2016 third book "Zeng Guofan's front and side"

Introduction: This book was seen on the subway in July 14, and recently reviewed and collated. The book's Flesh and Blood, very interesting: such as the life of the five times the humiliation, such as painting is not good, from the edge to the whole body sleek but maintain the values of integrity of the ideological achievements of the sageliness process; the relationship with TSO (left is a great flower), very beautiful, clothing hat is very fastidious, after letter of Destiny, etc. In particular, Sageliness's transformation process, all directly hit our growth. Watercress Rating: 8.3 The following books are picked: Zeng Guofan's main significance proves how highly qualified people can be driven by willpower. --Zeng Guofan, discovered from the details. Tombstone lifetime, the wind will destroy it, edged, people will not, everyone is drunk, I must drink a few cups, the sky collapsed everyone died, China's things, anxious not. Excitement, anger, criticism, repeal are not the embodiment of maturity. To mature, to be broad-minded, to dialectical, comprehensive look at the problem. Why do you have to worry about the day when everyone dies? --painting very ugly colleagues ridiculed from this experience, have learned that, for those who are interested, humiliation is the greatest motivation, the best help, the hardest to bite, to swallow the humiliation, to nourish their will and determination of nutrition. This constitutes the most central part of the experience of life. Zeng Guofan reflected in the officialdom, repeatedly hit the wall, touch the book Green face swollen, not only the Emperor Petty, Minister more selfish. His personality, temper, temperament, style of many defects, is also an important reason. Recall oneself before force into the life, always with a strong, moral superiority, from the force of mind Zhengda, people alone I clear, so Gao string into, edged, speak too blunt, too straight, of course, easy to cause him into the antipathy. After repeated release of the film, he more and more clearly see their own fatal weaknesses: too proud, too eager, blindly reckless, blindly strong. I have finally realized that the person who has acted on the surface seems to be strong, but is actually weak. The real strong in this land is the man who is on the surface and is weak in the snow. The so-called "world is very soft, the world is very hard to recruit", "Rivers so for the king of the Valley, with its good." The so-called "big soft Non-soft, to just no just". The unspoken rules of Chinese society cannot be swept up in one swoop. The hypocrisy, numbness, tact, and deception that he had previously despised were the necessary means of surviving on this land. Only when necessary conform, round Qiao soft, can smooth through a difficult random mouth. Only the Sea of hundred rivers, filth, can mobilize all aspects of the power to reach the other side of victory. This is the difference between Zeng Guofan and others, so his harmony is simple and upright-based, and worldly slick wit realm power. After the thousand-fold grinding, Zeng Guofan's beginner's mind did not change. His ambition is still "to the King Shun, and then make Customs Chun." His plan is to start from me, infiltrate around, cultivate a gentleman to occupy the WWII, through their quasi-construction affect the whole society, to achieve its benign development. Zeng Guofan is a typical Mas character, this kind of person is characterized by slow reaction, action seriously, cautious introverted, all things only willing to say three points. He observes and thinks more than the average person, and the judgment is slower than the average person.

Tso's different is, Zeng Guofan under a solid self-denial, with the Neo-Confucianism as a weapon to their own "natural nature" of the deep introspection and systematic correction. In Beijing for more than 10 years, Zeng Guofan's most important thing is to reinvent himself, to take off his own self-centered, and to change the heart of "sincerity and forgiveness" and the way of modesty. His broad-minded, increasingly generous personality, to the first meeting with TSO, he has been from a blooded all the youth into a very good self-restraint of the middle-aged people, the way of friends quite insightful. He thinks that make friends generous, want to "push Prudential Shou Zheng, scarcely scared contain macro, and selfless meaning suspicion of the harm". He concluded that, to friends, the first to be honest, "mortals to ' pseudo ' to, I am ' honest ' to, long time is also a total pseudo-people will be sincere." The second is to respect, "As for the way of communication with people, then the word ' worship ' as the main." Next is the excuse, "I have to step up to stand steady, I need to know that others have to stand firm, I want to work everywhere, and the need for others to make sense." The so-called Da also. Today I am in the midst of a time of adversity, and I am so overbearing today that I envision a future in which I will be a man of my own, or a son of mine. Then is muddy, "but forget machine can eliminate the crowd machine". Interpersonal communication in all things should not be too careful, divided too clearly. Finally, you have to do "not jealous." Zeng Guofan thinks this is very important, so that in his later years, "not twig" is "not jealous" as a will, charge posterity.

