You think you are very strong, in fact, the circle is too weak!

small white Jutting a jutting: let weaker than you, younger than you, lower than you do not call the ability to praise, so stronger than you, longer than you, taller than the people who praise is a hero. In their own inherent scope of excellence is not considered outstanding, true excellence, often is beyond their own inherent scope and level. Use Guo Degang words say is: "not oneself more have ability, main is peer of foil." "

A Gaofu to me that he recently around a lot of beautiful women spare tire, some even have a husband's woman, usually always ask her out to eat and drink and even other. He thought his charm was so great. I was curious to ask: "Are you the most handsome one in these beautiful circles?" He said: "Yes, I certainly am not." And I asked, "Is that the housewife you came out with?" He said: "No, it's all skittish." ”

I said: "The question is very clear, not your charm, but you are not worth the money." "He puzzled. I added: "A good family of girls ignore you, a bunch of green tea contact you." You think you're popular, and you're actually just worthless. Anyone who chooses what they think is worthless is free to play with. You should not be complacent, but reflect on why you gather so many people around you, and why the cheap people dare to tease you. He was indifferent and pulled several people black.

A sister to me, feel around the people are not equal to her, she now has no motivation to move forward, feel no need to work hard. I said, "How many cows do you have now?" She said I now class first, the student union Minister, English IELTS also tested 6.5 points. Think there is nothing to work on.

I am helpless to say: "The child you say your school general, be a chicken head is worth you to be proud of?" Student union minister that is how many "official", canteen meal to offer not? As for the IELTS 6.5, I am embarrassed to tell others if my score is so low. You're going to show off! " She refused: "Brother, I have been the best in our class good?" I answer: "Good, but the society is not only the classmates in your class." "She is silent, Cambridge IELTS really go."

When I was in England, I met a friend who was a black man in Chinatown. Every time I see him will tell me that I bought a discount Armani Jeans and so on. I feel that I am very successful now, and I am not the same as the people who speak home. I asked, what do you usually do? Did you learn something to read? He said no Ah, do not need to learn, has already done so.

I said, "brother, where are you?" who are you compared to? A bunch of black cooks let you down? He said no, and he was better than his family. I mend the knife: "If you must put your life in the cook or the farmer, we have nothing to talk about." The reason you are invincible now is because you have a big slap in the world. He thought, "Brother, you're right." "Now his little business is doing the wind and the wind.

If one day we find that I am the best in our circle, on the one hand it may be that we really give strength, on the other hand, it is very likely that our circle is too weak, our environment is full of the weak, our opponents are very frustrated. when we are called Gaofu or white rich beauty, we are not really "high-handsome" or "white rich beauty", but the real Gaofu and mating do not play with us.

Because in their opinion we are too weak, even in the eyes of many weaker people we are already a cow. And the most terrible thing is that we often unexpectedly because of the weaker people than us like and a few points of applause, unexpectedly self-righteous, complacent up. Not to say hang up the vanguard of the large Indian we are a generation, Zhao Yun have Zhao Yun Circle, Liao has the circle of Liao.

A long time ago I felt like I had a strong feeling about myself. Then slowly found that, many times we feel that the cow is very big, it is likely that we are weak, because it is not our cattle, but our competitors are weak. And why are our competitors weak? It is because we are weak, so fell to a weak platform, so the platform to fight against the opponents are also very weak.

You are in the Wang Wang is not equal to your level of football, because not a La Liga players with you here to tackle the ball shovel, you in the CBA All star to get a score king is not worth your belittlin ' world, this year 40-year-old Carter still will not ducked look at you, even if you ko the king of Muay Thai, WWE you may still be divided into

In a three school of the academic Daniel, but to the elite may be dwarfed; In an investment bank with high wages, to the hedge fund circle to the people, in a small city local tyrants, to Beijing and Shanghai basically no sense of existence. So whenever we consciously "invincible in the World", why not reflect on: maybe, not I have more skills, but I do not have enough skills. Oneself not enough ability and because oneself in a slap big small circle Wang Wang and complacent and then even have no ability. in the words of Guo Degang: "Not their own more skills, mainly peer foil." "

The more the ox, the easier it is to realize that you are small.

A man's vision is a spiral. The bigger your vision, the bigger the spiral, the bigger the perimeter you realize, the more aware of your shortcomings. High school graduation think oneself can "make contributions", undergraduate graduation feel oneself can "a career", Master graduation think oneself can "married", PhD graduate feel oneself "rare graduation".

Mr. Chen Daisun, the founder of Chinese economics, said, "One thing I've done in my life is teaching." "Chen Daoming also has never repeatedly stressed that he is an" ordinary actor. A few days ago there was a chat with a great God who had already studied at Tsinghua's principal scholarship at the top universities in the United States. He is already recognized as the academic god of our classmates, but he feels more and more poor. When we call him "master", he answers only: "Do it slowly and hopefully there will be progress." ”

The more platform is high, the easier it is to realize that you are deficient.

