A little kid can have a heart, a healthy life.

When it comes to mental health, most people think of the age level of teenagers, and it is difficult to connect with young children under the age of three. However, in recent years, a growing number of studies have shown that young children under three years of age have the same physical and psychological stress as adults, except that these young people do not have the ability to cope with and relieve these psychological stresses.

Children's psychological stress comes from adults

Experts say that children under three years of age under the psychological pressure is often due to the parents in the process of looking after the children did not use the correct method. This age group of children often because of a lot of seemingly small things caused by psychological anxiety, such as eating when the adults blame, or do not want to eat when adults are being bullied to eat, sleep time by adult activities interference. Some children also suffer from some physical injury and leave a deeper psychological trauma.

Experts say the age of three years is a fast time for children to learn to speak and grow. During this period, it is easy for parents to give a scolding for the punishment of the young mind, although most adults do not out of malice. Many studies have shown that children of this age have more complex things to think about than the average person thinks, and are changing every day according to the environment in which they are found.

Patience and care are the basic points for children to adapt to the environment

In order to allow young children's psychological development of a healthy environment, parents need patience, need to show care, give children comfort and security. At the same time, children are allowed to explore the surrounding environment freely. To do this is not difficult, usually can find more time and children talk, hug children, singing and so on, which can bring the child closer to their own distance. The emotional instability of adults can make children feel insecure and thus produce restless emotions. Unlike adults, it is difficult for children to control their emotions and behaviors. As a result, they can easily show some of the emotions that adults do not want to see, such as antagonism, hatred, withdrawal, tolerance, and easy crying. In addition, children of this age are not easy to adapt to the changes that occur in their surroundings.

Parents should give their children more attention

What should parents do when they are experiencing emotional fluctuations in their children? First of all, we should observe whether the surroundings of the child have changed recently, and recall whether he said some fierce words, or whether he had corporal punishment on children, or not. Then, should sincerely show their love to the child, let the child really feel your thoughtfulness and love.

Experts say, adults because of inadvertently left to the child's psychological trauma if not to heal in time, it is possible to bequeath a lifetime. Studies have shown that the way in which college students interact with heterosexual friends is largely influenced by the habit of getting along with their parents at a young time. Those children who are not too well received by their parents when they are young tend to feel insecure when they grow up and often suspect that they are in favor of others rather than themselves.

Learn to praise rather than criticize children. Parents should be aware that because children are still small, many of the mistakes in the eyes of adults are often the result of children powerless, not intentional. So don't blame them for what they did wrong, and create unnecessary psychological burdens on children.