30-year career experience

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Unhappy because you don't know what you want. Are you happy to work? Do you feel unhappy after a while? Do you feel that you have not received the proper treatment? Do you think it is a pain to go to work every day? Do you think the current company is not as good as you thought? Do you get what you want from your work? Have you ever wondered why you are unhappy? In fact, the root cause of your unhappiness is that you don't know what you want! You don't know what you want, so you don't know what to pursue, and you don't know what to pursue, so you don't get anything. I always think that the first thing to focus on in my career is myself. What do I want? Most people probably haven't thought about this. The only idea is: I want a job, I want a good salary, and I know everyone's desire for a salary. However, do you want to start looking for a job every several years? Do you want to spend a year in this kind of anxiety about work and salary? If you don't want. The more anxious you are, the more you feel that you need a job. The more hungry you are, the more difficult you are to think about it. The more likely you are to fail, the worse your experience is, the person in the next job frowned upon your resume. There will be a lot of anxiety when there is pressure to survive. Positive people will get motivation from anxiety, while negative people will get lost due to anxiety. Everyone must make a choice under pressure. This is the world's path. Whether you like it or not. There is no easy success in the world. If you succeed, you have to pay the price. Please forget the pressure of survival and think about what you want most in your life? Therefore, first think about what you want. What is a good job is a face-to-face job, and they also like comparison. Even at work, they also like comparison, whether they are what they want or not. We all think that foreign companies are good, but where are they doing? Are they in a better office building? Are they on a business trip to a better hotel? Will others envy a job in a foreign company? Why do you have to work so hard to show it to others? Whether looking for a job is to consider what you want or what others want to see? Most of my college students are in the United States. I have several cousins who have gone abroad. Their parents are in China alone, and no one cares about them. Several times, no one knows when they are at home. So good to go abroad? As some people say, "a lot of things are like watching **. People who read things think they are great, and they may not be doing things ." People always want to find the best, but what is the best? Do you think it's the best, because you know it, or because others say it's the best? Even if he is the best for others, will he always be the best for you? You must be the clearest about what you want. others' opinions are not that important. Many people are often influenced by the opinions of others, the opinions of their relatives, and those of their friends ...... The question is, who is your life? A person's life is not a sequent of his or her parents, nor a forward message of his or her children's life, nor an external article of his or her life. Only you are responsible for your own life, and others cannot afford this responsibility. At least in the end, I have nothing to regret. I think a good job should be a job suitable for you. Specifically, it should be a job that can bring you what you want. You still need to figure out what you want first. If you don't know what you want, you will never find a good job, because you will always only see what you don't get, what you get, it's all you don't want. Maybe, the best is already by your side, but you have not learned to cherish it. People always stare at what they don't get and ignore what they get. Not every time a car hits a red light, not every criminal will be caught. Not every mistake will be punished, not every corrupt official will be killed, not every effort of yours will be rewarded, not every persistence of yours will be seen. Not every effort of yours can be fairly reported, not every kind of goodwill can be understood ...... This is the world. Sometimes, people need patience and confidence. It is usually the best way for everyone to wait for unfair events. Sometimes we need to endure the loneliness and wait for the moment that belongs to you. Zhou runfa waited, Liu Dehua waited, and Zhou xingchi waited ...... Once you see the successful people they are today, have you ever seen their waiting and patience? Have you ever seen the Golden Horse Award movie Emperor spread on the street? Have you ever seen a group of people in deyun community say crosstalk to an audience in the theater? Have you ever seen that Stephen Chow's role does not even have a line? Every successful person has a hard time. In the best days of their lives, they desire to succeed, but they are empty-handed, just as you are now. No one guarantees that they will succeed in the future, and their choice is to endure loneliness. People will always encounter setbacks, people will always have low tides, people will always be not understood, people will always have to whisper, these are exactly the most critical times in life, because everyone will encounter setbacks, and most people will not be able to pass this threshold. If you can pass, you will succeed. At such a moment, we need to wait patiently and confidently. Believe that life will not give up on you, and opportunities will always come. At least, you are still young, you are not in jail, you are not ill, and you are not in debt. There are far more people than you are unfortunate. What are you afraid? The road goes step by step. Although it is very exciting to reach the end, most of the steps are ordinary or even boring, but without these steps, or can't bear these ordinary and boring steps, in the end, you will not be able to see the excitement at the end. Adversity is where God helps you eliminate competitors. You know, you are not good at it, and others are not good at it. You can't stick to it, and others are the same. Never tell others that you can't hold on, so you can only give others confidence in your persistence, let competitors look at your smiling face, lose confidence, and quit the competition. Victory belongs to those who are patient. I always think that, in a very large scope, what kind of person will we become? The decision is on our own. Every day, every moment we make such a decision, we can be casual, or spend more time, thousands of small choices accumulate, it determines what kind of people we are ultimately. In a sense, our future is not what others give, but what we choose. Every day, you can choose whether to provide more considerate services to customers, whether to be more patient with colleagues, whether to make the work more detailed, and whether to clarify unclear questions ...... Every day, life gives you the opportunity to choose. Every day, you are given the opportunity to change your own life. You can choose to stick your teeth on the ground or stand up. You always have a choice. Some options are not immediate and need to be accumulated. For example, a farmer can choose to water the earth frequently or let God water the earth. It is true that the seedlings will not grow soon today, but often watering, most of the seedlings will eventually grow out, if you don't pour, the harvest will be very bad. What kind of person you will eventually become will decide between your small choices. What do you choose to believe? Who do you choose to make friends? What do you choose to do? What do you choose to do ?...... We are faced with too many choices. For example, it is not that important to choose what products to make. Choosing who to use is not important, but how to bring these talents is important. It doesn't matter if you select objective conditions most of the time. There is no right or wrong choice of objective conditions. What matters is how you choose. I dare not say that you have a choice for all things, but you have a choice for most things, but you often do not regard this as a choice. Taking each choice seriously will lead to a better future. The experience of Vanke, Wang Shi, on the Everest summit has inspired me a lot. Although a lot of materials are carried at departure, the load must be continuously reduced during the summit, in the end, only one oxygen cylinder and he mounted to the peak. It's not a long life to climb a mountain. What we need most in life is not rules, but opportunities and actions at the right time. I believe that most people have their own ideals, but I also believe that many people simply regard these ideals