Yale University mentality

 

Mentality
1. Be confident, absolute, unconditional, and always confident.
2. Watch magazines and listen to music when you are bored and lonely. It is useless but not harmful.
3. Do not think too much, especially negative thoughts.
4. Learn to forget some things, memories of pain, embarrassment, and regret, and make room for memories of sunshine.
5. Dare to try new things, dare to lose face, love to lose face, and dare to challenge. It is good to make several mistakes when you are young. But if you can get it done in one step, you should be right at one time.
6. Every day is a new day. Every morning, we welcome a new day with optimism and enthusiasm.

7. Admit that you are not smart and brave. In this way, you can be calm and give a heartfelt praise to others.
8. The highest realm of being a person is not to keep a low profile, not to make public opinions, but to be always humble.

Learning
1. Learning is always the first place.
2. attach importance to previewing and reviewing, and learn to learn by yourself. Yes, you can get a high score before the test, but the fast-paced knowledge is also fragile. I don't want to find that I don't remember anything after graduation, and my brain is empty.
3. Keep up with the teacher's thinking in class, and be able to sit in the first row as the first row.
4. Understanding cooperation, active in the classroom, not for others, but for yourself.
5. You must complete your teacher's homework in real time. Indeed, university homework can be delayed, but that is not the reason for your slack.
6. Never forget the spirit of Cooperative Learning and mutual learning. In college, there is no pressure on the college entrance examination. This pure learning spirit is even more valuable.
7. Have your own plans and life plans.
8. You must have high-level requirements on yourself.

Communication
1. Assume that we are good at human nature and treat everyone around us with sincerity.
2. Explore the advantages of everyone and sincerely praise others.
3. All friends should spread the Internet, focusing on cultivation.

4. Confidant may be hard to find. Some people are used to locking others out of a certain distance. It is easy to get close and difficult to get closer. For such a person, it's useless for you to invest more enthusiasm, but it will only make yourself depressed. It is better to keep the distance and stop.
5. Sincerely take the initiative to help others without any return. If you want to be grateful for everything, you are doomed to be disappointed.
6. Learn to say no and never make friendship a burden.
7. Try to let others understand you, so that they can read others with great enthusiasm. Because you understand others, you feel familiar to that person, but that person feels strange to you. It's like a warm hand hitting a sharp knife and finding an injury.
8. Do not mean words of interest to real friends. One text message, one greeting, one active, Do not care too much about who is better. The two sides of friendship must have paid a little more. It doesn't matter who you are. What matters is that your feelings continue.
9. in whatever circumstances, you must maintain your independence and never lose yourself.

About love
1. Do not fall in love because of loneliness and emptiness.
2. Do not fall in love with people who are paranoid or extreme in their work.
3. The sisters who are around have a good home to move back to the second line.
4. Don't be jealous of friends.
5. Xi Shi appears in the eyes of the lover, but do not treat the people around him as a dog or dog.
6. Do not treat friendship as love.
7. You may like many people, but don't fall in love with anyone.
8. Let it go, and fate cannot be forced.

Work
1. Never complain. Complaints only expose your incompetence.
2. Public and private networks should be clearly defined.
3. Be proactive at any time.
3. Do not reveal your emotions and emotions too much in public. If you are in a mood, ask a friend, don't ask a colleague.
4. work efficiency.
5. Have a good relationship with colleagues and leaders, but do not want to become friends with them.
6. Less talk and more work.
7. You should know, or you should not know.
8. There are some things that can't be broken.

Life
1. Tidy up your own things and put things in place.
2. It is better to save money than to make money.
3. Pay attention to fashion information and learn to manage yourself.
4. Wear clothes without famous brands, but be sure to match them.
5. Eat less snacks and more fruits.
6. Keep warm. Don't care. No one cares about the cold legs and rheumatism.
7. A girl must have skills.
8. Be yourself.