You have nothing, you have everything

I. Talking about life

When I was away from home that year, I tried to plug "slam dunk experts" into my hard drive. My mom looked at me with a sick look and seemed to say: "People who are so big are still so fond of watching cartoons."

I don't know how to respond to her, so I have to shrugged, because I really can't tell my dear girl what this anime means to me.

You know, some songs have some power. Even if it has been hidden on your mobile phone for several years, even if it has passed the golden period for a long time, even fewer and fewer people will mention it. You just know that when you hear this song, when you read those cartoons, you will think of yourself before, and you will gain an inexplicable power. This kind of force can make you feel your pace and let you run in a different way than the world, and you can hear yourself. For example, the forever butterfly and The World's End are more reliable than memories.

What impressed you most in your memory must be your own. It is only at this time that you find that, while you are clamoring for "time changes too fast", the most changed people are yourself in the so-called "things are not people. I don't know how life is the most terrible, but I know that when you look back one day, when you find everything you once said, everything you once vowed to say is nothing more than to say, it won't be easy.

As if people grow up, they will lose a lot of things. For example, the simple things that make you feel happy for a day, the ability to make yourself cry and laugh, and the people who once joined together. The most terrible thing is not to lose these things, but to make you feel at ease. You start to comfort yourself. This is growth. This is what we will eventually become. You just made an excuse to continue your life and sneer at yourself.

It's just that when you hear the old songs, or when you see someone sticking to his own path, you will get a big mouth from yourself.

Looking at others' efforts and then turning back to live your own life, why have you ever lived your desired life?

2. Work hard to give yourself an explanation

Once I went to Beijing with my friends to discuss a project, and the other party went to Beijing in a standard fashion. This is the third year of his character that has never changed. This is his third job in the third year, and he has never been secure. He said: "I have seen a lot of people over the years. Some people don't have to do anything to have a good prospect. Some people are desperate to survive in this city ."

A little girl she met at Hujiang, who had almost spent a year abroad with her boyfriend, but then they broke up. Later, she decided to go to Shanghai by herself. When she was the hardest hit, she didn't even have to eat any food. She took a few steamed buns and hid them in the subway station. She didn't know where to go.

Once I was unable to understand why it was better to come back to my parents to work and stay with them. Why in a big city. Just like the girl who cried in a motor car I once wrote, she had to go home. I once thought this was not worth it, but when I was faced with a choice one day, I finally understood what kind of mood they felt when making decisions.

The wandering buddy said that even if he had struggled for the rest of his life, at least he would have no excuse, and would not regret it when he was old. Are you sure it is worth it? I think it is worthwhile. Although my direct character brings a lot of trouble to myself, this is me, and this is my way of being.

In fact, all the wandering people just want to one day be able to stop drifting, and use their own strength to support their family members and those they love. What do you think is the best life status? I think the best way to live is to stick to your ideals at your young age, and finally let yourself live in plain ways. It is naturally the best to realize your dream, but it is no pity that you fail to realize your dream. The first step to growth is to accept the diversity of the world, recognize the bad reality, and then decide to stick to the initial insistence.

When I was a child, I always yelled at and tried my best to change the world. However, now I feel that some people work hard to become ordinary people, and some people work hard to explain to themselves, maybe we are always a small person, but this does not prevent us from choosing the way to live. I think that those who, after seeing the helplessness of life, still choose not to be perfunctory, do not complain, do not feel inferior, and still love life, and still strive to do well in the side of the people's side, the effort is their own explanation.

Just as when I talked to my friends about where to go to work, we finally came to the conclusion that no matter in which city it is actually not easy to survive, but no matter what it looks like, you can afford it yourself.

I have the courage to make choices. Naturally, I have to be able to bear the consequences.

3. Only action can relieve all your uneasiness

You say that you want to be a freelance writer, but you never see you writing a manuscript; you say that you want to take a postgraduate entrance exam, you never see you back-to-words to do the question; you see the school bully, So you sneer at it and say it's boring to be alive; when you see someone traveling, it's just a big stream. I began to doubt whether your mouth was an excuse to escape from reality. I began to wonder if you were getting restless over and over again in self-comfort.

So you gradually succumb to your own desires. Although we can have a better life in a few years, we must buy the latest package now. It seems that the outcome is the most important thing for everyone to begin to reach a certain degree of social status and material conditions. However, have you ever wondered whether all your efforts are to satisfy your desires or to pursue your ambition? As Wang Feng said in his song: "When few people walk, they are stuck in the same place. How many people are alive but dead? when many people love, they seem to be separated. When many people smile, they are full of tears."

One day, you finally found that you achieved the expected results, but after that, you never knew how to continue.

When you are in your early twenties, place yourself in your early twenties. You have no reason or ability to possess the experience and wealth of a 40-year-old person. You have nothing but the youth you have, but you have only a few things at hand, determines who you are.

I don't know if there is a sense of security in this world, or because everyone says they are insecure, you also feel insecure. I have only two definitions of security. One is that the energy given to you by others will disappear one day. Only the security that you give yourself is the most reliable, and only action will bring you a sense of security; second, always remember that no matter what kind of virtue you are, you are the security of your parents.

So when you feel uneasy, think about the parents behind you, think about how they are working for you, think about your original intention, and then raise your head and continue to reluctantly go on.

Only action can relieve all your uneasiness.

4. Have a Dream and don't complain

Day by day, we will eventually become rich or pale because of our efforts or degradation.

If I have time, I spend two hours reading a book every day. If I don't have time, I can spend 20 minutes before going to bed. On weekends, I can read a complete book. I did it twice if I did not do well in my thesis. I was asked to write nearly 10 thousand words in my documents and then delete them. Writing a good article is luck. If a person has been writing it all the time, it depends on hard work. More often, the attitude of the world to you depends on your attitude to the world, and there is no good complaint.

Why do we have to continue? Why are we not willing to give up one person and one ideal even though we are disappointed?

Everyone is still walking forward, just because he wants to move forward, just because he does not want to surrender like the world. Maybe no one is exactly the same as you, and no one can stay with you all the time. Maybe we will look back a long time later, and we will not be able to remember what we cherish. However, my greatest luck is that, even so, someone is willing to accompany me through this period in a limited time. I am willing to work with me for the sake of my dream and go through those lonely moments.

In this way, life is really good.

When you read a book, you see a headache and a red eye; when you press the remote control to stop turning; when you flip the address book and don't know who to call; when you are alone in the crowd watching the lights on both sides of the Taiwan Strait and cannot find a sense of belonging, you should listen to a song, read a book, and think about your initial insistence and your reasons for standing in this place, then she looked up and walked down bravely.

There is a saying in this song: "Are you looking for a reason to follow the stream or be brave enough to get rid of the cage?", I think, you know the answer.

You have nothing, but you have everything, because you still have a dream. As long as you choose the path, you are not afraid to go far. You will always leave something for those who have confidence in it.