6. Tips to learn more about others' Psychology

It is a basic technology that allows you to easily manipulate your business. If you don't know the wind direction, you can turn the rudder handle. If you don't know what the world is doing, you can't talk about it. If you don't know how it works, you will turn over the ship in the storm.

Although intuition is sensitive, it is easy to be blinded by humans. Knowing how to reason and judge is the top skill pursued by observing words. Words can reveal a person's character, and his or her eyes can give us a glimpse of others' hearts. Clothing, sitting posture, and gestures will also sell out their masters without perception.

Speech can tell you the status, character, and quality of a person and reveal his or her inner feelings. Therefore, listening to the outside strings is the key to "observing words.

If we look at the weather like watching the weather, then we should look at a face like "watching the cloud and weather" and have a deep understanding, because not all people can see the time and the occasion in red, on the contrary, "smile on your face and cry in your heart ".

"Eye color" is the focus of attention in "face. It can tell us the truth most involuntarily. People's sitting posture and clothes also help us to identify others and their inner intentions.

1. Identifying the wind direction will make the rudder good

After passing through three subjects and taking part in the candidates, I got a job as a county magistrate in Shandong. The first time I visited my boss, I couldn't think of anything to say. Silence ~ Yes, I suddenly asked: "What is the name of an adult ?" The boss was surprised and barely gave a surname. The county magistrate bowed his head for a long time and said, "the name of an adult is none of the hundred ." My boss was even more surprised and said, "I am a flag ?" Don't you know ?" The county magistrate stood up again and said, "Where is the flag of an adult?" said the boss, "a red flag ." The county magistrate said: "It is the best to set a flag. How can an adult not set a flag ?" My boss was furious and asked, "Which province is your county ?" The county magistrate said: "Guangxi ." The boss said, "Guangdong is the best. Why are you not in Guangdong ?" The county magistrate was surprised to find his boss angry and hurried out. The next day, he went back to the school as the commander. The reason is that it will not be clear.

It is also a kind of skill for us to observe what we say and adapt to the situation. For example, during access, we often encounter unexpected situations. Visitors should concentrate on talking with their masters. At the same time, they should also respond ~ Unexpected information is keenly aware and properly handled.

The host spoke to you while looking elsewhere, and someone was whispering. This indicates that your visit just now interrupted important things, and the host was thinking about it, although he is receiving you, he is absent-minded. In this case, the most sensible way is to stop and drop the next most important request: "You must be very busy. I will not bother you ~ Let me hear back in two days !" When you leave, the host is grateful and guilty to you: "Because of your own business, you have not received people well ." In this way, he will try his best to fulfill your trust and report it again.

During the conversation, the bell rings and the phone rings. At this time, you should stop the conversation and ask the host to receive the people and answer the phone. The host is in a dilemma.

When you try again and want to hear the good news that you have done it, you find that even though the master has been entrusted with the trust, the process is not complete or even slow. At this time, it is inevitable that you will be in a hurry, but you should turn your mouth into a thank-you, fully affirm your efforts, and then let us know your current situation for understanding and sympathy. At this time, the host will realize that although it is time-consuming and time-consuming, it has not really solved the problem, and it has produced the determination of good people to make the end, and then we will go further for you.

In interpersonal communication, a keen and meticulous observation of others' words, expressions, gestures, actions, and seemingly casual behaviors is a prerequisite for understanding the intention of the other party, only when the risk is measured can the rudder be obtained. For example, when dealing with a boss, the observation of his eyes and hands can give us an insight into his heart:

① When the boss speaks, he does not raise his head or look at others. This is a bad sign-ignoring subordinates and believing that this person is incompetent.
② Superiors look at people from the top down. This is a kind of superior performance-good control, arrogant and conceited.
③ The boss keeps an eye on his subordinates for a long time-he is waiting for more information, and his impression of his subordinates is incomplete.
④ The boss looks at his subordinates in a friendly and frank manner, or sometimes blinks at his subordinates. The subordinates are very competent, and can be forgiven for their mistakes.
⑤ The eyes of the boss are sharp and the expression remains unchanged. Like a sword, you must wear your subordinates. This is a display of power, indifference, and superiority. It also signals to subordinates: You don't want to cheat me. I can see through your mind.
③ The Boss occasionally glances up and looks at the following after seeing each other. If he does this many times, he is sure that he is not sure about the subordinate.

