Confidante is a stranger

A confidante is a stranger who looks at you in the vast sea of people and who are instantly touched by the red dust. She exists by chance and originated from an encounter. It appears when you are the most gentle, and she accidentally touched your most gentle area. She is a gentle person who touches men.

A classmate can't be a confidante and is too familiar with it. When you show the gentleness of a man, she will think that laughter is loud; it is too dangerous for a colleague to be a confidante, who dares to give their best feelings to a stakeholder. Confidante is a person who has no source or utilitarian relationship with you.

The farther away this person is from you, the better. Whether it is the distance between space or other aspects, this will let you drop your distractions and reduce some sort of drag. When she becomes your wife or lover, she is no longer a confidant. How can a man show his deep gentleness to them? It will make the wife worried and get bored.

You should try to maintain the beauty of this distance. Only when you are particularly lonely and helpless can you show your gentle sadness a little. And don't think too much about her. She is a kind of beautiful, just a look, a sigh, a wisp of caressing.

Don't fall in love with her. She is just a listener and talker. Even if you love, do not love too much. Just love a little bit. When you fall in love with her, you will feel far away and have nothing to say. People are always like this: they are awkward with those they love, but they talk to a stranger.

It is better not to meet her. Just do it online. The mystery is lost, and the interest will be greatly reduced. Never introduce her to people you are familiar with. When her eyes are full of your surroundings, you will be uncomfortable; when her emotions are found in your surroundings, you will be very upset.

In short, confidante is a stranger, just a person you occasionally think of, or a dispensable person.