A man's brains

For men, the first appointment is very important. There are not a few men with a single mentality. If the invitation is rejected for the first time, he will lose his confidence, and he may try again ......

This sentence is widely used by pupils. However, it can be used in practical scenarios. The same problem: Man and Woman
Note that different aspects may lead to the opposite conclusion. In the dating process, the psychological experience of men and women is different. The behaviors shown in the process of starting dating and gradually determining relationships are also quite different. You know
What do men get in their minds when they are dating?

　All men want to do it once.

With the development of science and technology, we should have more time to fall in love. But the fact is that urban men and women not only need to work for a longer period of time, but also have a longer distance between their places of live and work.

Some researchers even believe that it takes less than 22.3 minutes to give them the freedom to do whatever they want. A woman needs 21.2 minutes to determine what to wear, and a man needs 18.7 minutes to shave his hair. The real idle time is 1.1 minutes and 3.6 minutes, respectively. Of course, the above statements are exaggerated, but you have to admit that dating is a very time-consuming task.

To increase the hit rate, 57% of male met the other half through friend introductions, 31% met at bars or parties, and 12% chose appointment partners. Most men will invite each other if they want to approach a certain woman. It is not difficult to achieve this step, as long as it is not timid or self-esteem is too high, it should be able to achieve in a relaxed mood.

72% of men set their first appointment to a restaurant and then watch a movie. 27% of men go hiking or for transportation.
The remaining 1% will come up with some unexpected ways. For men, the first appointment is very important. There are not a few men with a single mentality. If the first invitation is rejected, he will lose confidence.
You can try your luck with another woman. Think that men are all cowhide, indomitable belief, that is wrong. Not every man has a strong nerve and can withstand the "destruction". They are also afraid of setbacks,
Fear of being ruthlessly rejected and easily trapped in a conditioned reflection that protects you.

If the first appointment goes smoothly, the man will think that the relationship between the next two may grow well. On the contrary,
If the first appointment fails to impress a woman, then she will disappear and will not be heard. As it is customary to assume that there is no second chance, men tend to be diligent in their first appointment. Therefore, female
If you accept the sincerity of the male, you should give a suggestion accordingly. If you are dull or indecisive, you cannot send the message "I think you are good" to the other party in a timely manner, do not create good behavior for men
Dynamic Conditions, maybe the relationship between two people will not progress. To put it bluntly, there are more and more pampered men, who are too shy and not good at getting in touch with women. Such men often expect women to take
Active.
To a certain extent, men will first consider taking the relationship further. They all say that men are lower-body animals, and even some people say that they are always considering the timing of kissing during their appointments. This is not too much. 58% of male
I think that if we are really close together, we will have close contact with each other on our first appointment, and it will not reduce my love for her. 21% of people think that three appointments are better, and 21% have more than six appointments. Generally, when they have
In some kind of intimacy attempt, we first want to understand the ideas of the other party and try our best to convey our goodwill to the other party.

The first condition for close contact is mutual affection. It's too rash to get a slap in the face or
The person who poured the wine on his face may feel bad. In this regard, men are sensitive and strategizing Old foxes. When watching a movie, pretend to have no intention of gently touching the woman's hand, or close her knee with her knees
Cap and other minor physical contacts to confirm her response, which is common acting. In the bar, sitting side by side at the bar also has the same effect. Through seemingly accidental contact between shoulders and shoulders, she feels her attitude. If the female
If you pull your hands or knees back immediately, you can conclude that she has no intention of further development, at least not yet. On the contrary, if she does not shy away, it means there is a drama. After confirmation, how should we implement the action? Extended appointment time is
First, I suggest eating dessert, taking a walk together, or sending the girl back home. Once such an invitation is put forward, it is basically determined that he is a drunk.
Is it possible to accept kissing and ultimately lead by example? Several nights before the appointment, they were already simulating an action plan from the appointment of the night to the final conclusion. They asked Tianyan to post it online to repeat when and where to pick it up.
Kiss. During their appointment, they racked their brains to consider the progress of the next step. Therefore, they often talked in an absent-minded manner and were completely unaware of chewing food. Even if the women around them have entered the beautiful environment they are talking about
It is often imperceptible. The story of an electric car male, which is popular in Japan, tells a common male on the largest BBS in Japan, asking for instructions on how to pursue women who encounter on Shinkansen, mobilized tens of thousands of netizens
After planning, this real event was adapted into books, movies, TV series, and drama. It can be seen that it is not easy for men to invite women and it can become a topic that resonate with men.

　There are countless times for men to simulate appointments in their minds:

What to wear, where to meet, how to say hello, where to eat, what to talk about between meals, and how to implement
When the next step is implemented, the plan is modified repeatedly, and the result is often even more tense and restless as you constantly imagine whether the plan will succeed. No matter what kind of psychological preparation or simulated drills, the actual appointment may not be able
As they wish. For men and women who have mutual affection but are at the mutual testing stage, it is quite subtle to check whether the timing and mentality of both parties are in line with each other. It is often because of the wrong interpretation of an emoticon action that misses a great opportunity.
Even if the woman intends to miss the opportunity, it is difficult to succeed. What should a man do if she refuses to kiss or make a close move? Unfortunately, almost all male will not try again, but simply
Give up. Of course there are also some persistent male who refuse to give up and try to win the other party, waiting for a comeback. However, in more cases, men are exhausted by their mental pains and are rejected.
To combat self-esteem, we would rather give up in order not to suffer more harm.

Therefore, when you are willing to get along with him, you need to kiss or get in close contact with him, even if it is not enough for a while.
We should also try to make it clear to avoid misunderstanding. I lost my fate because I did not understand the intention of the other party. I decided that the other party had no sincerity and gave up communication, or worried about failure in order to protect my self-esteem from harm.
It is a pity to miss the opportunity because the intention of the other party is not solved. As long as you reveal it a little, everything will be desired. Unfortunately, some male and female who have mutual affection will eventually suffer losses.