　　

① The boss stared at the room and nodded from time to time. This is a very bad signal. It means that the boss wants the subordinates to obey him completely. No matter what the subordinates say or think, he will ignore it.

③ Put your hands in one hand and press them from top to bottom to balance your body. Calm.
② With both hands on the waist and elbows on the outer support, this is a traditional human language that occurs to the imperative, often in the face of specific power problems.

① The Boss sat in a chair, leaned back, put his hands behind his head, and stretched out his elbows. It means that he was very relaxed at this time, but it may also be conceited.
③ The forefinger points out to the other party-a naked sense of superiority and a aggressive heart.
③ Keeping your hands behind you is also a kind of superiority.
③ The Boss patted his subordinates on the shoulder-recognition and appreciation of his subordinates, but only from the side of the picture to show true recognition and appreciation. If you take a picture from the front or above, it means to underestimate subordinates or show power.

@ The fingers are folded together, and both hands form a pyramid shape, and the fingertip is directed to the front.-You must reject the signal from the other side.
(1) Put your hands into your fists. Not only do you want to scare others, but you also want to maintain your opinions. If you press your fists on the table, you simply try not to speak.
Of course, to make a good job of "Weather Forecast" in social media, we need more detailed "Weather" knowledge. In the following section, we will introduce it to readers in different categories.

2. Be good at capturing "out-of-band"

There was a poor man who suffered from illness and his illness grew heavier. The doctor said he had no hope. The patient prayed to the gods and said that if he was ill, he would set up a B offering. His wife was standing beside him. After hearing this, he asked, "Where do you want to make the money ?" He replied, "do you think God made me get out of bed to ask me for these things ?"

In this story, people are most likely to agree to what they don't actually want to do. Sometimes people may have different feelings. From this point of view, observation is a very knowledgeable technique. People's inner thoughts are sometimes verbally revealed unconsciously. Therefore, when talking with others, as long as we pay attention, we can know the inner world of others from the conversation.

① Be informed by the topic.
People often present their emotions unconsciously from a topic. There are various kinds of topics. To understand each other's personality, temperament, and thoughts, the easiest way to start is to observe the situation of the topic and the Speaker, you can get a lot of information here.

When talking to middle-aged women, most of their topics are themselves, because they think they are their biggest concern. Sometimes I talk about my husband or children. They think of their husband or children as their embodiment, and talking about them is also talking about themselves. For middle-aged women, you need to appear as a listener and acknowledge that they are virtuous wives and great mothers.

In the world of young boys, their favorite topic is car. Magazines about cars are selling as well as music and football magazines. Almost all of the young guys talk about car brands, distance, speed, etc. Although most of them cannot afford a car for the time being. As a matter of fact, they are so keen on car topics that they will be able to buy a car in the future, or they know a lot about it. This is also a fashionable topic, just to show themselves. Therefore, if you want to listen attentively to their car, it is best not to put on a nasty or impatient face, your patience can satisfy their vanity.

② The habit of wording reveals the "secret ".

Language indicates that, apart from social, social, or geographical differences, there are also psychological wording that varies with individual levels. The deep psychology of various twists and turns of people will be unconsciously reflected in the means of self-expression-wording. Even if it has nothing to do with the self-image you want to express, you can often see the real image of this person by analyzing the wording. In this sense, it is something that I did not realize that the characteristics of wording are far more eloquent than the content of words.

People who use the first person singular have a strong sense of independence and autonomy. People who often use the plural are usually found in people who lack personality and are not buried in the group.

People always think that they are talking and writing articles in their own words. In fact, when someone else's words are inadvertently borrowed, they have the desire to expand themselves. In turn, they can look into this point, and they will be able to see the depth of their hearts. For example, many people who use obscure words and foreign languages may be confused. In fact, such people mostly use words as a shield to conceal their inner weaknesses. When choosing a career, it is necessary to fully show your talents. However, if you are overly pretentious, it is the most unfavorable effect to show others to fall into the cloud. This situation often proves the sense of inferiority of your own intelligence and uses words as a shield to conceal your inferiority. In the besieged city, Mr. Zhang put out his foreign documents in front of Fang Hongjian to show that he is knowledgeable and only reflects the poor knowledge.

③ The way you speak can reflect your thoughts.