Of course, a person to become "within the party Add Circle" of the "sage", not an overnight thing. Although after a hard self-bettering, but from Beijing just came to the Magistrate field, Zeng Guofan's edges still appear too clear, things still too fang and idealistic, to the magistrate field on the unexpected dark pollution of the temporary difficult to adapt. He in Jiangxi for several years and the magistrate can not morsel, both the bureaucratic system of reasons, but also the character and way of life reasons. Ozone Guofan's son after the greatest significance is that he proved in his own practice, a mediocre, through the "mold change", can become Superman. In other words, if a person sincerely into self-improvement, his leadership can grow 10 times times, insight can be 10 times times smarter, the heart can expand 10 times times, temperament can be pure 10 times times. Foolish pure into, through self-sharpening, can also see through, stand up, say, get it. Impetuous person, also can become the breeze long moon like calmly clear quiet. Stubborn people, can imitation to open-minded. Bushi. the process of removing carbon and changing boneOne of the most basic psychological tendencies of man is to make himself perfect. Chinese Confucianism, Buddhism, Taoism three, the design of life goals are extremely praises perfect. Taoism to force, through the cultivation, can not eat grain, suction cooking dew, pass away without special, humankinds, and heaven and earth with, become "to Person", "real", "Man of God". Buddhism is to force into all Buddha-nature, through self-study, can reach the deathless of the desire to break the realm of the Buddha. Confucian nature is no exception. Confucian ideals of the sage, its perfect and praises not only the immortal or Buddha. Confucian Classics said that the so-called "sage", is to achieve the perfect state of the people. Saints through their own hard repair to understand the justice, master the world of all things running laws. Therefore can "know 500 years ago, after 500", "Ming and the Sun and moon, the line if God." His every move, all appropriate, can have a clear conscience inside, not exceeding the rules, foreign countries can be ruled by the state, the benefit of the people. This is-"sageliness".   First is determined, determined to a person's personality development significance is decisive. Maslow will Self-realization as recognized the last demand, cross from the food color to get ahead of these levels, to achieve self-realization, the youth had three major shortcomings: temperament impetuous, sit, arrogant arrogant accomplishment poor, with people false untrue, easy to insincere, his self-improvement from these three aspects began. And most of the young people into the society, just into Beijing has been naïve, a straight humble, once become a friend on the Taoxin Potter Shu, ask the other party without reservation, lack of people I intersect the sense of distance and sense of proportion.   Zhu Xi also said: "Mechanics like boiled meat, first must be boiled with Meng Huo, and then with a slow temperature." "It's the same thing. Do the big to the difficult thing, the beginning must mention the full force, has the momentum, "Meng Huo" The Pain burns a section, otherwise must be difficult to succeed. Throughout the ages, the vast majority of life in the sleep or in bed. Some into, life is forbidden by material desires froze, like trapped pigs, life can not awake. Some people, aware of the need to wake up, but life in a "lazy" state, life want to force is insufficient, in the key place cannot break through. The reasons are many, but the root cause is not cruel to themselves, can not resolutely cross, sweeping all the snare. People struggle out of the state of being unconscious, just as young people are prone to bed, and the beginning is the easiest to reverse the summer. The best way is not to push softly on one side, but to go straight to rip the quilt and pour a basin of water on his face.   must have a hard-to-eat process. Comfort is never finished to replace bone. To write the Japanese class is to be ozone, that is, the "Meng Huo Cooking" stage of the National Lotus Life. Through the writing of the Japanese class, Zeng Guofan developed the "research several" Kung Fu, and for life. A few, is "the details", research a few, is serious and solemn to treat the details. "Know" and "line" is the weight of the light, has always been arguing. In fact, the root of the problem