Many people have a "nvde Pavilion" that oppress women"

You may be familiar with many things.

-- "No matter how old a man is, a man is a good man. When a woman is older and more beautiful than a young girl, you can endure it. Don't go through this village without this store ."

-- "For the sake of children, let's endure it. Let alone divorce. Do you want your child to be pointed to a wild child without a father ?"

-- "A divorced man is a treasure. He is still looking for a young and unmarried man. A divorced woman is rooted in grass and nobody wants it. Divorced men cannot look at you ."

-- "It's because you are stupid to read books. You will not be able to read so many books as early as you knew. What is it? Love is made up in a movie. Can it be used as a meal? We have never had so many requirements, but we have never had a good life ."

-- "Girls should not be too tall to marry ."

-- "Girls don't want to marry because they don't want to take a doctorate ."

-- ''Which man has no virgins? The full price of the original goods, Kaifeng can be sold at a discount. "

-- "Ignore her. She is a cheap, green tea, or bus. She can be used by a man. "

-- "What do women do? Just marry a good husband. "

-- "The world is full of parents, and my parents will never harm you. Don't be so ignorant and obedient ."

I have heard these things in my parents, learned by elders, talked to classmates and friends, heard about them at relatives' meetings, and read many of zhihu's replies, some even think so. Even a very reasonable person, once I hear that an ordinary woman is unmarried, has a large number of ex, or wants to divorce or get divorced, I have not secretly tagged her with a "poor" label, and unconsciously want to help her get married and have children on the right track.

[The world can be peaceful only by putting them under pressure and putting them on the right track .] I felt this kind of pressure two years before I got engaged. I heard the old unmarried girl complain, and I saw it in countless stranger comments, news, and books, sometimes I have applied it to others. However, for men, even if they are single, have a bad character, get angry with others, and get angry with their partners, they can all laugh.

This state is the source of the nvde pavilion. The fear of being single and divorced in women is the equivalent of being abandoned by the world when they think they are disgusted by men, and they are taught to take self-criticism and patience as the price for acceptance, in order to obtain the stability of the family and society-the female pavilion, which hangs up the brand and makes money, disconnects the female pavilion, and everyone has never heard of it. These seemingly frivolous words, when everyone feels and expresses this, bring together independent women as an invincible weapon, how many independent girls are forced into the besieged city, women who suffer from emotional breakdown and even violence do not dare to divorce. They are suffering, but they are more afraid of public opinion pressure. Why isn't the appearance of female de hall a placebo?

People with a normal mind can see the absurd of the nvwa pavilion, but it is an arduous ideological war to destroy all the nvwa pavilions in their hearts. When can we get married and have children no longer be regarded as women's duty? Single, unmarried, and divorced women at the age are no longer the targets of all people. Women can enjoy the same educational and work rights as men, adequate respect and compensation for family and household chores ...... not only will the nvde pavilion be invisible, but there will also be a lot less cool in the world. (Source/zhihu, Wen/Anya)

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Many people have a "nvde Pavilion" that oppress women"