In general, a person's feelings or opinions are clearly expressed in the way he talks. As long as he tries to figure it out, he can gradually reveal it from the curtain of his speech, even if he is outside the string.

(L) speaking speed is an important key to breaking deep psychology.
If you are dissatisfied with someone or have a hostile attitude, many people are slow to speak and feel a little bit oily. If you are ashamed of your heart or lie, the speed of speaking will naturally determine.

If a man came home on time every day after work, but he stayed in the office and played poker with his colleagues after work that day, he immediately told his wife that he had worked overtime, in addition, we also need to curse why there are so many jobs and so on. His tone of voice must be faster than usual, so that he can relieve his inner potential anxiety.

When you meet a man like this, you must be careful when you become a wife. Once something starts, you will have a next time.

(2) Let's see each other's psychology from the pitch.
When the above-mentioned "overtime" man returned home, he spoke in a not only fast tone, but also impassioned manner, it seems that today's "overtime" really makes him very disgusted-he is reluctant to "work overtime.

When two people disagree, a person raises the tone of speech, that is, he wants to overwhelm the other party.

When talking to an attempt-oriented person, he will surely be able to make a sense of difference, a desire to attract others' attention, and self-display will be revealed in a bid.

(3) Listen to the other party's psychology.
The premise for making a conversation includes the existence of two different positions: the Speaker and the Speaker. We can break through the deep psychology of the other Party based on the reactions of the other party to their own speech.

If a person is very conscientious and obedient, He will sit down in a difficult situation and stare at each other. On the contrary, his line of sight is bound to be dispersed, and his body may be tilted or moved. This is a sign of boredom.

Some people listen to each other's sentence carefully. When the speaker finishes speaking, he will also reveal his own voice. From this perspective, the listener fully relies on strong patience J to cooperate with curiosity, in order to break through the speaker's secret.

If you want to tell someone something, you will start from a common topic, and then listen carefully, ask questions, and listen ...... When the target is achieved step by step, the other party forgets to watch out when they are happy. On the contrary, they will think that you are a good listener and considerate.

3. facial expressions, clouds in the sky
The color perception refers to observing the person's face and learning the other person's emotions. This is a truth from the old hunter's estimation of the rain, rain, and snow by looking at the changes in the cloud.

When husband a and wife B get married, they have good feelings and are often inseparable. However, as life becomes more and more dull, they are all familiar with the life after marriage, and there is no new sense, but often quarrel for the trivial matters of rice, oil, salt, soy sauce, and vinegar tea.

At first, a and B quarrelled each other as soon as they were dissatisfied. However, after the quarrel, the two had been reconciled for a few hours. However, with the increase in the number of quarrels, it seems that it has become a common habit. No one wants to ignore each other, and they have gone through a cold stage.

But this is not a solution. Mr. A and Mr. B have to face their family and friends. In order not to let others see it, they gradually transitioned to the presence of others, and they seem to have a good and loving relationship with each other, once they are alone, the home will be quiet and will not disturb each other. Gradually, when no one was there, they began to talk, but it was not just a waste, but sometimes there were some things that had to be said. As the discord between each other develops to the extreme, unhappy expressions gradually disappear. Instead, their faces show a smile, and their attitude is also humble and kind.

No wonder a judge who often handles divorce cases said that when either party shows this attitude, it indicates that the relationship between husband and wife has reached an irreconcilable level.

Human mental activity is very subtle, but it is often revealed from the expression. If you are happy, the cheek muscles will relax. Once you encounter a sad situation, you will naturally burst into tears. However, some people do not want to show these inner activities to others. On the surface, they may make mistakes.

For example, at a fair, the other party was completely satisfied with a smile, which made people feel at ease that the negotiation was successful. "I understand, you have made a lot of sense, I will definitely consider it this time." However, the final result is a failure.

From this point of view, we cannot simply judge the actual emotions of the other party from the expression. Pay attention to the following two aspects:

① No emotion is not equal to no emotion.

For example, some employees are not satisfied with the supervisor's words and deeds, but dare not say anything, so they have to pretend to be expressionless. However, in fact, his inner dissatisfaction is very strong. If you observe his face carefully, you will find that his face is wrong. It is better not to blame such a person directly or make him ugly on the spot. It is best to say this: "If you have any dissatisfaction, let's talk about it !" This can appease the feelings that subordinates are trying to suppress.

