How to guide children correctly

• Article 1 enable children to take their homework
  Article 2 How To Make A Child obedient
  Article 3 how to guide your child to be conscious
  Article 4 how to help children learn how to manage their emotions
  Article 5 How To Make children love learning
  Article 6 how to eliminate children's learning tension
  Article 7 How to make your child focus
  Article 8 how to eliminate the confusion of Children in learning
  Article 9 how to make a child become passive and positive
  Article 10 how to cultivate children's self-confidence
  11th how to eliminate child inferiority
  Article 3 advantages of changing children's disadvantages

• 1. Enable your child to take the initiative to do his homework
  your child is obedient and is a gentle horse, but it is often said that "the horse can be taken to the river, but the horse cannot be drunk ". Indeed, unless a horse is thirsty, even if he can bring it to the water, he cannot take the initiative to drink water.
  1), the time for doing the job should not be too long.
  2) to enlarge the child's advantages.
  3), learning cannot be too hasty.
  4) ask him to bring the girl he liked home.
  5) First let the child play enough
  6) to stimulate her and make him do his best.
  7). The opposite is true.
  8), often changing the learning environment.
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  10) Let the children do their homework first.
  11) Let the children decide by drawing lots.
  12) do not judge the teacher in front of the child

• 2. How to make your child obedient and sensible
  when communicating with your child, you must listen carefully to him, let him feel that his parents pay attention to him and respect him, so that the child's small self-esteem will be set up, and he will seriously think about what he wants and does in his conversation with adults, expressing your opinions is also helpful for your children's rational thinking habits. Of course, adults should also pay attention to some details when communicating with their children so that they can communicate well with their children quickly.
  1) Praise the child by a third party.
  2) use letters or diaries to communicate with children.
  3) speak in a gentle tone.
  4) promptly let the child know where the error is.
  5) cleverly divert the child's attention.
  6) join your child.
  7). Only one thing is explained at a time.
  8), often expressing trust in children.
  9). Only constructive comments are provided.
  10) do not blame the frustrated child.
  11) Correct the child's poor life details in a timely manner.
  12). If you appreciate it more, you must be a child.

• 3. How to guide your child to be conscious
  There is a principle of saturation, that is, children get bored. Although I strongly want to have a purpose, I can also experience the pleasure of doing things, but because of the wide variety of courses, I cannot take the initiative to do things continuously. If I want to lower the required level, the weight of the course is reduced and the vitality of the children during the low tide continues to be cultivated. Then, after the low tide, they will increase their sense of responsibility and take the initiative to do their homework.
  1) Appropriately lower requirements for children
  2) Let the children do their favorite subjects first.
  3), with the same pace to enhance the initiative
  4) Let the children suffer first
  5) interest is the best teacher.
  6) Mother's encouragement is the most important
  7) change your attitude first
  8) occasionally speak to the child with evidence of pleading
  9) Don't scold the child when the child is defeated.
  10) It is also effective to give appropriate compensation to children.
  11) Bringing children closer to nature
  12) success is not as hard as you think
  13) cultivate children's initiative and self-motivation
  14) turn anger into motivation for learning

• 4. How to make children learn to manage their emotions
  Children in adolescence are often dissatisfied with their parents, because the self-requirements that come with growth conflict with their parents. Parents must try their best to overcome these transitional difficulties so that they can mature and grow up smoothly.
  1) guides the children to vent their dissatisfaction
  2) give your child the right to select a subject
  3) listen carefully to your child's dissatisfaction
  4) change the role of a customer to a child
  5) Don't make busy work your excuse
  6) handle unreasonable requirements of children in a democratic manner
  7), from persuasion to education
  8) use actual advantages and disadvantages to handle willful attitudes
  9) Pay attention to guiding children's herd Psychology
  10), giving the child a space for venting

• 5. How to make children love learning
  In the cramming education model, learning is a model process. You can't even dislike it, no matter whether you are interested or not, you have to sit in front of your desk and read your textbooks over and over again, which is also the cause of your child's incomprehension.
  1) give more information to the children.InspirationalStory
  2) use recent learning objectives to inspire children
  3) It is also important to distract the child's attention.
  4) get rid of the child's three-minute hot habits
  5) promotes learning by enhancing appetite
  6) teach the children to learn how to save their strength
  7) a proper amount of exercise can make your child's brains more flexible
  8) use the radical approach to promote children's learning
  9) use crisis awareness to promote learning efficiency
  10) Keep the learning content fresh
  11) Adjust the reading atmosphere with different subjects
  12) deliberately changing the children's learning environment

• 6. How to eliminate children's learning tension
  As a parent, you must give proper counseling and comfort to the child as much as possible, so that the child can remove the anxiety of the child, and often use an optimistic and humorous tone to relieve the child's fear, it gives them a high degree of self-confidence and courage to face the major and minor challenges that follow.
  1) accompany the child to make him feel safe
  2) play down the child's failure in an optimistic and humorous tone
  3) describe a month as thirty days.
  4) Pay more attention to the importance of children's psychological Construction
  5) breathing can regulate children's mood
  6) deliberately make a mistake in front of the child
  7) The mascot is stable.
  8). Eliminate the tension and spof as quickly as possible.

