Happiness and troubles

What are the differences between happiness and troubles? Why are people happy and worried? How can we control our happiness and troubles?

HAPPY: you have done what you are interested in, listened to what you like, met people you want to see, etc. This will make you happy. People are happy and everything goes well.

Annoyance: you have done something you are not interested in, heard what you don't like, and met people you don't want to see, etc. this will make you unhappy. A person is unhappy and doesn't take a good look at anything.

But why are you happy or worried? Of course, it is normal for humans to have joys and sorrows, but sometimes it may lead to unnecessary troubles, so I have to learn to control my joys and sorrows.

My friends always ask me, why is she always gentle with me, no matter how she treats me? She said that I have no feelings for her, don't care about her, sometimes face her unreasonable troubles, I am really angry, really want to furious with her, but think about it, angry, shouting to solve the problem? The answer is no, but it will make the problem worse, because everyone is fond of listening to amiable words, and no one is willing to stare at themselves, this is a big shout (but it does not mean that an individual has an abusive hobby. Sometimes, my friend may have this hobby. I hope that she can't see (:) or be a little bit trivial, it also became very serious and difficult to end. since we all know the results, why should we do that? Our goal is to solve the problem, rather than finding the best way to solve the problem.

Today, I was educated by my friends. She said she didn't know how to touch me? ---- Is that difficult for me? I used to joke with her today. (I am a little angry, but for the moment) It doesn't mean that I don't care about her if I don't call her back, but she got angry and thought that I couldn't get along with each other, and I cried again (I found that I was really amazing now, and I was able to make her cry thousands of miles away) I am so sad that she is crying. It's my fault anyway. It's because I made it angry. I am here to apologize to you faithfully.

Can my wife always get angry? Is it possible to increase the capacity? Can you understand each other?

I love my wife.

However, this is a quarrel. My friend is very nice to me and considerate to me. When I come back with her, I feel like I still want her to give it to me.

What about meals !!! I like to drink my wife's seaweed soup.

Cherish what you see. Do not cherish it until you lose it !!!