Happiness psychology 2 weakness and self-esteem

1. Discover your vulnerabilities
2. Find a solution to your vulnerabilities
3. Show your weaknesses in class

What is weakness? The explanation of the Chinese Dictionary is inadequate. But from another perspective, it is also another embodiment of its own advantages. It is the biggest lie in the world to think that you are not good enough. (The story of a person without limbs) controlling a weakness is to prevent the weakness from affecting the strength of the channel, rather than making up for the weakness, or even trying to turn it into an advantage! Only when you learn to "Accept yourself" and embrace everything, all strengths and weaknesses. Be sure that you are unique, so that you can truly "Be yourself ". Become your own master, discover your internal strength and needs, and find the direction to achieve them. Do not show your advantages when others discover your advantages. Life should be perfect, but complete. Vulnerabilities are allowed to exist without affecting their own advantages.

The greatest weakness is probably the source of your greatest pleasure. To be yourself means to become your masters, discover your internal strengths and needs, and find ways to achieve them.

Life and advantage are the same, and life and value are the same.
 
Self-esteem, that is, self-evaluation, determines whether you are able to cope with the challenges of life and whether there is value worthy of happiness. Among all the judgments we have made in life, the most important judgment is our own judgment. The greatest misfortune of a person is that he sees himself as unfortunate. Mental health: Self-reconciliation relationship concord: show the real self, do not evaluate others' self-esteem vs self-confidence for weakness, self-esteem is an upgraded self-esteem. Self-esteem is not a false self-respect, empty praise, but a product of hard work based on facts. "If you don't work, you are at your own risk." self-confidence is not the natural power of nature, but what you need to work hard to get. Self-esteem classification: Dependent self-esteem: value is determined by others, ability is compared with others, behavior choice, fear of breakthrough and innovation independence self-esteem: Value self-determination, ability self-comparison; know what kind of life you want to live. Unconditional self-esteem: value is unconditional, and ability depends on each other.