However, in this case, we should not talk too much to avoid confrontation. Instead, we should choose another time to openly and honestly exchange views with subordinates, so that we can successfully resolve this low-tide relationship with their subordinates, the good image of the supervisor has been established.

There are two situations for no-expression. One is extreme indifference, and the other is invisible to the eye.

For example, if someone is talking about it, they will suddenly see it and do not know how it looks. This is a kind of facial expression that doesn't look in the eyes at all, this may represent a kind of kindness. Especially for women, if they show their kindness too openly, rather than correctly, it is better to show an almost indifferent expression.

③ Smile when you are angry, sad, or hateful.

In this case, the eyes and expressions are different. People usually say that their faces are smiling and their hearts are crying. Despite being hostile, on the surface, you have to pretend to be talkative and act generously.

The reason why people want to do so is to feel that if they express their own desires or ideas without reservation, they will not violate the rules of society, but may even lead to rebellion, or become the beginning of criticism by the masses. I am afraid that the system will be subject to social sanctions.

It can be seen that the color usually produces errors. The dark clouds may not rain, and people who smile may not be happy. Many times, people go to bitter water to swallow in their stomachs, but their faces look sweet. On the contrary, when my face sank, I may be smiling.

4. Identify people with eyes

In Greek mythology, there is a story: If Medusa, the three sisters of the monster, takes a look, it will immediately turn into a stone. To put it bluntly, it will turn the power of the eyes to God.

From the medical point of view, the eyes are the most acute among the five Inspector officers, which accounts for more than 70% of the sensory field. Therefore, they are called "The King of five senses ". Mencius cloud: "The person who saves the money cannot hide its evil. In the chest, the scorpion falls, and the chest is not correct, then the scorpion is dizzy ." It is a matter of course to reveal sincerity from the eyes. "eyes are the window of the soul ".

The desires and feelings in deep psychology are first reflected in the line of sight. The movement, direction, and concentration of the line of sight all express different psychological states and observe the changes in the line of sight, it facilitates communication between people. When you climb the windowsill, you will not be able to see what is happening in the house.

There have been a long history of ways to look at people with eyes. A person's personality remains unchanged, no matter how far-reaching he is. As the saying goes: Jiangshan is easy to change, its nature is hard to move, and its personality is simple, while its value is not. Sexual is internal, emotional is external, sexual is physical, emotional is used, sexual is subject to external stimulation, send for love, stimulate different. The most significant and difficult part of the situation is not the language, not the action, not the attitude, but the eyes. The speech and action attitudes can all be covered by the disguise, the eyes cannot pretend. We look at our eyes, but focus on our eyes.

When you see his eyes in silence, you can understand his worries about you, and he has already been confused. Just ask him for advice and express anxiety. If he doesn't understand it, this is because it is a matter of confidentiality. It is not necessary to ask more questions, just wait for his departure.

If you see his eyes disorganized, you can understand that there is no way for him. In vain, it is useless to ask for help from him. You have to be calm and try another solution. You don't have to ask more questions. This will only increase your self-defeating power. This is your chance to show your instincts. Please try your best!

If you see his eyes, as if there is a thorn, you can understand that he is very cold. If there is a request, and you do not have to say it to him, you should take the opportunity to quit as soon as possible, even if you stay for a while, it will be uncomfortable. Instead, study the reason why he is cold to you and seek a way to restore your feelings.

When you see him with gloomy eyes, you should understand that this is a fierce signal. You must be careful when negotiating with him. His hot hand is waiting behind him. If you are not ready to meet him or her, you 'd better make a fortune as soon as possible.

You can see that his eyes are different from ordinary times, you can understand that he is a trick, want to give you a bitter taste. In this case, you should keep yourself in the dark. The front, back, and left may be the traps he arranged. When you lose your foot, you will fall into his hands. Don't trust his sweet words too much. This is the bait on the hook. It is a sugar coat outside the poison. Be very careful.

When you see him with dull eyes and white lips, you can understand that he is afraid of the current problem. Even though it doesn't matter, although he is not desperate, he is still trying to find a solution, but I cannot think of it at all. You don't have to ask more questions. You should give back and think about the countermeasures. If you have a solution, you should give it to him and say that you have some confidence in it.

When you see him look angry, you can understand that he is angry and angry at the moment. If you do not intend to break with him, you should say that you can compromise and quickly seek a new turn. Otherwise, it will inevitably lead to a violent conflict.

