Happiness means finding someone who is warm for a lifetime.

Happiness means finding a warm person for a lifetime. Today, I suddenly want to tell everyone in the world, cherish it, cherish the people who love you, cherish the people who keep protecting you and always treat you as a baby. That person is really precious. When she (him) is by your side, you do not know that you really love her (him), or even think that you are taken for good, and seldom realize that she (him) sometimes she or she will lose her temper, sometimes get tired, sometimes feel lacking in passion, but when you don't have her) no one cares about you, no one cares about you, and sometimes you suddenly find that you are the one you love most. Love is a long-lasting tug-of-war. From Acquaintance to mutual awareness, and then to mutual love, it is a long tug-of-war on the front. Two people who have no intersection for 20 years or even longer will inevitably quarrel and disagree. She or she was not an integrated entity, but she was in love, and then she could not solve all the problems. Because our personality is too strong and we love ourselves more, we always have disputes and find ourselves willful after making noises with each other, but it is inevitable that the next capricious.


If there is a regret in this world, I believe that everyone wants to have it, they will be able to take a medicine after each quarrel or cold war, and forget it all and start over again. It's a pity that you don't have this kind of medicine, and even if you have it, the total regret medicine will also generate resistance. Every quarrel will leave a little harm, and it will become a burden for you and her (him). No one cares about a small quarrel, but what about two or three times? Many times? All quarrels are turned into grievance at the end. One day, it will erupt.


Every one of us has loved it. I believe it is very serious. Some may have been lost for a long time, but it is still a bit painful to remember. It is surprisingly fair because she or he left you as much as she or she finally took away from you. No one owes anything, but they do not know how to cherish it. Maybe you will say that I did not cherish the last time. This time I will do well and I will cherish it! But how to cherish it?


Your lover, you need to understand with your heart, understand her (HIS) heart, think about what she (HIS) really needs, and when you think about her (HIS) when you need something, you have gained his respect. Your lover, you need to protect it with your heart. Don't think you can't protect her because she or she is better than you or she is a big male ), your love is stronger than any encouragement. You are enough to protect the people you love. Your lover, you need to cherish her (him) with your heart, and she (him) will do 1.1 drops for you, not just thank her (him), but keep it in mind, often think about her (him ). To put your face down and endure your bad temper, to get used to the completely different habits of you and her, to take care of your time and regularity, is her (him) because of love.


Before you lose your temper, please breathe in, take a deep breath five times, and then breathe for five times. Then speak again. When you have any questions about her or her, you may write a letter to tell her or her. I believe that you have been calm up when writing a letter, the previously depressing mood has been mitigated. Sometimes you may not get angry after writing the letter. Because writing a letter requires wording, it will calm you down first. In this way, we can communicate with each other by faith, without verbal conflicts or communication, which will solve your problems in the most rational way and will not replace the quarrel or cold war.


When you are wronged, you may wish to tell her (him) your thoughts and let her (him) know your real thoughts. If you want to do this, you actually need her (him) how to do it. Don't always let her (him) Guess your mind, because your mind is really hard to guess. Not all people who love each other have the sixth sense of interconnectivity. Don't get angry if she or she can't guess your mind, because you don't know how long it takes to guess how many brain cells your mind has wasted.


When you are sad, you may wish to tell her (him) Your thoughts first. Maybe she (him) has no good way, but at least the person you love will comfort you. Sometimes she (he) will tell you something wrong directly, and don't get angry. she (he) is for you, she (he) I just give you a guide from the perspective of watching. When you calm down, you may think that her (HIS) approach is very good. Even if you cannot do it, you must understand her (HIS) thoughts. In turn, when we find that she or she is slightly incorrect, we need to care about her (him), pay attention to her (HIS) brow, and pay attention to her (HIS) mood. Try to understand him even if he doesn't understand him.


Tell him about your decision before you make a decision. This is to respect his or her performance. Maybe he or she does not agree, but he or she is sure to be thankful for your respect. If you agree, congratulations and make your happiness better. When he or she makes a decision, do not intervene too much and give him or her as much space as possible. Believe me, although you love each other, you are still a complete individual, so let him or her decide. Even if you disagree, don't tell him or her when he or she is excited. Encourage him or her! Afterwards, he or she will give some comments to him or her. In the face of suffering, do not underestimate the capabilities of your lover, or commit crimes against him or her because of your own depressing circumstances ). He or she is not easy. He or she is facing the same difficulties as you. He or she needs to take care of your thoughts. In fact, he or she is more difficult. Work with him or her. I believe you can solve anything together. Do not face difficulties alone, because no one wants their lover to face difficulties independently. It is equally important to spend hardships together and enjoy happiness together, I believe two people will be together.


When you think your love is not passionate, you may want to review yourself first. What have you done for you? Is there a reason for this? How long have you not given him a small gift? How long have you not kissed him for any reason? How long have you not chatted or talked with him or her? How long have you not invited him or her to dinner or watch a movie? Don't always think that he or she does not love you enough. Without being careful before, love will mature, love will grow bigger, and the unchanging love does not exist. Do not always count.


When you are tempted, you may wish to calm down and think about the past of you and him or her. Once upon a time, he or she was also tempted and attractive to you. But now the passion is gone. No one can be passionate forever. The temptation you face is always classified as calm one day. Just like your lover. What else do you want your lover to do if he or she faces such a temptation? Just do what you want him or her to do.


Remember, take a deep breath first, do not worry, do not be excited, two people's affairs, two people to deal.


Since we were born, we have never really learned how to love, but we have learned the meaning of love from reality and experience, in fact, I am also a child who does not know how to love. In fact, I want to tell my brothers and sisters who are happy and happy now, cherish, protect, and love your lover, before you lose him. Also tell those brothers and sisters who are looking for their own happiness and are on the way to finding them. After finding them, you must cherish, protect, and love your lover) before ......


Happiness means finding a warm person for a lifetime. I sincerely hope everyone will have their own happiness! Including myself.

 

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