How to make a husband and wife a lover forever!

I attended a class a few days ago and felt very beneficial. I am free today. I just want to share it with my friends. The topic of this course is how to make a husband and wife a lover for a lifetime. When I hear a question, I am very interested. I don't know if you are also interested? I can only write my notes to you.
The teacher said: 80% of upper-level American families are not divorced, even if 20% of the families are divorced, their marital life was also 10 years ago. However, our country is on the contrary. Our country often has a high divorce rate in upper-level society. Because we have money, we feel that our wife is not beautiful. If we are not attractive, we will change. Alas!
1. A successful person often has the following qualities:
1. honesty, integrity, and education
2. Good Social Skills
3. Good Ideas
4. Spouse Support
5. Work hard
2. Values of happiness. Happiness comes from a balance. Only when the family is harmonious can the business develop better. That is, family first, career second. If people want to be happy, they need to deal with three relationships: 1. Relationship between people; 2. Relationship between man and nature; 3. Relationship between people and the spiritual world.
Iii. Factors affecting marriage
1. Loyalty
2. Responsibility.
The teacher tells a story about the responsibility. The CEO of a company is a very successful person. One day, his wife had a car accident and became a plant man. He no longer works. He will accompany his wife every day and take care of his wife. The Chairman found the CEO to talk to him. The Chairman said that he would ask several nannies to take care of his wife all day in the name of the company, so that the CEO could have more time to take care of the company's work. The CEO was very opposite. The chairman of the board said, "She is a vegetative person and has no idea about anything. Even if you take care of her every day, she does not know who you are, there is no difference between a nanny and your care ". But the CEO said, "when she doesn't know who I am, I want to know who she is ."
3. considerate
Marriage is a combination of two different backgrounds and two families. Such a combination will inevitably have some problems. Therefore, both parties must accept the advantages of the other party while accepting the disadvantages of the other party.
To be considerate, you need to understand, care, and respect.
A man lives for "face" in his life, and a female lives for "Emotion" in life. If you can understand this, it is no longer difficult to advocate it.
4. Competent
A woman must be economically independent. Self-reliance and self-improvement. There is a good saying: "The most unreliable thing in the world is the shoulders of men ". Remember this sentence, sisters.
Remember that you cannot give commands to your husband. A man must believe in the adaptability of a woman and not teach her wife to do things. After a long time, she will form a dependency.
5. provide full support to the other party
4. There are needs for marriage, and the needs for men and women are also different. According to the world's authoritative figures, there are five major needs for men and women, and these five requirements are also hierarchical.
Five men's needs:
First: sexual satisfaction.
Second place: Playing
This need reflects a common hobby and a common language. For example, the husband said that if he wants to go fishing today, his wife will immediately put on his sneakers and pick up the fish pole to start. If my wife can play with her husband on all of his favorite projects, will he go to other Playmates? Even if he finds out, he will think of his wife at home.
Third place: Wife is attractive.
Men use their vision to fall in love and live, while women love and live with their own hearing and feeling.
Nowadays, many women make up their makeup before they get up in the morning and wear beautiful clothes to go out. At night, when my husband returned home, his wife had put off her makeup and watched TV in her own dirty pajamas. This kind of husband is very poor and can't see the most beautiful side of his wife. When a husband's friend says to him, "Your wife is very beautiful." The husband will be very surprised, because he never saw the beautiful side of his wife. Therefore, many women should pay attention to their own underwear, and the upscale pajamas at the mall's underwear counters, from dozens to tens of thousands. Why is there any underwear with such a high price? No one can see it in the coat. Why is it so expensive? I hope you guys can think about this.
Fourth place: xiangfu.
For a man, he wants his wife to take care of good children and family at home. But this is only the fourth demand of a man. Therefore, sisters, do not think that if you get married, you will pay for the family and the children. What our husband needs is not a nanny. Think about the wives abandoned by their husbands. Most of them are dedicated to paying for their children for their husbands, but they are abandoned, they were very surprised when their husband proposed a divorce. "Why have I paid so much for this family and you will abandon me?" That is, you do not know men, and you do not know what men need. If the sisters know the needs of the first few men, will they still pay for them?
Fifth place: I admire myself.
A wife said to her husband, "My husband is really smart ." "Husband, you are amazing ." The other wife said to her husband, "you can do whatever you think of Mr. Li's husband, and make a lot of money. You see, you are a waste of money ." Which wife do you like as a man?
After talking about the man's needs, you need to remember them carefully. Next, let's talk about the needs of women. We need to remember the needs of elders or boys who are not married.
Ms.'s five requirements:
First: warmth, romance, and affection
Women rely on hearing and feeling of love and life. Because of this, some people say, "when a woman is in love, IQ is equal to zero ". This sentence does not mean that we do not really have IQ, and we do not need to judge or analyze it. It means that our women will listen to some of the man's "rhetoric ", believe in every surprise that a man creates for himself. So there will be a lot of pretty girls, married a ugly husband.
If you want your wife to love you more, you need to do it first as a man.
Second place: Talk (commonly known as love nagging)
A woman's nature is nagging. When a woman is nagging, men often get bored. If you want to do a good job, you just need to hear it in the left ear and hear it in the right ear. If a man does not do well, he will say, "You are so annoying, nagging. You have already said this many times." Such a dialogue hurts women's hearts.
Complaints are not only reflected in nagging, but also in all aspects of life. When a wife is not happy at work, she will talk to her husband about her dissatisfaction at work. At this time, the good man should pass on your feeling of sympathy and understanding to her and tell her that you also understand, help her analyze and enlighten her. But when my wife says something bad at work to her husband, she hears her saying, "Don't tell me what's wrong with your organization. I don't like it ." Men, do you know how sad your wife was at this time? In this case, how can the communication between husband and wife be reflected?
Third place: loyal and frank
Never lie to men. If you lie once, a woman will doubt all you have said before.
Fourth place: economic support.
Fifth: commitment to the family
A female needs a complete commitment from a man. For example, my husband promised to accompany his wife to the mall, but after arriving at the mall, his husband found a place and said, "You go, I am waiting for you here ". At this time, my wife will be very unhappy. When she does not come, her husband promises that "I will accompany you to the mall and buy clothes ", but when you arrive at the mall, it becomes "I will accompany you to the mall, I will wait for you on the first floor, and you will go shopping by yourself ". Such a commitment becomes incomplete.
In fact, when a man finishes shopping malls with his wife, you will find that men often carry many men's clothes in the bags, this is also a kind of reward for a woman's complete commitment to her husband.
V. Advice on marriage
1. Tell him (her) "I love you" with affirmative evidence ".
2. I often give some small gifts. These gifts do not have to be very affordable, but they do.
3. accompany him/her)
4. Do something for him or her
A mother will do a lot of things for her own children without asking for any reward. Both husband and wife should do things for each other just as their mothers treat their children.
5. Touch and sex
What men often do is the above 5th points, while what women need to do is exactly the first four points.
6. Two Concepts in marriage
1. the happiness of marriage is managed, and it is as painstaking as doing business.
2. What a man needs is possession, and what a woman needs is feeling.