You're not as important as you think, not so many people deliberately targeting you.

Often people struggle with other people's attitude and practice, puzzled to ask me, why some people are very good to others, but it is against their own? What should I do? This may be true, but the bigger possibility is that the illusion.

Usually, the girl paper is the main thing to ask.

I actually want to ask: "Girl, do you look like an angel?" Are you Caigaobadou? If the above three questions are affirmative, then it is possible to be jealous. And if not, in general, even if the new people are conspicuous, others will not be how much. Especially big City big company, everybody sweep in front of snow, star of gossip also far than colleague's gossip attracts person, besides colleague also want to suspicion. Is it glorious to bully a newcomer? If the boss looks in the eye and feels that there is no team spirit, that also affects their performance appraisal.

If the boss is arranged to bring new people, do not focus on is possible, but deliberately targeted, usually not so silly.

Encounter ask Sanbuzhi situation, the new people themselves more attention, and mouth dessert, diligent point, sent a salary please colleagues to eat dinner to get a feeling--do not specifically leak feel for their own person, that is really targeted-this is not the workplace thick black, is the art of interpersonal communication.

Whether it is China or Korea or Japan's palace fight drama, there is a beautiful, such as the flower of the Lord is so spoiled by other concubine jealous heroine, she as a small white rabbit general pure, the last resort to take all kinds of counter-attack, Or she's not going to have to fight back. Anyway, she always has a guardian flower messenger or a male or female for her to block the enemy not to let her lovely hands stained with blood, to the end, the good and beautiful people eventually become a sinful, the end of the people have to repay.

But the real world is not a kung-pao drama.

You're not as important as you think, not so many people deliberately targeting you.