Always thought, EQ is very important, to pay attention to improve their EQ, pay attention to learning for the world, "the world is learning the hole Ming."
Long time, but think, perhaps EQ is not as important as imagined.
Sometimes, the decision of a person's level, not by emotional quotient, but by a person's strength.
Strength, determines what kind of circle a person can enter. EQ, it is decided that you play in this circle is not good.
We don't really like to divide the circle into layers, but the levels are real. Your strength determines whether you can set foot in a better circle.
So, do not spend too much time on how to improve their emotional quotient, because the emotional quotient of this thing is really difficult to improve, because it is a long time a way to accumulate, has become an inherent model, not to say cannot, but more difficult to improve.
The enhancement of their own strength, but can bring a qualitative leap.
So
First of all, improve your strength.
Emotional quotient, maybe not that important.