51 classic stories 5

Iv. Hold the judge
　　
How easy it is to make others' lives a little different and have a little light!
Li xiapu is a retired judge. He is very loving. In his life, he always takes love as the premise, because he understands that love is the greatest power. Therefore, he always embraces others. His college student gave him the nickname "hug the judge. Even the car's bumper says, "don't bother me! Hug me! "
About six years ago, he invented the so-called "Hug Equipment ". It says, "A heart changes to a hug. "It contains 30 embroidered hearts that can be pasted on the back. He often carries "Hug Equipment" to the crowd, by giving a red heart, for a hug.
Li was so famous that many people invited him to give speeches at related meetings or conferences. He always shared the concept of "unconditional love" with others. Once, during a conference in Los Angeles, the local tabloids challenged him: "It is easy to embrace the people attending the Conference, because they chose to attend the conference, but this does not work in real life. "
They asked Lee if he could hug passers-by on the streets of Los Angeles. A large number of TV workers followed Li to visit the streets. First, Li greeted the women who passed by: "Hi! I'm Li xiapu, and everyone calls me 'Hold the judge '. Can I use this kind of love to hug you. "Women readily agree that local news commentators think this is too simple. Li looked around. He saw a traffic policewoman who was issuing a ticket to a BMW car owner. Li walked forward without a rush, and all the cameras followed closely. Then he said, "You look like you need a hug. I'm a 'hug judge. 'You can give me a hug for free. "The female police accepted it.
The TV commentator encountered the final problem: "Look, there is a bus there. It is well known that bus drivers in Los Angeles are the most difficult, complaining, and grumpy. Let's see if you can get a hug from the driver? "Li accepted this challenge.
When the bus stops at the roadside, Li talks with the driver on the Bus: "Hi! I'm Judge Li, and they told me to hug the judge '. Driving is a very stressful job! I want to embrace some people today, so that people can shoulder the burden and continue to work. Do you need a hug? "The 6-foot, two hundred and thirty-pound bus driver left his seat and walked down the car. He said happily," Okay! "
Li hugged him and gave him a red heart. He said goodbye while watching the car go. The interview staff were speechless. Finally, the commentator had to admit that he had accepted the defeat.
One day, Lee's friend nanxi? Jenston came to visit him. She is a professional clown, dressed in clown costumes, and painted on the face of the clown.
She invited Li to bring his "Hug Equipment" together to visit his disabled home.
After they arrived, they began to distribute balloons, hats, red hearts, and hug the patients there. Li felt very sad because he had never embraced a dying patient, a person with severe mental retardation or paralysis of his limbs. It was barely at first, but after a while, nanxi and Li felt much easier after being encouraged by doctors and nurses.
Several hours later, they finally came to the last ward. There, Li saw the 34 patients he had seen the worst in his life, and his mood suddenly became very complicated. Their task is to divide their love out and light up the lights in the patient's heart, so Li and Nan Xi began to share joy. The room was crowded with encouraging medical staff.
Their neckline was full of red hearts and they wore cute balloon caps on their heads.
Finally, Li came to the last patient, Li Ao? Nadine. Leo was wearing a white bib and drool with a dull look. Li said to nanxi, "let's skip it and leave him alone! "Nan Xi replied:" But he is one of us! "Then she put the funny balloon cap on Leo's head. Li put a red heart on his bib. He took a deep breath and bent down to hug Leo.
Suddenly, Leo began to laugh, and other patients began to jingle the room. When Li turned around and asked the medical staff what it was like, he saw all the physicians and nurses weeping. Li had to ask the head nurse what happened.
Li will never forget her answer: "For the first time in 23 years, we saw Leo smile. "
How easy it is to make others' lives a little different and have a little light!
　　
-- Jack? Canphil, Mark? Hansen
Forty-five, I am important
　　
People who respect others will also be respected by others. Like standing in front of the mirror, you get angry with him, and you laugh at him.
A teacher who taught in New York decided to tell her students how important they were to express their appreciation for them.
She decided to adopt the practice I advocate, that is, to call the students one by one to the podium, and then tell everyone the importance of this student to the entire class and to her, and then give each person a blue ribbon, the word "I am important" is written in gold. "
Then the teacher wanted to make a research plan in the class to see what impact such an action would have on a community. She gave each student three ribbons and taught them to give the same Thank-You ceremony to others. Then she observed the results and returned to the class report one week later.
A boy in the class went to a neighboring company to find a young supervisor who once guided him to complete his life planning.