When we are in a master such as the cloud environment, there is always a circle of the strong will be our weak comparison of the incisively and vividly. "Linen, do not help but straight", even if you want to be complacent, the great God's light shines under you have to wussy, humble and restrained. Instead is "The Mountain no Tiger" small waste hills, easy to let not understand loose why things monkey called Overlord.

Can always see some small county local tyrants and their children driving a BMW hit people, Wang Wang, but Beijing real entrepreneurs and the second generation of Lamborghini to comply with traffic regulations honestly. After all, have not seen the true Buddha of pilgrims, to a fortune-teller will be respectful, let alone with the more vulgar people around their own a bit more than a few cents, still not domineering flying up.

The more opponents are strong, the easier they become aware of their danger.

Martial Arts Master never Zuoyi is always fist to himself, because master all understand "heavens beyond heavens, people outside someone." The life-and-death competition in the jungle, the survival is to know the light flashy and modest efforts of the master, because do not understand the light flashy and modest efforts are dead. It is not God who makes the Jews destined to be clever, but when the thousand-year-old Babylonian prisoners of the wandering nation, not operating wisdom will be wiped out.

A slag is not terrible, afraid of the competition with his people more slag, contrast to him is a genius, its ending will be hung; a small boss eating and drinking gambling is not scary, afraid to compete with his boss more eating and drinking gambling, he is a conscientious entrepreneur, the outcome will be miserable.

When we find that people around us are stronger than we are, we are likely to progress, and when we find that people around us are similar, we are likely to be in the same place, and when we find that people are inferior to us, we are likely to regress.

When we find that in this circle I have been invincible, that your circle has not been able to support your further development, if you are in this circle, can only explain your strength to this point. Instead of being respectful to the low-circle gaze, try to get into the high circle and feel cynical. After all, the "deferential" you have today is also the "cynicism" of the year.

Whenever we are happy because of some of our own or big or small achievements, may wish to remind ourselves, perhaps this achievement is countless than we are more outstanding people are dismissive, the reason we will be proud of this achievement, not because of the achievements of the attention, but we are not qualified to achieve higher achievements.

The reason why we seem to be "Cavatina" at some point in some way is not because of the absolute strength of our power, but by the fact that the real bull is in the middle of a busy, high-end atmosphere, or that the real bull is gathering in a platform that we have to work on for a long time.

For example, I did not say that I took calculus 100 points is my math cow, that is because the students of the mathematical great God will not learn the same math as me, nor that I bonus in the department of the highest business ability of the best trader, it is because the industry experts have already engaged in hedge fund as a boss.

Of course, getting results, no matter how big or small, is a must. Just if we pursue progress but once and for all, with dreams but self-righteous, it is not very good. Yesterday we eliminated the person, may tomorrow will eliminate us.

When we dwell on the unlocking of self-righteous deeds, those who are stronger than us are prospering, and those who are similar to us are working tirelessly, and those who are worse than us are whistling. We'd better have an alarm clock ticking on our gold medal for a fixed achievement. Whenever we fall asleep in the credit book, the alarm clock will Reigne ears, remind us: "Not you too much, but the platform cold, not how wide you are, but weak opponents." ”

In addition, everyone has a life attitude, everyone has a way of life. If the pursuit of calm, self-needless to say, small rich namely Ann, open-minded and accommodating can be. This world does not need everyone all fire, courageously forward, society should not everyone tireless, just as Chuang Tzu said: "Obscurity also have, and know also is boundless." With the infinite, the endless! "

So in some small open happy heart, calmly life is also a good choice. Just, for those who are determined to achieve something in certain aspects, complacent in the results, comfortable in the status quo is not very good. Because we may take our "results" as a matter of fact, but our role models and opponents will not.

If we want to be more bull, have more resources and make more social contributions, we don't need to stare at being recognized, how many people applaud, but in the process of struggle, look at those we want to identify with their own people, hoping to give us applause.

Because it is easy to be recognized, the key is to be recognized by whom, it is not important for us to applaud, the important thing is who gives us applause. Let weaker than you, younger than you, lower than you do not call the ability to praise, so stronger than you, longer than you, taller than the people who praise is a hero. In their own inherent scope of excellence is not considered outstanding, true excellence, often is beyond their own inherent scope and level.

In short, to achieve high achievements, there is no need to be complacent, on the one hand we may not be in a high enough platform to fight, on the one hand, the real master may be disdain to do our opponents. What we need to do is not to hang the gold plaque complacent, drums, but a slight smile, and then climb the peak.

Next time, next time, when we get another peak, we can tell ourselves: "I'm good, but I can match up to higher achievement." ”

You think you are very strong, in fact, the circle is too weak!