is whether the "line" is really in place, that is, whether a person's action is really able to take up his knowledge. Only from the details, in the details of the implementation of their own knowledge, is called "implementation.""From the small start", "the beginning of a journey", these are familiar words, in fact, few people can really imitation to. In fact, only from the details, it is called the real "implementation." Most people's life is because of too much detail from the relaxed and happy to slip past, to the large sections, there is no chopping cut money and ozone it is through this self-study way, one by one to check out almost all the shortcomings of his body, in almost all the details of the implementation of their strict requirements. So his move into the German industry was swift and powerful.   My generation both so learning, we must strive forward, finish RTHK spirit, will all idle thinking, leisure entertainment, idle words to sweep away all, concentrate, drilling inside, settle down, to change a person out, Fang is Kung fu progress. May the mutual encouragement. However, through continuous failure, Zeng Guofan learned that these character depths of the defect, not like to quit a simple blind good, or cut a benign tumor so simple. Smoking tangible signs, quit smoking only need to do one, hands do not touch smoking can be. And more personality weaknesses are deeply rooted in human nature. It is formed for many years, with other parts of the flesh and blood into a whole, Chanton and concealment, can not be singled out with a scalpel cut off. Therefore, self-improvement can not be smooth sailing, more impossible bijigongyuyiyi. In the process of self-improvement, a person will be subjected to countless times of repeated, failure, frustration and even regression. Have learned that all are in failure to constantly revise the frustration of continuous growth, Sage is no exception: "From the ancient sages did not have to reluctantly with a few natural, by experience repentance with a few mature also." "  Learning to be a saint" is a lifelong career. Many root deep shortcomings, through the 1:30 will be "Meng Huo boil", will not completely change, only with a lifetime of time to "warm fire", it is possible to slowly dissolve. With Cheung, many advantages, not through a vow, a period of hard work, you can take root in their own, only a long time to adhere to dissolve into their own flesh and blood. In the starting stage of the slim, it is important to be strong. In the stage of the process, more important is the lock. Zeng Guofan later developed a "forgive" to show how to make an external virtue into his inner character through the unyielding efforts of the firm lock. So even if you do not want to, also have to conceal their temper to force themselves so imitation. "Do not, and do not Shizi into, this strong anger also." "A strong excuse, Yue said: a strong excuse, everything strong." Long, it is gradually close to nature. If they are fitted with them, they will shun and Ann, and the inexperienced will be harmonious and detailed. "The beginning is reluctantly to do their own, Tianchang Yue Long, became a part of their own character." If a man cannot force himself, he will accomplish nothing.   Emperor Kangxi said, learning your first decision not to move, there is a bold and diligent in the heart, the end of a steadfast forever solid force.   People's life, such as through the process of self-maturation, can not be anxious not slack.   Round place, man's head is round, like the sky, feet are square, like the ground. Indomitable Spirit of heaven and earth, there is knowledge to understand the truth, and animals accept the world's partial gas, only through the way to knowKnowledge So believe in destiny. Life is nothing but a stream of water, where it is entirely on the terrain  

Behind these events, there are many deep-seated forces, such as timing, history and people's hearts, and the individual can play a very limited role. Therefore, all he has to do is to do his part within the limits of what is possible, without worrying about it, and taking too much unbearable weight onto his shoulders.

Since ancient times, knowledge has been refined and coarse, action has real and untrue, this is precisely the difference between Saint-Fains and size. So he said, good people should be "more organized and less big words", that is, more logical, less rambling rhetoric.

2016 third book "Zeng Guofan's front and side"