The boy put a blue ribbon on his shirt, gave two more pins, and explained, "We are doing a research, we must go out and give the blue ribbons to the distinguished people and give you extra pins so that they can share the same Thank-You ceremony with others. Please tell me the result of this operation next time. "
After a few days, the young supervisor went to see his boss. In some ways, his boss is an angry and difficult-to-get-along colleague, but he is very talented. He expressed his admiration for his creative talent to the boss, and the boss was surprised.
The young supervisor then asked him to accept the blue ribbon and asked him to help him stay away. The surprised boss readily agreed.
The young man put the ribbons at the top of his coat and his heart, gave him the pins left, and asked him, "could you help me? Send this ribbon to the person you want to thank. This is what a boy gave me. He is conducting a study. We would like to extend this thank-You ceremony to see what will happen to you. "
That night, the boss came home and sat beside his 14-year-old son, telling him: "Today is an incredible thing. In the office, a young colleague told me that he admired my creative talents and gave me a blue ribbon. Think about it. He thinks that my creative talents are so respectable that I even put the ribbons that are printed with "I am very important" on my jacket and gave me another pin, let me give my gratitude to the distinguished person. When I drove home tonight, I began to think about who would like to give the pin? You are the one I want to thank.
"I have never spent much effort to take care of you and accompany you when I return home these days. I feel ashamed.
Sometimes I yell at you because your academic performance is not good enough and the room is too messy. But tonight, I just want to sit here and let you know how important you are to me. Besides your mother, you are the most important person in my life. Good boy, I love you. "
His child was surprised. He began to cry, and finally began to cry. He looked at his father and burst into tears and said, "Dad, I originally planned to commit suicide tomorrow. I thought you didn't love me at all. Now I think that is no longer necessary. "
Forty-six gifts
　　
Love will not be old. It will keep the eternal flame and the eternal glory. The existence of the world will take it as a nourishment.
-- Left pull
　　
This touching story happened in a bus that traveled along a remote southern road.
The passenger in the car, a thin old man holding a bunch of flowers in his hand, came up with a girl when the car passed through the church, staring at the flowers of the old man.
When the old man was about to get off the bus, he suddenly pushed the flowers in his hands to the girl's arms. He hurriedly explained: "I can see that you like this flower. I think my wife will be glad that you have it. I will tell her that I gave you the flowers. "
After accepting the flowers, the girl watched the old man get off and watched him walk slowly to the door of a small cemetery.
Forty-seven, my brother's wish
　　
People should put themselves in mind, not those who are happier than us, but those who are more sympathetic than us.
-- Rousseau
　　
During Christmas, Paul's brother gave him a new car. On Christmas Day, when Paul left the office, a boy went around the shiny new car and asked with great admiration: "Sir, is this your car? "
Paul nodded. "This is a Christmas gift from my brother. "The boy was surprised and said:
"You mean this is a gift from your brother. Didn't you spend half a cent? I want ......"
Of course, Paul thought he wanted to have a brother who gave him a car, but what the boy talked about was so shocking to Paul.
"I hope I can become a brother who delivers a car to my brother. "The boy continued.
Paul looked at the boy with amazement and rushed out to invite him: "Do you want to take a ride in my car? "
The boy happily got on the bus and walked around for a short while, the child said with excitement in his eyes: "Sir, can you drive the car to the front of my house? "
Paul smiled. He thought that the boy would show off to his neighbors and let everyone know that he had taken a big car home.
I didn't expect Paul to guess again this time. "Can you park your car in front of those two steps? "The boy asked.
The boy ran up the ladder. After a while, Paul heard the sound of his return, but the movements seemed a little slow. It turned out that he came out with his lame brother and placed him on the step, holding him tightly and pointing to the new car.
The boy told his younger brother: "You see, this is the new car I just told you upstairs. This is what Paul and his brother gave him! In the future, I will also give you a car like this. At that time, you will be able to see the Christmas Ornaments hanging in the window. "
Paul walked down the car and carried the lame boy to the front seat of the car. The big boy who glared at his eyes climbed into the car and sat next to his brother. In this way, the three of them start an unforgettable holiday ride.
On that Christmas Eve, Paul realized what Jesus said, "Better than being.
Forty-eight, courage
　　
As long as we are able to live and die together, the pain becomes joy.
-- Roman? Roland
　　
"Do you think I have the courage? "She asked.
"Yes, you have the courage. "
"If I have some courage, it is also because I have been enlightened by some good teachers. I can give it to you.
Many years ago, I volunteered at the Stanford Hospital and met a little girl named Lisa. She suffers from a serious illness and is very rare. The only chance to save her life is to receive a blood transfusion from her five-year-old brother, who had suffered from the disease and was miraculously rescued, the body now produces antibodies that can be used to combat viruses. The doctor explained the situation to the boy and asked him if he was willing to give blood to his sister. As long as I saw him hesitate for half a second, I took a deep breath and said, 'If you can save Lisa, I 'd like. '"
"When the blood transfusion, he quietly lie beside his sister, seeing her cheeks restore rosy, he can not help but smile.
