You don't have to be afraid, there's plenty of time for you to meet someone better (Shen Shanshu)

This is the fourth year of my single life. A person's life, always envy other people's love. Long time, I slowly told myself, in fact, do not have to envy others love, I can also vigorous, just a life owes a favor, years to let me wait, hone my mind. I know, sometime. The more late the more happiness can let me know waiting and cherish the hard-won.

The years are like this, always leave the best in the back. The best arrangement is the time given and the mastery of it. Time will take the negative energy out of your life, and it will carry away everything you can't put out. You can't be impatient and wait. In this world, the most heroic thing is not desperate to go forward, but after a long walk, watching a landscape, learn to talk with themselves, with their own feel gentle way to take good care of the heart.

in life, when you want to find an item, you can't find it all over the house. And when the fate is sufficient, self-sufficiency, you have been rummaging through the search for the item but inadvertently repeatedly appear in front of you. Love is the same, often the more you desire to have, the more you meet the right person. Even if the desire for tenderness together, but also love a lose-lose, badly beaten. And the love that is natural, the best. Do not have to be sad, do not have the effort, the edge gather is love, the edge is off, each other gentle say goodbye, apart later also can make friends.

However, the most sad love is, suddenly one day, you have a heart piercing love suddenly love you, but you are numb to love.

Fortunately, I can afford to wait until the years have passed. All alone in this world waits for me to wait. Because I believe that some day in the future, you will pick one of my favorite gardenia, wearing my favorite plaid shirt, canvas shoes, smiling hand to me, and then gently say, sorry, let you wait a lot. After the days, I accompany you through the spring and autumn, accompany you elixir, accompany you long-lasting.

time can do, not just let you forget a person, or some things. Time can also prove that your growth, prove that all your loneliness is to break the cocoon into a butterfly, prove that you spend strength and youth waiting is not wasted. A single person is like a butterfly, and before it breaks into a butterfly, it always has to go through a time of loneliness and uneasiness. You only have to be good enough in one person's time to be eligible for the pride of being single. Don't dwell on the past, because all you have is the present and tomorrow. Yesterday has become a luxury to miss, you still brooding what is the use of it.

I have a friend, female man character, there is a time to talk about others on their own views, she said, this world is not accepted the personnel too much, I can not control what others think of me, but what I could do is to live more unrestrained than others. Life is to live to see, whether he is applause or ridicule sound, his laughter is the most powerful. Life is not to live to let the people around to their satisfaction, the life of the script by himself, is not only the director of life, is also an actor, flat light does not represent mediocre inaction, vigorous also does not mean earth-shattering. Living in their own age, is the most important, the most tight.
 
we drew up want to make life rich and interesting, but do not know, the heart of the dull quiet is the true meaning of life. First of all to ensure the daily necessities of life, and then talk about the ideal, this is a netizen and I said, impressive. Also now, I know that each of us is not living their own favorite life, but in the life of various cries all kinds of wandering, in various wounds upstream. Now, I understand that in life, we have to like the "Journey to the People" in the face of difficulties, such as the Sun Wukong not afraid of difficulties, and tenacious defeat adversity, when lost, do not like pig, only know the chatter of the complaints, walking in the road, like the sand monk, honest diligent, less say more do; Then, like the Tang priest, know humility and Thanksgiving.

There is always some good, is hard to wait for the change. So, you have to believe that the coming of your own. Just you need to be quiet and patient wait, in the process of waiting, try to make yourself richer and stronger. You have to remember, the successful people are not like the rabbit never stop running, but like the tortoise, although slow, but appreciate the scenery along the way, with enthusiasm and perseverance of the efforts, will also win.

waiting, is to better meet, in order to have more opportunities to choose the right person. Wait is not picky, also not above his business, wait just let oneself learn indifferent life, the right choice. However, in the lonely waiting for this period of time, it is precisely the experience of life. Chai Jing wrote in "See" a book, there is such a sentence, impressive. "Pain is wealth, and that is nonsense." Girl, pain is pain, thinking of pain is wealth. "Yes, so is love. Do not always take the wounded love as a growth path, more pain, will be afraid. Haven't heard of once bitten, ten years afraid of twice shy? If you always get hurt in love, you will only make yourself more and more vulnerable.

If you are lonely at the moment, cry aloud, do not be strong, and do not use women to conceal their vulnerability. You are still young, you also need to care for others, attentive, why pretend to be a drug-like. I know that being single is a tough day. Want to seriously cherish a fate, but no one with their own love. When you want to travel far away with someone you love, the person you wait for is a belated one. However, do not be afraid, you must believe that in the most difficult days if you can live a calm, a kind of the way of life, but also the well-being.
Dear, we are all children inside, the appearance of strong only to prevent being bullied. Patiently waiting for a love, while looking for, like young, when the fruit mature, to pick berries on the hillside, like sick in the hospital, waiting for the body to get better, go to dinner, like the first time on campus, afraid of the night, waiting for the morning, like the first day, afraid to work late, early waiting for the bus; In order to give them a surprise, a few days in advance to prepare a gift, waiting for their birthday to come. You see, these waits are look forward, hopeful, can be realized. So, you have to believe that now lonely short of a person living just to let themselves meet better people, in order not to live, can have a better choice.

each of us will meet with their own through the life of the people, not because of loneliness and live in love. Dear, you must believe that you can always wait for a pair of feelings before you are too old to be powerless.

dear, you don't have to be afraid, the years have plenty of time for you to meet better people.

You don't have to be afraid, there's plenty of time for you to meet someone better (Shen Shanshu)