I wish I'd known that when I was 20 years old--a book to give advice to 20 years old.

I wish I'd known that when I was 20 years old.

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A. There are two kinds of people in this world, one is always waiting for others to allow themselves to do what they want to do, and the other person will give themselves a license. That is, some people seek motivation from themselves, others wait for external forces to push themselves forward. What kind of person do you want to be?

Two We are used to showing achievements in resumes, now, write a copy of your failed resume to see what results we can get? Look at your experiences in a failed way and force yourself to accept the mistakes that have been made. Updating a successful CV also requires updating the failed CV.

Three Being bound by one's own skills, and assuming that you can only take on certain roles, is often really tied up. People who are good at what they do have a fixed psychological orientation, and in the long run, they are better than those who have a growing mental orientation. Growth is the process of being free from bondage.

Four If you want to be a leader, you should take the initiative to take on the role of leader. Let yourself go: Look around for gaps in your organization, fight for the jobs you want, and try to use your skills and experience to take the first step and go beyond the past.

Five In fact, giving up one thing is an incredible force. Give up stating that the situation is in your control, and when you want to leave, you can leave. You don't need to be your own prisoner, and you're stuck in a place where you can't get your hands on it. Of course, this does not mean that giving up is an easy task.

Six We often wander on the brink of success and failure, and we don't know which side it will fall on. In high-risk industries, this uncertainty is further amplified, the boundary between success or failure is thin as thin blade, it is not obvious. Sometimes just a little bit of strength, you can turn the tide, victory.

Seven Can not expect to read the rules will be playing football, study music will play the piano, see the recipe will cook. The most effective learning comes not only from the experience of success, but also from the experience of failure. To do it yourself, try again and again, inevitably, again and again, or you can hardly learn anything.

Eight At the age of more than 20, it is surprisingly difficult to distinguish between what you want to do and what others want me to do. Because you get so much "coaching" and "education" that it's hard to know what you really want. You need to try a variety of options to determine what you really want to do.

Nine The world is too small, you will meet the same people time and time again, so please cherish their reputation, it is your most valuable asset; Learn to apologize, even if it is a simple "sorry", remember, anything can be discussed, let yourself know how to create a winning outcome; try to work with others. Help others to do their best.

Ten Do the right thing without doing what's called "smart" and make yourself worthy, so you can proudly tell your story and do what you want to do.

Xi. There's no bad idea. The idea that a "viable idea is a worthwhile idea" should be lifted. Restrain the impulse to modify "rotten" ideas and share them with others in order to encourage others to evolve crazy ideas. Those crazy ideas sometimes seem unrealistic, but they often surprise you.

12. Rules are often used to break, as the saying goes, "It's better to beg forgiveness than to ask for permission." Most rules, like the bottom-most common denominator, limit the number of people who don't know what to do to stay within bounds. There are often innovative ways to get around the rules, and to jump off traditional regulations and reach a new goal.

13. Even if others abandon the things they do not, they must find ways to turn them into useful objects. The projects that others don't give up often contain great value. Because people cannot analyze ideas comprehensively, or have no time to explore them thoroughly, sometimes they simply discard them. But these abandoned ideas often contain a wealth of treasures.

14. A wise failure should be rewarded, not a foolish failure. If you want to build an innovative organization, inaction will be the worst failure ... Innovation is definitely the result of action, and inaction does not bring any innovation.

xv Many people tell you that the key to success is to follow your heart's passion. In fact, the advice is too simplistic and misleading. It is important to know exactly what drives are behind things, but enthusiasm is not enough. In addition, you need to know your talents and how the world is measuring your talents.

16. Friends and family will want you to be like a "fire and forget" missile, after targeting the goal of indomitable pursuit, but the reality is often not the case. Most people change their routes many times before they find the job that best matches their personal skills and interests. Early identification of the route of development and the determination of the route will probably lead you to the wrong direction.

17. Don't underestimate the common experience, because it may become priceless when the experience is over. When you can't imagine the things that can be linked together. So don't give up on some of the experience for some short-term benefit, and be able to apply these experiences in unexpected ways in real life. The more you experience, the more extensive your knowledge reserves, and the more resources you can use.

18. People often force themselves to take too much responsibility to avoid letting themselves down with others, which not only binds themselves, but also makes them exhausted. Life is like a big plate of delicious buffet, it seems to be full of possibilities, but if you take too much, it will make yourself indigestion.

19. "Aggressiveness" and "positive enterprising" are two completely different concepts. "Competitive", like to participate in a "0 and" game, some people win will have to lose, no matter how the end result is still a "0", and "positive" means to rely on their own efforts and enthusiasm to achieve their goals, and other people's gains and losses have no relationship.

20. Helping others is also an art, you should strive to become a "good person", good people help others but do not ask for return. Often, we are generous in helping people who we think will help us in the future. However, being a "good person" means that you know that he will not be able to help you in the future, but also give him selfless help.

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I wish I'd known that when I was 20 years old--a book to give advice to 20 years old.