But then he put away his smile, looked pale at the doctor, and asked in a trembling voice: 'I will die right away? '"
"It turned out that he was too young to misunderstand the Doctor's meaning and thought that he would lose all his blood to his sister. "
"Yes, what did I learn is courage?" she added: "Because I saw an example. "
　　
-- Dan? Milman
Forty-nine, speak out your love
　　
No one can understand life if they don't love it.
-- Gorky
　　
I was invited to give a speech on efficient management in other places. On the evening of arrival, several people from the organizer invited me to dinner. By the way, I will talk about the audience who will listen to the speech tomorrow.
Eide is clearly the leader of these people, with a loud voice. He told me that he is the manager of a large international company and is mainly responsible for some branch offices to deal with the company's tough personnel problems and terminate the employment of some senior supervisors.
"Joe," he said: "I am very much looking forward to tomorrow's speech, because these people will know that my management method is correct after listening to your opinions. "He smiled at me proudly.
I smile, because I know that tomorrow is definitely different from what he imagined.
The next day, Eide listened to the speech and left the venue without saying a word.
Three years later, I went back to the old place and delivered another management speech to the same audience. I found ed again in the audience. Just before the speech began, he suddenly stood up and shouted at his throat and asked me, "Joe, can I say a few words first? "
I joked: "Of course, you are so burstable that you can say a few words, and I dare not stop you. "
"Everyone here knows me, and some of them know my recent changes. Today I want to share my experience with you. Joe, I am sure you will be glad to hear this. "
"In a speech three years ago, Joe once said that if you want to cultivate a strong will, you should first learn to say that I love you to the nearest person. At first I did not agree with this. I thought about the relationship between this kind of numbness and the tenacity of my will? Joe said that tenacity is different from hard, toughness is like leather, and hardness is like granite. A tough person should be an open mind, indomitable, self-disciplined, and flexible person, I agree with these words, but what does this have to do with love? "
"My wife and I sat at the two ends of the living room that night and thought about Joe's words. I found myself not brave enough to express my love to my wife. I cleared my throat several times, but when I spoke, I only gave some vague voices and swallowed up the rest. My wife looked up and asked me what I muttered just now. If I did not work together, I replied that it was okay. Suddenly, I got up and walked up to her, took the newspaper in her hand nervously, and said, 'Alice, I love you. 'She couldn't say she could not survive for a while, and tears filled her eyes. Then she said softly, 'I love you too. This is the first time you have ever said you love me in 25 years. '"
"At that time, we were deeply touched by love's ability to resolve all disputes and frictions. Suddenly, I was so encouraged that I immediately called my eldest son in New York and we had no contact for a long time. As soon as I heard his voice, I blurted out: 'Son, maybe you thought I was drunk, but now I am awake. I just called to tell you that I love you. '"
"He kept silence at the microphone for a moment, and then calmly said, 'Dad, I know you love me. It's so nice to hear you tell me that I want to tell you that I love you too. '"
We started to gossip and had a great chat. Then I called my youngest son in San Francisco and told him about the same thing. As a result, my father and son had been chatting for a long time.
"In bed that night, I thought deeply and finally understood the deeper meaning of what Joe said: If I can truly understand the meaning of loving people and practice it, it will have a positive impact on my management methods. "
"I began to read books on related topics and learned valuable experience from many people, So that I realized that this philosophy can be applied to all aspects of life, whether at home or at work. "
"Some of you know that I have completely changed the way I work with people. I began to listen carefully to others' ideas. I learned to appreciate others' strengths and care less about others' weaknesses. I also realized the joy of helping others build confidence. However, the most important thing is that I understand that the best way to respect others is to encourage them to make full use of their abilities to achieve the purpose of joint efforts. "
"Joe, thanks for the opportunity today. By the way, I am a deputy director of the company, and my leadership skills are quite positive. Okay, everybody. Listen to him now! "
　　
-- Joe? Belton
50. A compliment
　　
The more people hope for each other, the more they want to give to each other.
　　
A few days ago, I took a taxi with a friend in New York. When I got off the bus, my friend said to the driver, "Thank you. Your car is very comfortable. "The driver paused and said," Are you confused? "
"No, Mr. Driver, I am not looking for you to be happy. I admire you for being calm when traffic is chaotic. "
"Yes! "The driver then drove away.
"Why do you say that? "I am puzzled to ask.