• 7. How to make the children concentrate
  Mothers should adjust their homework appropriately, rather than keep up with the established plan, so that they can get the performance of both funding and taking care of. Some children even read a book and envy others for playing and playing, there is a feeling of dissatisfaction in his mind, which will affect his interest in reading books.
  1) roundabout hint Technique
  2) Formulate irregular segmentation schedules
  3) Alarm Clock
  4) Create an elastic homework schedule
  5) Remove the lax consciousness of "can be done at any time"
  6) deliberately and appropriately allocate children for housework
  7), so that the children can guess questions to improve the attention of the exam
  8), warm-up is essential
  9) use "quantity" to drive forward

• 8. How to eliminate the confusion of children's learning
  For a mother, the trivial matters that do not matter in her eyes are sometimes a heavy burden on the child's heart. Therefore, the mother should always put herself in the shoes of the child, as a bystander, help your child solve problems in life.
  1) guide the child to make the most appropriate choice
  2) Induction inquiry method for choice
  3) cleverly ask questions on the premise of one choice
  4) The black cow's milk is white.
  5) Open the fog of chaos
  6) Will the ship naturally go straight to the bridgehead?
  7), personal experience is the most profound
  8) Fate is hidden in our thoughts.

• 9. How to make a child become passive and positive
  there is nothing in life, but there is no hope or hope, life is endless! For children, encourage them all the time and do not let them have negative emotions.
  1), find the internal cause of the child's negative behavior
  2), ask the child to publicly announce the target
  3 ), strong physical fitness is the foundation for building a positive attitude
  4). Good living habits are a magic weapon for maintaining a positive attitude
  5 ), let the child develop the habit of reading aloud
  6), and let the child develop the good habit of arriving at school in advance
  7 ), make more friends with positive and optimistic friends
  8) and develop the habit of writing big words
  9 ), let the children do some housework to get rid of depression
  10), encourage the children to make more new attempts
  11), and cultivate their sense of responsibility in housework
  12 ), do not always ask questions or not
  13), and cultivate a positive attitude towards children's bottom-up
  14 ), more praise and less criticism can make children more motivated

• Article 10 how to cultivate children's self-confidence
  The value of life depends on ourselves! Tell your child that a person, as an independent individual, is unique and never forgets this point. Let the child know the value of his existence and increase his confidence, make more efforts to create your own personality and future.
  1) Tell the child that he is invaluable
  2) Let the child do something easy to do
  3) weaken the children's mistakes and highlight their achievements
  4) Pay attention to the children's efforts
  5) Praise before blaming the child
  6) Strengthen the advantages to keep the children motivated
  7) Build your child's self-confidence with high goals
  8) build mutual trust with children using "original dependency"
  9) parents should not blame each other in front of their children.
  10) Don't blame the child in front of a third party
  11) Let the child believe that the God of luck will come at any time
  12) Let the children recall their past achievements and regain confidence

• Article 1 how to eliminate child inferiority
  To eliminate the sense of inferiority and cultivate self-confidence, the two sides must be integrated. However, the self-confidence cultivation skills mentioned in the previous chapter are not intended for children with poor abilities. That is to say, for children with defects or poor grades, they are often unable to make full use of the results. this chapter is different from the previous chapter and can be widely applied to children with poor abilities.
  1) from the "defect consciousness" to the Total Negation
  2) The statement must be frequently used.
  3) the mother and the child must also talk about skills.
  4) to solve the knot in the child's mind for specific reasons
  5) use words to remove children's psychological barriers
  6) Let the children read the biography of great people in the world
  7) Let the children face their excellent peers objectively
  8) cultivate children's special talents
  9) the child's sense of inferiority is weakened by luck.

• 12th how to change the child's disadvantages to advantages
  because the mother often reminds me of the shortcomings, the child will also know themselves. However, children with high self-requirements often worry about their own shortcomings. Therefore, the direct scolding of the mother often gets a reverse effect, making him less confident.
  1) Let the child face up to the disadvantages in an appropriate way
  2) and blame the child for the fault in front of the child.
  3 ), distinguish between weaknesses and personalities
  4). Change the child's stance to make him self-disciplined
  5). The child's shortcomings and advantages are interchangeable
  6 ), indirectly eliminate child dissatisfaction
  7), use the implied Effect of moderate punishment or threat
  8), and use self-talk to imply child's shortcomings
  9 ), do not use authority to suppress the child's resistance
  10), and encourage the child to "do nothing"
  11 ), child, you can do it