Persistent trust and tolerance cherish kindness share optimism listen brave call

Many people are confused in their feelings, and many are numb in their marriages. The world is getting tighter and closer, and we cannot see the direction of love at first. Most of the time, we all look forward to experiencing the most romantic life on Earth, but what is the real life? What is the most authentic romance? Prince and Princess have seen too many fairy tales, and we have no confidence to create a legend for ourselves in the universe? In fact, it seems that there are many beautiful and loving aspects worth discovering in our life, and they are not as hard as we think. These are some little stories about love in life. It is like a cup of refreshing coffee, comforting our hearts and warming our worries at midnight.

1. Persistent

Rong is the most beautiful girl in the compound. Wherever she goes, there is a graceful view. Many boys fell under her dress. However, Rong's pursuit of everyone is faint. Not so disgusted or special.
After a long time, suddenly one day, all the boys gave up. The reason is very simple. According to a reliable person, Rong has a congenital heart disease since childhood. Although it does not affect normal life, it will never be able to bear the responsibility for children and children.
Rong finally heard this rumor, but she did not explain it. If there is no explanation, it is the recognition. The boys finally understood why Rong was always tepid and began to regret the lost youth.
On this day, a boy walked into her house and begged for love. Rong asked only one sentence: Do you know I have heart disease? If you marry me, are you not afraid of breaking the fire?
The boy said, I have been thinking for a long time and want to give up. But I think I love you. I don't want to give up my love for you for the unknown future. Even if I have no children, I have at least you.
Rong married. What surprised others was that after a year and a half of marriage, Rong gave birth to a boy for him. The original rumors are not self-defeating.
How hard is it to get a person's heart? Or persistent, is the best sail.

2. Trust

This is the story of Mom and Dad.
At that time, it was the cultural revolution. Grandpa was sentenced to a counter-revolution as a fallen Kuomintang soldier, and his father was forced to perform labor transformation as a child of the black five category. Before being transformed, my father and mother were in love. At that time, my father was 23 years old and my mother was 20 years old. A mother is born as a child of a standard proletarian industrial worker and belongs to the successor of a nonproductive career of the rooted party. The disparity between her and her father caused many enthusiastic people to persuade her mother to give up this relationship.
However, Mom never gave up. She continued to visit her father on time regardless of others. Until dad ends his career of transformation and gets married to his mother. When my father was 33 years old, he had me.
Most of the time, I asked my mom why she didn't want to give up. Mom just smiled: I also want to put it, but I couldn't figure out why I didn't believe in your father's kindness. I believe what they said, your father is destined to be a good person.
The life of my father and mother is very common, but it is only because of trust that there is a more respectable romance in ordinary life.

3. Tolerance

Once, we went to a friend's house to watch the ball.
Men watching the ball are always inseparable from cigarettes. It was not until the end of the game that we were unconscious and had smoked three boxes of cigarettes. Our friend's wife was always with us, but she did not say anything. When we don't pay attention, open the window and let the fresh air in.
We find it strange. Why don't you care about smoking like him or us? Asked a buddy. My wife smiled and said: I also know that smoking is harmful to my health. But if smoking can make him happy, why should I stop it? I hope that my husband will live happily to the age of 60, and I do not want him to live to the age of 80. After all, a person's happiness cannot be exchanged for any time or money.
When we saw this friend, he had quit smoking. Ask why, he said with a smile, she can think of my happiness, and I cannot let myself leave her 20 years in advance.
Smoking Cessation is the focal point of a family conflict. However, because of the tolerance of this wife, it is difficult to make this difficult task disappear.

4. Cherish

A friend exchanged a new house and everyone went to congratulate him.
When I entered his home, I always felt uncomfortable. After reading it for half a day, I realized that some old furniture was still preserved in the exquisite decoration. Why don't we discard these old things? You have no money to buy new ones. Many friends asked.
He and his wife stood at these old homes and asked us, do you say that you should throw it? This camphor wood box was the wedding dress she put with her. This double bed was the wedding bed we spent three months with her salary. This pair was bought in the first year of our children's birth, now there are children's clothes in my sister-in-law ......
We suddenly understood why we always envy their husband and wife. They all cherish some old days. Because these pieces of love that have not been abandoned have not been eroded by the float of the years, and they have maintained the original pure and sweet heart.

5. Kindness

He is the general manager of the company, but she is just a taxi driver. When they got married, many people wondered, how could they catch a Golden Turtle so easily?
At that time, he only took her car, and he was slightly drunk in the middle of the night. Just like drinking a lot
He forgot his bag when he got off the bus. In fact, there is nothing in the bag, just a locked mobile phone, there are some common business information. When he slept in the middle of the night, he suddenly woke up looking for a person's phone number and found that he had lost his car.
In fact, he didn't really care too much. If he didn't, he wouldn't be the first time. However, he habitually looked down by the window and saw the taxi waiting for him. She fell asleep in the car to wait for him to get his bag. After waking up, I simply said: if something is lost, it will always delay things. Your mobile phone is locked, so it's hard to find you, and you will be waiting here. You will always remember it tomorrow morning.
Because of this sentence, he saw the kindness in her heart. He lost his trust in people due to fraud in the mall. However, his encounter with her made him the most important treasure in his life.