"I want to make New York more humane," he replied. "Only in this way can this city be saved. "
"How can we do it with the power of one person? "
"I just took the lead. I believe that a small compliment can make the driver feel happy throughout the day. If he carries 20 passengers today, he will be kind to the 20 passengers, these passengers are infected by drivers and will be pleasing to the people around them. In this case, my good intentions can be indirectly sent to more than 1000 people, right? "
"But how do you expect the taxi driver to do what you want? "
"I didn't want him," replied my friend. "I know this practice is not an option, so I try to be as friendly as possible and praise others. Even if the success rate of one day is only 30%, but it can still affect as many as 3000 people. "
"I admit that this theory is quite interesting, but what is the actual effect? "" I have no loss even if it doesn't work! Praising the driver could not take me a few seconds, and he would not accept a few tips. If the man is indifferent, I can still praise another taxi driver tomorrow! "
"I think your head is a little naive. "
"From this we can see that you are becoming more and more indifferent. I have investigated post office employees. They are most frustrated by the fact that their salaries are meager and lack the recognition of others' work. "
"But their services are really bad! "
"That's because they think nobody cares about their service quality. Why don't we give them more encouragement? "
We chatted while walking through a construction site where five workers were taking lunch. My friend stopped and said, "This building is very good. Your work must be very dangerous and hard, right? "The group of workers looked at my friends with suspicion.
"When will the project be completed? "My friend continues to ask.
"May June. "A low response from a worker.
"You must be proud of your outstanding achievements. "
After leaving the construction site, I said to him, "You can also be listed as endangered animals. "
"These people may work harder for me. Why is this not a good thing for all people? "
"But what's your use alone? You are just a small citizen. "
"I often tell myself that we should never be discouraged. It is not a simple task to make this society more emotional. I can influence one person, one person, and two people ......"
"The girl you walked past is mediocre. Are you still smiling at her? "I interjected and asked.
"Yes! I know, "he replied," if she is a teacher, I think the people who take her lessons today must be like a spring breeze. "
　　
--? Bao qihua
. The last wish
　　
Wordless, pure, innocent, often more touching than talking.
-- Shakespeare
　　
The 26-year-old mother stared at her dying son, having been suffering from a patient with blood stasis. Although she is filled with sorrow, she also makes up her mind that, just like other parents, she wants her son to grow up and realize all her dreams. It's impossible now, because the disease will be entangled in him all the time. Even so, she still hopes her son's dream can be fulfilled.
She held her son's hand and asked, "What do you want to do when you grow up? Have you ever dreamed of your life? "
"Mommy, I always hope to become a fireman when I grow up. "
My mother smiled and said, "I want to see if you can make your wishes come true. "Later that day, she went to the fire brigade in the Phoenix City, alismana, and found the Fireman Bob, who had a big heart. The mother explained her son's desire to die, and asked if she could let him sit on the fire truck and turn around several times around the corner.
Bob said, "We can do better than that. If you bring your son here at on Wednesday, we will treat him as an honorary fireman all day long. He can come to the fire brigade to have dinner with us and attend the work together. By the way, if you give me his size, we can also help him create a set of real fire-fighting eyes, attach a real fire-proof hat, not a toy hat, the badge of the Phoenix Fire Brigade is printed with our yellow waterproof clothing and rubber boots. These things are made in Phoenix City, so they can be obtained soon. "
Three days later, The Fireman Bob took Ba BASI and helped him put on the uniform and escorted him from the hospital bed to the fire truck. Bob led him back to the fire brigade, as though he was in heaven.
There were three fires in Phoenix on that day, and Bai Xi got the services every time. He takes different fire trucks, ambulances, and even the landline vehicles of the fire brigade. He also made a video for the local news program.
He was deeply touched by the beauty of his dream and all his love and care. He lived three more months than the doctor expected.
One night, all his signs of life began to drop sharply, and the head nurse hurried to call his family to the hospital.
Then she remembered that ba basi was a fireman, so she also called the fire chief and asked him if he could send a uniform fireman to the hospital, accompanied him before his death. The captain replied, "We can do better. Within five minutes. Can you help me? When you hear the siren and see the flashing lights, please inform the hospital that this is not a real fire. This is only the last side of the fire brigade to see their partners. Open the window in his room. Thank you. "
About five minutes later, a fire truck arrived at the hospital and extended the ladder to the third-floor window in the west of Kabbah. 14 firefighters and two female firefighters climbed onto the ladder to enter the room in Kabbah. With his mother's consent, they embraced him, held his hand, and told him how much they loved him.
Prior to taking the last breath, Bai Si looked at the fire brigade and said, "Captain, can I be a real fireman now? "
"Count! Ba basi. "Said the captain.
With those words, Bai Si closed his eyes with a smile.