Men and women, ideals and reality, sensibility and Reason

For a long time, I have always believed that "man" is equivalent to "reality" and "rationality", while "woman" is equivalent to "ideal" and "Sensibility ".

Later, I found that this idea is a lack of thinking.

 

In ancient times, war was frequent. Men often became machines of war and fought for many years, while men's wives often waited for their husbands at home. Before the expedition, no matter how powerful the enemy is, men often seek out with an ideal determination to win. On the one hand, this idea is because the human psychology is playing a strange role. From the perspective of modern psychology, the mental strength of a person can often support his survival in adversity, and there is a possibility of turning back in adversity. On the other hand, presumably, no man wants to die before leaving the game. The normal idea is that even if most people do not voluntarily leave the game, they often have a "lucky" mentality, this kind of luck is: "Maybe the enemy will be defeated by us. Maybe I will be lucky to save my life from the countless knives of the enemy, and I will see my wife and children in a bid ".

Isn't this mentality of facing war very "ideal" or "irrational? This kind of "ideal" is not based on the comparison and analysis of the so-called pre-war capabilities of the two sides, there is no scientific reasoning, but based on "Fantasy" and "lucky ", does this mean that ancient men are "ideal" and "emotional?

Women who stay in the home always worry that men will never go forever before their husbands leave, and always worry that men will become dead souls under the enemy's knife on the battlefield. This is because women understand that there will be sacrifices when there is a war, whether it is king or defeat, the enemy's knife always goes out, some people will fall. Isn't this "Worry" very "rational" or "realistic", and it is based on the experience of the rule of things.

 

In modern society, let's look at the examples of male and female dating.

A man's blind date has relatively simple requirements for the woman, namely appearance, temperament, and morality. However, when a woman is dating, it is more "realistic". The first question is "three products" (which can be interpreted as: car, house, money, money, power, and trend ), the second is to check whether your family background meets the requirements. The third is to understand the male's appearance, ideals, and aspirations ......

A man's blind date, the first is not to consider that he is a "three products", and the second is always a hope, hoping to meet the "Idealistic modern silly girl ", don't make money, don't make promises and guarantees about the quality of life. Women's blind dates can be described as "reality". They are well versed in the daily life of diesel, oil, salt, soy sauce, vinegar, and tea. There must be an economic foundation to support all kinds of tea. Who would like to follow Tao Yuanming's hoe to go to Nanshan sooner or later, even if the other party is a talented and ambitious "three products", then how, without the economic foundation, the quality of life is not high, must be destined for the necessities of life and sorrow in the future. In this case, why not pick out and make it clear. If the basic conditions are met and the value-added value is higher than the ideal of life, if the basic conditions are not met, they can be directly filtered out!

The poor author happens to be a kind of screened out.

 

 

Since ancient times, it has been said that men are very realistic and rational. After careful consideration, they can understand that men are ideal and emotional.