You can see that his eyes are quiet and smiling. You can understand that he is very satisfied with something. If you want to make him happy, you may wish to say a few comments. If you want something, it is also a good opportunity. I believe it will be easier to satisfy your hopes than usual.

When you see his eyes shining, you can understand that he is tired of your words, and it will be ineffective if you keep talking about it ~ Paragraph, or jump back on the phone, or look for a new topic to talk about what he wants to hear.

When you see his eyes set, you can understand what he thinks is necessary for listening. You should follow your scheduled plan and explain it to me. As long as your opinions are not bad, your approach is feasible, he must be willing to accept it.

If you see his eyes drop down and his head is down, you can understand that he is worried and suffering. If you don't say something to him, it will aggravate his pain, and you don't want to talk to him about it. Because it is more and more difficult to feel sorry for the same illness, you have to say something to comfort him, it's also boring to say more.

If his eyes look up, he can understand that he does not listen to you, no matter how well your reasons are, how clever your statement is, there will still be no brilliant results, it is better to wait for it.

In short, the eyes are scattered, the eyes are scattered, the movements are static, the flows are condensate, there are gloomy, there are dull, there are drops, there are rising, after careful understanding, you will be able to find the feelings of the people.

5. draw a map of people's hearts with seats"
In the relationship between people, what seats and how to sit reflect the deep psychology of people. First of all, the position directly reflects the social and group's traditional sense of going to the next seat or strengths and weaknesses. Now, we are stuck at a formal gathering or a gathering with many elderly people, it is a headache for the speaker who is sitting in what position, and there is often unnecessary mutual encouragement or dispute between the participants in the meeting. Secondly, all people have the idea of maintaining their own space around their bodies. If they are attacked, they will be unhappy and become uneasy. This space is called "body range ". Generally, people do not infringe on this scope.

It is not hard to see that the position and sitting posture of a person can be marked and analyzed to draw a "Topographic Map. Let's take a look.

① The physical distance of the seat also represents the psychological distance from the other side.

The size of this distance can indicate the subjective intention to infringe on the other's physical realm, so as to determine some of his mental thoughts and know what he wants. For example, even on a very wide sofa, a pair of people may bring me closer to each other and sit down. Of course, there is not enough space, they reflect their knee-like mentality. In this case, if it's a couple around you, if you don't want to get bored, you'll have fun, leave some space for others, and go away.

Another example is that if someone wants to actively participate in the discussion in a college classroom, most of these students will sit in front of the classroom. On the contrary, some students will not attend classes normally, they will definitely sit behind when they go out to work in class. People who are not interested in this subject will also choose to sit behind.

② The seat direction is meaningful

There are two sides to the seat direction: one is sitting on the opposite side or the other is sitting on the population of the back room and somewhere inside.

Sitting on the opposite side or beside the opposite side, the psychological status is different. There is a sense of distance between the two sitting face to face. At this time, there is a table or something between the two and other obstacles will feel more comfortable.

When sitting on the side, there is no such restriction. Most people sit side by side in close distance and look at the same object in the same direction. In this case, it is easy to produce a sense of association. In a face-to-face posture, both sides are at the best position where they can observe each other. This can easily lead to line-of-sight conflicts and a sense of confrontation.

The same is true for men and women. There is a table in the middle and the two sit and talk face to face. This may be a very intimate shot. However, this kind of sitting style shows that they are not deep enough, show that they have a psychological willingness to understand each other. On the other hand, two people sitting side by side generally speak less than men and women sitting face to face because they already know each other, even in some cases, it is very likely that you have already set an example by yourself.

Therefore, we can speculate on others' psychological activities and related information through the way they sit, so that if you want to take any action, you will have a countermeasure. When you see a pair of men and women sitting together, you don't have any bad thoughts of winning the love of others. Only by wishing them a lover will become a genus early, they will become fond of you. If you see a pair of men and women sitting opposite each other, it means they still need further communication. If you are interested in one of them, there may be hope.

③ Use the Sitting Posture of sitting deeply and shallow to identify the psychology of the other party.

For humans, standing posture is the most suitable state for activities. Therefore, people sit on the premise that they can immediately stand up. Taking a shortest seat in a chair is an example. There are also people who are nervous and dare to sit in a chair, often in an emergency of action.

Once people relax, they will sit in the chair and stretch out their feet at the same time, so they will not immediately stand up.