6. Share

The two families live at the opposite door. One is an ordinary healthy person, the other is a blind man, and the other is a blind man. Many people think that when two families live together, the healthy one is full of joy and the one with disabilities is doomed to difficulties.
However, the opposite is true. A healthy couple is always quarreling over small things, but happiness is always shining on the faces of the disabled family. So the sound family used to ask why they had everything, but they were not happy. But your family was always so keen on being so difficult?
What do I have to be unhappy? I couldn't go out. He carried me on his back and asked me to see the beautiful flowers in the world. The blind man said, although I couldn't see anything, I was there with her, I also know where it is.
After the healthy couple returned home, they realized that they had always wanted to follow their own lifestyle and never considered the needs of each other. Therefore, they keep quarreling and complain that the other party is not considerate of themselves.
In fact, under our sound appearance, we often have a disability that we cannot see. The road to life is long. Only by learning to share can we go further.

7. optimistic

When we were studying, we saw a middle-aged couple in our dormitory.
They are also unfortunate. A son army is a soldier and sacrificed when participating in flood fighting and rescue
Another son was a school logistic engineer who was later killed in an accident. This attack is cruel to many families. However, we can see that their faces are always smiling, and sometimes the couple are joking. To be honest, at that time, we really doubted whether it was a big blow to their minds?
One day, a person who broke up with his girlfriend couldn't help asking them why you laughed all day? Isn't it enough for your family to attack you?
The man hesitated and smiled. However, what is the purpose of sadness? People are gone, even if we cry every day, they will not be able to cry. God is still very eye-catching, so that our husband and wife are safe now, there is also a companion around, this is always better than some people have been alone all their life? What else can we complain about?
Yes. sorrow and happiness in a person's life. Why are we not optimistic that we can see what we already have and make ourselves happy?

8. Listener

She found a long hair on his shirt, and she was short hair.
She found that he sometimes answered the phone and was hiding from her.
She told her close friend about the findings and immediately told her that your husband must have an affair. She thinks about it, or it is possible that, after all, he has been in the middle of the company, and he has begun to fade. A close friend said, there is a way to fight with him. You are sorry for me, and I cannot make you happy!
When she got home, she looked at his photo and asked herself, why? Think about it, after so many years of family life and their busy work, they have already been working between them? Less communication. If he has an affair, does he do anything wrong? Suddenly, she knew she was still in love with him, but she felt strange.
She slowly tried to chat briefly with her husband before going to bed at night. As time went by, they chatted with each other longer and more sweetly before going to bed.
It doesn't matter whether he has had an affair. What's important is that they listen to each other's voice and know what the other person is thinking, let the withered flowers of love grow as if at first.

9. Be brave

The boy's family is very poor. When she fell in love with him, she was unanimously opposed by all relatives and friends. After all, they do not match each other from appearance to family.
When I broke up from college, he said to her, you have been waiting for me for five years. Five years later, I will definitely come back and marry you. After that, the boys turned around and headed south to Shenzhen, where they joined the mighty Gold Rush crowd. There were no messages between them over the past five years.
Five years later, the boy realized his promise and made up for her five years of youth with the most beautiful wedding.
Spring.
Many people ask this bride, haven't you ever hesitated for five years? After all, girls don't have five years of youth to wait.
She said, yes. I am also worried, but I cannot be brave for my own love. I tell myself every morning that I stick to one day, even if this day is the last day I can stick. Even if he doesn't come back, I have to face my sincerity.
The male asked the same question, and the boy answered only one sentence: for the sake of love, I must face all the ups and downs bravely.
Because we are brave, because persistence, two common men and women, creates a miracle of love in the real society.

10. Call

She turned into a plant because of a traffic accident. To tell the truth, even doctors are about to give up her and don't expect her to wake up. At the beginning, everyone was very sad. However, after a long time, the great grief will be numb, and the deep feelings can only be dull.
Many people suggested that he should divorce her. No one will blame you. After all, you cannot spend a lifetime with a dead person. He also hesitated, but he never gave up after so many years of feeling.
When he wakes up every morning, he always kisses her face first and then says good morning. When the night comes, he holds her in his arms and tells her some interesting things in work and life. He told her year after year that at the end he had become a habit.
Finally, one day, she woke up with a clear mind and immediately became a miracle in medicine.
She said that in the days when she was in a coma, he called her to gradually restore her mind. She felt like she was trapped in a closed box, and she could hear all the sounds outside but could not express it. Because he speaks to her every day, she does not despair; because of his call to her every day, she has been giving herself encouragement, only to wake up this day.
Most of the time, our love is paralyzed in a boring marriage. Have we ever thought that when a beloved person is about to leave us, do not lose confidence, heart, and affection call for a return?