Communication, like programming, is also an art Series 3 (the purpose of communication)

Communication is purposeful, so what is the purpose of communication?

1. Communication with purpose 1.1: communication with four purposes

(1) describes things.

(2) express emotions.

(3) establish a relationship.

(4) attempt.

Before communication, we need to know which of the above four purposes we belong to, and then think carefully and make reasonable communication.

1.2 emotion-based communication

At ordinary times, we need to cultivate feelings with people. at ordinary times, we need to care more about people. We need to care more about people. We need no motivation. We need to have one more friend and one more relationship. do not care about the key points. People are most afraid not to care about it. Once concerned, their hearts will be soft. People need all kinds of friends. Do not worry too much about establishing relationships. They often include feelings in things and establish relationships to achieve the purpose of communication.

1.3 emotional misunderstandings

Cultivating feelings with others, caring for others, and providing benefits to others must also be skillful. Instead of caring for others, giving things to others, don't make others feel embarrassed at once and cannot accept it.

1.4 How to maintain continuous communication

Many people often don't pay attention to it, including the author. Don't talk about it from the beginning to the end, stop and let the other party talk about themselves, and try not to interrupt others when they are not finished. Communication must come and go and interact with each other, communication is the only way to communicate, and consensus and action must be consistent at the end of communication. If you do not agree with others' opinions or words, it is easier to come along with them and try again. Communicate with each other to express your opinions and do not hurt each other's feelings. You can reach a consensus and a tacit understanding.

1.5 how to select the communication methods

(1) Oral Communication

(2) Written Communication

(3) Internet Communication

Anything important is better to be able to communicate orally (meeting three emotions), and submit the written content later.

You need to know whether the communication is visual or auditory.

Communication is direct, roundabout, and carried out through a third party. It is best to directly communicate confidential things.

1.5 barriers to communication

Barriers to communication: the two cannot communicate. If you cannot communicate with each other, your eloquence will be useless. Before communication, first understand how the relationship between us is, and should not conduct such communication, as long as the other party has a good view of you, what do you say is wrong. Before communication, think about whether you are sufficient, have a good relationship, have a bad friendship, and have a bad relationship. If you are not suitable, you need to talk to other appropriate people. Try not to let others have opinions on themselves. You can seek mediation from people to resolve misunderstandings.

People lack empathy. It should be justified. People tell the truth, but more people believe in their own principles. self-owned people are often arrogant and cannot be justified. People who make sense are very rational, but they are often irrational. People who use their feelings and reason are unacceptable. Sometimes, the more reasonable they are, the more difficult they are to communicate, sometimes it is easy to communicate if you are confused about installation.

Anyone who blows himself up will suffer the most. If you do not understand the installation, you will get more information and the truth will be revealed. If you do not know the truth, you can answer the question without hearing it. Seriously consider how to speak, who to speak, and when to speak.

1.6 tips for communication

Let's say something clearly. Speaking too clearly is equivalent to sprinkling salt on the wound. To tell others bad news, you must be skillful and not be too direct. You must first prepare others for mental preparation (for example, tell others' loved ones to pass away). Some things should not be too clear, and others will know it.

You must learn to observe what the other party looks like. Stop immediately or make adjustments. Determine the intention of a person. Listen multiple times or not. Every sentence has his intention, thinking about the intention behind his words, rather than the superficial meaning. Communication skills cannot be used to harm people.

Learn to get time to think and don't respond directly. For example, the food on the dinner table is pushed to the most reasonable person.

Learn to reduce the Competition Atmosphere and compete in courtesy.

 

 

 

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Communication, like programming, is also an art Series 3 (the purpose of communication)