Yesterday, a friend who has known me for five years moved in and lived with me. I was not so excited, but suddenly I felt a little more life in my life. I immediately contacted friends who had not been in contact for nearly four months in the evening to know that their life had changed dramatically over the past few months. What is a friend? I suddenly think of this problem. The separation of distance also separates the opportunities we want to care about and connect to each other. Is that true? This is the case for everyone, and even friends who are close to each other may be disconnected. Isn't it possible to make up for this "complex" in developed network social networking and communication modes? But I am trying to make up for it.
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After graduation, I was busy looking for a job. After I found my job, I was busy with my work. Now I have a little more free time to realize that "Where have my friends been ". Although there are not many friends and few are worth cherishing, there are still several friends screened out by time, but they are lost in my busy life. I want to retrieve it now, but some cannot.
It's not too late
It's just that if you can live again every day, you should not give up. The loss is doomed not to be yours, but some can be recovered. With this belief, when I finally know what is the most important thing, I decided to act and find those friendships.
Action 1: no longer refuse
I say that I am also a person who does not know how to refuse, but I am too tired and complicated. I am still easy to refuse and don't want to go out and go shopping together. Now, I know more about the important ways to communicate and communicate with each other. We even organize some group activities on our own to make us better understand each other.
Action 2: proactively break the deadlock
"If you don't contact me, you won't contact me." I often start with this to break the long-standing deadlock. Maybe everyone has such an idea that your friends will take the initiative to contact you. Everyone thinks so, and their hearts are getting cooler, but there is no news. If you can, why do you think so much? If you want to be friends, you will be harassed by phone. If you have any fun, troubles, and synchronization in your life, you will still live together as before.
In recent years, I have also established several groups, including junior high school friends and university friends. Go home every day to open the notebook, WiFi sharing wizard automatically turn on WiFi hotspots, the mobile phone automatically connect to this wireless networkFreeWiFi. No need to tangle traffic or router, as long as the WiFi software. Then we can chat in the group, and everyone can connect to each other, and occasionally come to the location where someone is located, there can also be a string of doors. Now that everyone has time, they can make an appointment at that place to see if there have been any changes in the past few years.
What an ideal status is, after several years, it may be a little difficult. However, I am willing to work hard for this. Okay, my friends. Come back soon. I will wait for you!