There are beautiful lies and cruel truths.
In the face of your weakness, if the people around you comfort us, it is a beautiful lie. At the same time, under the beauty, there is no beautiful truth in our hearts.
If you are an adult man and there is a woman around you, whether she is a girlfriend or a wife, remember one sentence: Don't tell a woman the true weakness, or else she will stare at it endlessly.
If you are an adult with a large group of people who look like friends, whether they are sincere or false, remember one sentence: Don't tell others your real weakness, otherwise, one day he will stick to it.
It's not that love is unreliable, not that friends are unreliable, but that people always have an unconscious cruelty or even a certain amount of forced psychology for ugly things.
Weaknesses and weaknesses are the devil's brothers. They are parasitic in your body. They will stretch out countless small hands and wave and even pull at the opposite side of you.
If you do not know that the other party has any weakness, you can make friends with him calmly. Once you know the truth about the scar, there seems to be an impulse to scratch it.
Man and heaven have a destructive desire, so life is like practice, gradually repairing the evil in the heart, and slowly integrating the good in the heart.
However, in the course of this practice, you must learn to protect yourself. You cannot determine how deep the realm of the person is.
Make friends with "appropriate vulnerabilities. But it is better to keep a friend and give yourself a card.
Some people say, "Why is it so dark ?! Knowing my weaknesses, my friends comforted me with patience ."
Well, this is a problem.
People often feel happy when they discover the shortcomings of others.
If the other party says, "It doesn't matter at all. You are actually great ."
Then you should be grateful for his thoughtfulness. But don't trust him.