This can be seen from lions and horses: lions are fierce and powerful, so they can go to bed all day. It seems to be a confidence. Lions like to prey on horses, so this type of horse is standing nervously all day, but still cannot escape the bad luck.

Therefore, a deeply seated person has a mental advantage, at least he wants to stand down. A person sitting in the shortest room is often restless and shows a status of being inferior.

A person who is sitting in the shortest will unconsciously show a kind of mentality of obeying the other party. In front of such a person, you must never seem too powerful or arrogant, because they will resist in their hearts. On the contrary, if you show your kindness or concern to him, he will love you in his heart. They are willing to approach you, which lays the foundation for expanding relationships. In fact, they can be used by anyone. If many people are willing to approach you, this will create an advantage for you. At least you have already won in interpersonal relationships, your work, work, and study are easy to succeed, not far from being appreciated by others or even your superiors.

④ Deep psychological phenomena manifested by human sitting posture.

When people sit down, they may have legs. It is said that such people are deep and unwilling to defeat.

However, this is a case for men, and women are slightly different. A woman's bold legs show her confidence in her appearance or clothes. This kind of sitting posture is very sure to attract the attention of a man. It also shows her strong desire. This kind of woman has a strong self-esteem and is keen to be a boss. She ~ It's easy to interact with men, and it's not easy to fall in love with a man.

6. See your heart through your wear

People have come to this world naked. They only wear clothes to hide their own faces.

As a matter of fact, humans did not expect to show themselves unconcealed to wear their favorite clothes, including colors and materials. Because each person's clothes show their psychological status completely.

① If you dress brilliantly, you will have a strong desire to show yourself and enjoy the limelight.

In the audience, we can find that some people are always dressed in attractive and colorful costumes, and such people have a strong desire to show themselves. At the same time, this kind of desire for money is particularly urgent. So when you see such a person dressed in Chinese clothes or a colleague who has such a person, you will be able to gain insight into his or her psychology and praise him or her more) it is a good way to meet their expanded display desires. Such a person will not be easy to rival you.

③ People with simple clothes lack self-confidence and like to quarrel.

There is a kind of people who wear simple clothes and do not like to wear colorful clothes. Many of them lack the subject character and lack confidence in themselves. I hope to give dignity to others and make up for my feeling of inferiority.

If you meet such a person, don't argue with them, because the more you feel inferior, the more you want to conceal your inferiority, the more you will quarrel with others, in order to save the remaining face, this is not conducive to maintaining relationships with others.

At this time, you can admit your point of view from the other party. Instead, you will feel your tolerance and you will achieve unexpected results.

③ Those who like fashion clothes have a sense of loneliness, and their mood fluctuates frequently.

There is a kind of person who does not care about their hobbies or even doesn't know what they really like. They only take fashion as their hobbies and look to fashion. This kind of person often has a sense of loneliness, and his mood is also frequent.

4 do not care about fashion often self-centered, unconventional.

There is a situation that does not care about the popularity of such people, such personality can be said to be very strong, but some people do not dare to face the external world, and blindly keep themselves in a dark room. This kind of person thinks that if they share the same tune with others, isn't it equal to losing yourself? This kind of person is often self-centered and often makes everyone simple.

⑤ Sudden changes in clothing interests people who want to change their lifestyles also have elements that escape reality.

Mr. Zhang, a company employee, has been wearing a fixed style and style suit for the time being. But one day, he changed to a casual jacket, bright trousers, and came to work with a tie of different colors. In terms of table or spirit, Mr. Zhang's heart must be stimulated to make some changes in his thoughts. Therefore, in their deep psychology, usually has a new meaning. My colleagues curiously guessed: "Is there anything about him today ?" "What problems does he encounter ?"

If you want to maintain a good relationship with a person who suddenly changes his clothes or hobbies, you should look inappropriate for a while, or praise him for wearing anything nice, I believe that the door to his mind will be open to you. Your attitude of recognition is stronger than others' attitude towards questioning. You will win others' return-praise.

③ There is a kind of people who are not enthusiastic about fashion and will not ignore it. Changing clothes is gradually being implemented.

This type of person is moderate, emotional, and generally won't do anything out of the box. They have a lot of reason, but they do not follow the desires or blindly follow the fashion of the masses.

This kind of person is relatively reliable and worth making friends ....