You treat a woman well and you don't let her fall in love with you.

I recognize the truth:

How do you feel about a woman like you don't have a half-dime relationship with her ?

Before, I think: good for women, women will like you; the better she is, the more she will like you. If you're not good to a woman, she'll hate you.

So when I like a woman, I try to be nice to her.

such as gifts, please eat, watch movies, daily send Good morning sms (hair some chicken soup). I hope that women have problems to find themselves, so that they have the opportunity to show.

Always fantasy heroes Save the beautiful scene. For example, in a dangerous moment, you stand up, so that women will like me.

But in fact, the above behavior does not have any egg, and will not let a woman who does not like you therefore like you.

If a woman does not like you, you do the above, still do not change the fact that do not like you.

But why do we still beg to make a woman like herself by these good (even flattering) acts?

Root cause: We let women pick, we are interviewed, women are interviewers . I am not worthy of women, I am less valuable than women.

So we want women to choose themselves.

How to make a woman choose herself? That's to curry favor with women.

To please women is what I have been doing, is firmly believe that the matter.

We have a mind to agree:

(1) cannot make a woman angry;

(2) Do not let a woman feel stingy;

(3) Can not say that women are not good;

(4) Can not say women's shortcomings;

(5) cannot refuse a woman;

(6) Women are scarce.

(7) The woman refuses us, must be our bad, our question;

(8) If a woman likes me, it's my pleasure.

(9) Can not make a fool in front of women, in front of women to behave well;

(10) Women like the things that I like

(11) Try to meet all the demands of a woman, whether I like it or not.

...

There's a lot more,

But now it seems that most of them are wrong (the yellow one is wrong).

Just like the figure below

We always think that women's value and status than we are high, so we must put their posture low, to please, begging for a woman to give a little love to us.

This is the root of our erroneous thinking.

Summary :

(1) The root of the problem: mistakenly believe that women are worth more than our men , women are scarce resources, I am not worthy of women ;

(2) Result: Men are always pleasing to women, hoping to give a little love to a man through good women.

But we don't want to admit that we have nothing to do with women and women like Us , and note that there is no relationship.

And even counterproductive: the better you are with a woman who doesn't like you, the more she hates you and the farther away you are.

Star effect:

Because we think women are scarce resources, just like precious gold, diamonds,

So we will not consciously beautify the woman, that is now popular "goddess", that women are all good, even put the fart is fragrant.

So many of us men "kneel/lick", this behavior is no different from chasing stars.

But it's a pity that this kind of behavior doesn't make women like us.

we think it's a big chasm for women to like what we do and what really makes women like us . Even the opposite is true.

This has caused our cognitive biases.

So what kind of behavior would make a woman like us?

(1) Making women invest

For example, let the woman give herself pat, pour water for oneself.

(2) Making fun of women

A woman's joke.

(3) Humor

(4) Have a definite opinion, not always ask a woman's advice

(5) The woman can not fathom, the woman will struggle: whether he likes me or not

(6) Full of positive energy, not always sighing, complaining, discouraging

(7) Dare to disagree with women, not afraid of women angry

(8) No matter but friendly

(9) different

(10) Steady, will not panic, will not be overwhelmed;

(11) The ability to mobilize a woman's emotions

(12) To play a woman in good faith;

(13) Make her angry and funny;

(14) Self-confidence

The core idea is:

I am the most important, I am choosing a woman, not a woman is picking me . I need to decide if this woman is worthy of me .

The starting point of the above behavior is: let women have emotional fluctuations.

You treat a woman well and you don't let her fall in love with you.