Mr Yu: Success is "forced" to come out

Every month for "New Oriental English" magazine Write a volume first language, in principle should not be difficult, because one months as long as one article, how is not a heavy task. But every time I was asked by the editorial office, I panicked because I was so busy (mainly because of my ado) that I never got the manuscript ready. Don't look at a small volume of the first language, if you can not calm down to think for a few hours, is not written out. And even if the heart comes down, it has to be inspired to write it. People like me, who are entangled by secular firms every day, are becoming more and more exhausted, sometimes sitting for two hours and still a blank head.

So, every time I write the first language, I will be at the desk secretly "hate" the editorial department, hate them always in the last few days such "forcing" my delivery, so I could have a few days of easy to become a heavy mood, Amerina. However, in such a period of "forced" under, an article volume of the first language was "forced" out, a few years later actually published several books. Although the book is a bit of self-entertainment, but also do not expect many people to read, but also often for free to students, but every time I see the Book of good binding in front of their eyes, I still inevitably produce a little sense of accomplishment. As the saying goes, the ugly child parents will love, in the face of their work, the heart will always feel happy.

I think of the age when I was reading. Because the talent is not smart, every time I recite the text is the teacher "forced" to back out, every time math problems do not come out by the teacher left to "force" to finish. Those who "forced" my teacher, I have to remember today, from the childhood of their hatred, turned to their gratitude now. And those who have not "forced" my teacher, especially those who are very indulgent to my teacher, I now have a vague memory, and feel that such a teacher is not worthy of respect. In college, teachers generally do not "force" students to study, because the students have grown up, should learn to restrain themselves. But people are inert, in the youth, love the germination of the university era, how many people will "force" their own real sinking heart to learn it?

For many college students now, learning simply means that in order to pass the exam before being "forced" to work hard for two weeks, the end of the exam, the textbook throw, will be all right. As far as I am concerned, I have a vague impression on many teachers in college, because these teachers are basically "wide" teachers, regardless of the students listen to the end of the exam, a score will be finished. Such a teacher is usually merciful, and often everyone can pass. However, there are two of teachers I still remember today, and grateful. One is the dean of our department, Li Shuning, and one is our teacher, Wang Shiren, our professor of English poetry. Li Shuning teacher teaches us "new concept English" the fourth book, requires us to learn a lesson back a lesson, often put us "forced" to be embarrassed, but has achieved our solid English Foundation. Wang Shiren teacher asked us to put the English poetry he taught all back out, was "forced" helpless we had to stand in the West wind recite Shelley's "Ode to the West Wind," but the aesthetic of the English language also in the recitation of more and more profound understanding. Now, if all the teachers are so strict with us, we may have a better time in college.

I recently read "I'm a mother in the United States" (Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother), a book that Yale Chinese Professor Chua tells about her parenting experience. Her request for two daughters was very strict, even to the point of cruelty. In the beginning, she did not give her children the opportunity to "not work hard", and eventually made two daughters into outstanding pianists and violinist, performing at Carnegie Hall. As to whether these two daughters will be more successful in the future, we do not make any comment, but at least it is Cai Mei children with the mood of love "forcing" two daughters to success. I was also "forced" by my mother when I was a child. My grandparents farming, my mother has been talking about when I grew up as a "Mr." (teacher), so although she did not know a few words, but every day asked me to do homework, reading. I did not qualify for high school, she went all over the world to beg, I failed in the college entrance examination, she encouraged me to test again. Finally, I was "forced" by my mother to test three years, and finally admitted to Peking University. So, if there is no stern mother, there may be no me today.

China is becoming more and more powerful, and this power is being "forced" out. Think of the early Qing Dynasty, the Qing Empire as the world's most powerful country, lead the world's happiest life, the eyes of the world except China. As a result, the Opium War fiasco, the people this only found themselves to be beaten object. People put the Yuanmingyuan burned, things robbed, was robbed of things to today have not returned. More than 100 years, in humiliation and indignation, the people began to Dmitri Trenin. To this day, we finally saw a little light, won the dignity of a little nation and the respect of other countries. Perhaps, we should "thank" those who have bullied our country and robbers, is they let us soberly aware of the "backward will be beaten" truth.

Life is never smooth sailing, success is never easy. If we feel in being "forced" to do something, do not feel helpless or annoyed, because these things in the long run may not be bad, such as the teacher "forced" to recite the text, the classmate "forced" to participate in activities, the boss "forced" to continue to work, the competition "forced" to study every day ... Perhaps, appropriate persecution can put our inertia "forced" to go, our mediocrity "forced" to go, our courage to "force" out of our Future "force" out, also our sense of accomplishment and happiness "forced" out.

Mr Yu: Success is "forced" to come out