Perfection never exists

Perfection never exists

ByLi xiaolaiOn 2011/01/27

InThe third edition of "Treat time as a friend"

No one is pursuing perfection. Unfortunately, perfection does not exist. Statistics from the British corpus show that the most common word used together with the word "perfectionist" is "vulnerable"-not by accident, this is a natural combination that people use to record reality. Why are perfectionists often fragile? Because they are always hit by reality, and if they are not clear, they often blame others. "Why is my injury always me ?"

The more competent the person, the more unrealistic and extremely fragile the perfectionist tends. They are unrealistic because they do not understand. People who do the consulting work have a profound experience: the more common sense the guy asks, the higher the requirement-because he doesn't understand, he can submit the request at will. Likewise, people who have never done well are simply imagining that they have never done well and have no factual basis for the so-called "doing well. As a result, all the symptoms have emerged: Cool, whimsical, day-dreaming, on-paper ...... Because they do not understand, they are unrealistic, but they are fragile because they are unrealistic. They are easy to get hurt because they have too many requirements and cannot do so.

Sometimes these people do this intentionally, even though they do not want to admit it themselves. It is a way for them to promote themselves as perfectionists. It is an excuse for them not to do something. When they say this excuse, it is really a sound: "I don't do anything bad !" 22. However, this is the case for a person. After a long installation, the person may be like a person. The person may be too long. In the end, no matter what the facts are, I believe it first. This should, of course, be followed by decisions and actions. But the problem is that nothing can be done at once, so they don't do it either. In the end, they don't "do something" anymore, instead, "nothing done" and "nothing done" make the so-called "nothing done "...... The funny thing is that even in this situation, these people are still fat-faced, claiming that "I have nothing to regret "......

some really good people are called perfectionists ". In fact, this description is not accurate. To be more accurate, it should be "they are people who have the ability to be closer to perfection, and they have been working hard ". For example, Hollywood director James Cameron is always called a perfectionist ". The fact that he is constantly pursuing perfection is the premise that he is not only capable but also persistent. In order to produce "Avatar", he prepared for 14 years after filming "Titanic. In pursuit of the perfect 3D effect, he spent $14 million to work with Sony's R & D headquarters in Japan to develop his ideal shooting device. In order to make a final shot of "Avatar", we also made another 3D movie "journey to Earth" as a trainer ...... Even if the previous Terminator was a great success, when shooting Titanic, a serious overspending has left him untrustworthy in Hollywood, and even if he wants to "give up on film, only get royalty "to get more funds to film Titanic. The success of titanic gave Cameron the capital to take a later version of "Avatar"-and it took 14 years. Another Hollywood director, Christopher Nolan, is also known as a perfectionist ". He has prepared for 10 years in pursuit of the perfect effect of the film "dreamspace. In order to make myself really grasp the grand scenes, before the "dream space", two consecutive "Batman"-"Time of War" and "Dark Knight" were taken. After determining your own control capabilities, you dare to pursue the perfect effect of "leeching space. However, even such a large Director repeats the famous saying over and over again: "movie is an art of defect "......

No one can be perfect. We can always be near perfect or closer to perfect. When doing anything, you need to endure all kinds of imperfections at all times. Otherwise, the task cannot be completed at all times. Even if the final result is completed, the results are often imperfect, and defects are inevitable. A little bigger, life itself is not perfect. Whose life is not stumbling? Who had no regrets when they died? The reality is that it is unacceptable.