see their responsibilities in failure, so they blame themselves
My spouse, my partners in business together, my bad luck, and my total
Blame the economic downturn ....... They talk about how all people lose money all day long.
Wait for them ".
Successful people cannot afford this time. They are busy solving problems and busy working
Work hard, busy with doing things well, busy with how to treat with enthusiasm and optimism
Everything.
Success is not accidental,
You must do your best!
To be a winner, you must consciously strive for it. Successful
They never delay until "one day. But today.
Hand stem. After a busy day, they went on again the next day.
Continue to work hard and fail until the operation is successful.
Remember this old saying: "Do not drag anything you can do today
Day ." When a winner encounters a problem, he can solve it immediately. They don't take time
Don't worry, because sorrow cannot solve the problem, but can only constantly increase sorrow
. On the contrary, they concentrate and immediately go with great enthusiasm and enthusiasm.
Find a solution to the problem.
"How can I do this? I may already ......"
Have you ever met someone who likes to say "how can I do?
Some people talk about what they missed before.
Or are "planning" to do anything else in the future.
Industry.
Gill is such a person. I held a Monday evening party.
Psychological treatment group. As soon as Gill joined the group, there was no end to it.
I 've said a lot of "What may I do" and "what if
He: "If I was not married at the time, it may have become a great thing.
Opera actor; if I didn't raise so many children, it may have already happened.
Name ."
After a few minutes, the people in this group agreed that "it's crazy !" To
Help Gill and let her stop complaining, but do something right now to benefit her life.
One person said, "you have heard of the famous opera actress Beverly West.
? She also got married and had to take care of her family, but she worked harder.
Year. You have to work hard, so you will succeed !"
The loser always considers his "what if so ",
For some reason, the delay always fails.
People who always talk about "what may have been done" are not
The attacker is not a winner, but an empty talker. That's what "real experts" say
Of:
Some actors assume 10 roles to be named. I learned to play 100
Roles! If I say that my success is overnight
One day and one night is a very long journey.
-- Frebury falls
Do not wait for "time to run", or get angry if you cannot wait.
And grievance, from small to small!
Take action to win!
Create your own good luck
From now on, don't say "unlucky. For winners
Hard work is synonymous with good luck. Just do it with one mind
The work we are doing is to stick to it until we get things done well, and the "opportunity" is coming.
Yes.
Blame others will not change your fate, it will only delay your time, make you
The cast has time to succeed. If you want to "catch up with good time, good
You can work together to make great effort.
Lucky is not accidental. Spend a few hours a day working diligently
At work, the goddess of luck will be summoned.
Dare to do it
Dunan von forstinberger is an exciting winner.
She is constantly working, capable of handling affairs, and has a different look
The Common English appearance is combined with each other. She achieved in her career
Great success. She is competitive, enterprising, decisive, and at the same time
Very careful, sharp, and gentle.
Di'an was born in Brussels and educated in Spain, Britain, and Switzerland,
In 1960s, he joined the Italian Fiat Auto Company's heir, egang Feng fvers.
Prince donberger came to England after he got married. In 1969, the couple
New York's social circles have shown the limelight and are the darling of the richest class in New York. After
Sorry, there was a crisis in their marriage.
When da'an was only 23, he made his own loan for $30 thousand from his father.
A clothing design company. After separation with her husband
As a huge fashion company, the annual sales volume now reaches 2 million US dollars
RMB. Then, she started a cosmetics company on her own.
The company cooperates with her to produce leather shoes, handbags, scarves, etc. using her name as a trademark.
Product. It takes only five years to complete these tasks.
Now, da'an is divorced from her husband. She is in a senior residential area in New York
Garden Boulevard has a 16-bedroom luxury apartment and one in Connecticut
A 53-acre farm is a gift she bought for herself on her 27-year-old birthday.
She is both a mother and an industrial entity, realizing the ideas of many modern women
The ideal of both. "If you want both, you can do it ."
She said, "I don't think it is necessary to give up anything else for your career ."
When she was 29 years old, de'an became the album art of newsweekly. This miscellaneous
Zhideng wrote an article about her daily work from eight o'clock to midnight.
When talking about the situation, she said, "Sometimes I
Oh, my God, I'm exhausted! Why am I doing this?
? However, I am very excited by my work.
Don't envy anyone ."
The strong person in the fashion business defines the success of the business as follows:
If we take life as a journey, success is an oasis in the desert.
-- Let's take a rest, look up, enjoy and breathe, and have a good sleep.
And then proceed. In my opinion, success is life and enjoyment.
Everything in life-whether happy or annoying ."
