Evaluation of various Denial-of-Service methods for girls from the boys' standpoint

If you don't want to accept this guy
You 'd better reject him in a better way.

First, let's say:
1. As a friend
"We can still be ordinary friends"
This is true for girls. Naturally, it is subjective to reduce the pain points of boys.
But in this case, being a friend is actually a failure for boys to emphasize being a lover.
His wishes cannot be fulfilled, and he must constantly emphasize his failure.
He will be more painful.
The failover period will always last for a period of time. This does not mean that the two will not be friends later.
Boys are not inferior to girls.

2. Cold Processing
It is not very polite to ignore your attitude.
Silence will make boys feel at a loss
Because he cannot determine whether you want to reject or have any other ideas.
For example, if you don't want to accept the feeling that someone is pursuing
More importantly, silence won't stop him from paying.
In addition, the lack of feedback will lead him to lose his way
The results tend to be bad.
Maybe he will decide something very naive and embarrassing to you.

3. I don't want to fall in love yet
You probably have no right to say this after you are 16 years old.
If you have any psychological shadows or special experiences
Chat with others
At this time, a considerate and listening boy is really suitable for you.

Good reason for rejection:
1. "I have a boyfriend"
If it is a fact, he should naturally take the initiative to retreat
If it is a lie, a boy you will cheat, he should not pursue you with dignity.

2. "You are not my style"
Or "I have boys I like"
This is actually a good reason.
Tell him which kind of boys you like.
If he cannot do it, he will naturally know how to push it.
If he can, he can accept him.
This should be the best way to reject it.

3. Havip card
Because I always want to say "I think you are a good guy, ......"
At PTT, "good man" has become a euphemism for rejection.
Send him a "good guy card" when you refuse it.
If he doesn't know the usage, use the above method.

These reasons seem too direct
Girls tend to worry about hurting boys and do not dare to reject them directly.
In fact, only a direct disconnection can prevent boys from continuing to pay
Love is a kind of payment. When this kind of payment becomes mutual behavior, happiness comes from this.
And when this payment is unbalanced, it will produce pain
Therefore, the best way to refuse is to stop him from paying.
The so-called long pain is worse than short pain
If you really want to be nice to him, don't let him pay for it.