"いまヒマそうね"
You seem to be busy.
Proven itself reliability みたい bit Sound ける international に"いまヒマ? "などと say っていませんか? Words われた i はその moistened, ヒマであればあるほどイラっとくる say leaves ですので.
When you have something to ask someone or talk to someone, you must have said, "Idle?" "Right." This is what makes you think that people who are idle are going to have a big fire.
<この"いま, ヒマなんだろう"という には, people 軽 んじているニュアンスがある. そのひと words wen いた instantaneous, say われた heart には"private にだって, することぐらいありますよ"という anti-souel が sheng まれ, "ヒマじゃない"という refused to くのである.>
Are you busy? There is an emotion of contempt in this remark. Hearing this, will arouse the listener to give birth to "I am not idle, there are things to do" this aversion. "Busy?" "You will be rejected >
Ho かをお wish いしたかったら, "stains いけど""Shen expands registered ないけど"と Wen につければ, no な anti-souel, まずスムーズに things が.
When it comes to things, try to use some "sorry", "Excuse me." The beginning of the word will make things smooth.
"いい year して"
Laotaibuxiao
たとえば, が son どもにむかって"" いい years をして "いつまでも Home occupies introduction きこもっていないで shi しなさいよ! "などと words にっては, son どもから big きな anti souel, Kuu らうことがあります.
For example, the parents say to the child ["Laotaibuxiao", do not always stuffy at home, go out to find something to do! ], this can cause a great antipathy to the child.
Japan では, ho かにつけて year Ginkgo で District しようとする. むろん, ある degree のけじめは necessary だが, それはもっと, で say ったほうがいい. >
In Japan, whatever it is, you have to differentiate your age. Of course, a certain level of demarcation is necessary, but it is better to have other statements. >
いい year をして "のあとは, もっぱら not difficult めいた content が Yobitsugi Earpick, say われる i はそれを from felt していることが more いのでかなりダメージを by けます. Genki をつけましょう.
After saying ' Laotaibuxiao ', there continues to be more content to blame, although the listener will recognize the problem and be harmed as a result. Please pay attention to yo.
"そのうちわかるよ"
I understand that.
Bit finance economics Fukuoka に"そのうちわかるよ"と say われてイラっとしたことありませんか?
An older person or an experienced person says to you, "I understand!" "You will fire big!"
<"キミは ho もわかっていないんだよ"と 軽 しているのと with じことになる. > Big きな anti-souel 飲む reason になり human Shimonoseki にひびが into るので, attention が necessary ですので.
This sentence will cause "You know everything ha" such contempt, resulting in interpersonal gap. Pay attention to Oh!
"どっちでもいい"
All can
The male としては the gall してしまう. せっかく occupies food をするというのに, female が passenger moistened Genki でないように think えてしまうのである. >
Finally eat together, girls also not wayward better, men will be aware of. >
でも, trilogy centered にどちらでもいいと う もありますよね. その は asked to return to しがおすすめ. "そうだね, xx June はどちらが food べたいの? "と say いましょう.
However, there are still cases where all of them are OK. Recommend this way of answering "so, you want to eat that?" ”
"~は Get Started ですね"
Very good at what?
~は Get started ですね "は, a see めの words developed See えますが, どこがngポイントなのでしょう. "~" は "to get started ですね"の, "は" が problem.
Very good at what ", at first glance seems to be commendatory, the problem is" は ".
White Kei dental がまぶしく light る smile See て"Dental は white くてキレイですね"と われたら, "dental はキレイじゃないんだ......"と not occupies sense じてしまいます. " "は" ではなく, "が" bit "も" to make えば, get started な praise めの words occupies slew body します.
See white teeth, emitting a dazzling smile is said ["Teeth good white beautiful ah", will produce a "except for the teeth there is no beautiful place"] no pleasure. Instead of replacing "は" with "が" or "も", it becomes a high-praise word.
The same じように, so that the Kei Fang occupies attention したいほめ Yan occupies, "はきれいでしたね"がある. " People をほめるときは, now in shape carry いにも, with the が necessary である調. >
The same should be noted in the use of such as "the past is very beautiful". Praise the person, in the use of the present, the past style to pay attention to. >
Praise めの と Think にっては make っている say ye にも, careful heart が necessary ですので.
Even the statement of praise is necessary to use carefully!
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