Da'an said there was a desire to keep moving forward to push her forward. "When I move
When I worked hard for a purpose, I got to a new realm and got to the first level.
The road to a new life. I don't always know where to go. In
The development is changing, and accidents will happen, while the road is more open. Found email
It has always been: to maintain the ability to respond flexibly, we must seize the opportunity to do it before.
Unexpected things and things that others may succeed ".
Hard work is the minimum. "Some people do not even work hard.
You must not succeed. These people will never succeed. Only thinking
Just like what kind of person you want to become ."
"I think your situation is by no means irrelevant to your own plans.
. You must make improvements on your own-at least think about what you really want,
Have plans and ideals. Otherwise, nothing will happen ."
What are the results? "I always wanted to be a sit-down person when I was 30 years old.
A very independent woman in a car. Now I have done it.
"One thing I must tell you: I dare to do it. I implemented
My fantasies ."
Make your ideal a reality
My career is to help people turn their ideals into reality. My life is to go
To realize my ideals, I believe that I can turn them into reality and teach others such
How to achieve the ideal. I have received patients at work and in the same family and friends
The relationship between friends has achieved great success. They are realizing their own ideals.
I felt a lot of fun, so I felt that my work was easy and my energy was greatly increased.
With this added, more things can be done.
You can make success a part of your life. You can
Yesterday's ideal has become today's reality. However, it is impossible to rely on aspirations and companies.
To turn the ideal into reality. Remember Thomas Aidi
Raw words:
Genius is 1% inspiration and 99% sweat.
Achieving success knows how to work overtime when necessary. For example
If they have to finish their work within a certain period of time, they will not stop working on weekends.
. They don't look at the clock, they just work hard until they finish the work.
Okay. The winners are proud of the results they have made when they are busy with their work all day.
The withdrawal of British Prime Minister mahilit chert has such extraordinary energy.
She is a person who is successful by her own efforts. She rarely takes vacations, and generally only needs
Five hours of sleep. Starting from her low position
Being the first female prime minister in the history of Europe is her tenacious determination and self-esteem.
. "She has
Quality required by Britain-old-fashioned Christian morality, hard-working, and tenacious
Perseverance. She tastes tough ."
Intense work schedule
Mary falls laurels is a very diligent and accomplished entity.
Ye Jia is the chairman of Welles-ridge-green advertising agency. She knows
How to work effectively throughout the world. She is proficient in business and can
This has a great impact on consumers' tastes.
Her company now runs a business of $0.2 billion a year.
I rented a room in a hotel in New York, and only her mother helped her.
After answering the phone, two people don't even have lunch. Sixteen years have passed.
I have lunch in the office.
"I want to arrange my life as many people manage their own business.
This is required. "I didn't
Draw a regular chart, but the progress is like
Make the same chart. I wrote down everything and made plans in advance.
There is a one-year plan, and one week and one day plan. I will always meet
Some unexpected things should be prepared in advance. Besides, it takes me time
There are too many places-to receive customers who have already done business, it is possible to do reception
Business customers. If you want to deal with employees, someone wants me to speak and someone wants me
It takes me some time to participate in some things. So,
It won't work if you don't make a plan ."
Lawrence needs to be in charge of her booming advertising agency and
Be a housewife. She successfully fulfilled both of these responsibilities.
Okay. "When I was at home with my family, I didn't want anything else.
Place, other things. Since I am with my family, I will be able to follow them in a steadfast manner.
Together. Besides, because I can't get together with my family
."
Like many winners, Lawrence has a daily event schedule.
Ben, remembering all kinds of appointments. She is busy from half past six every day until late.
Last 8 o'clock. At half past seven in the morning, she had combed and read the newspaper,
This is the first day of the day to write the main points of the speech, and then one of her
The main assistant is coming. After the discussion, she either goes to the office or
Visiting customers from the airport to other places-her customers are all over the country, and she often needs four
Outbound contact. On the plane. She is also a graduate student, or
Consider how to solve the customer's question circle. In their own words
The daily arrangement is incredibly compact, "and the happiness she gets from it is also impossible.
.
Are you a step-by-step person?
If you are only interested in eight hours of work every day
Sentiment can only be a level of "common", because less effort is paid and
Fewer results. If you want to change this situation, you may want
. You don't have to worry about spending the most time at work like Lawrence.
Limited effort, but can be considered to increase the working time by 10% or 15%
. In this way, your work efficiency and effectiveness will be greatly improved. Work
Working diligently will bring about a very favorable result, that is, increasing your pride.
Feeling and self-esteem make you feel better. In this way
A step towards fun.