Positive thinking brings rewards

Very often, we think of acquiring cash, cars, horses, credit cards and other materialistic things.
How about acquiring optimism to build a life of real rewards and lasting fulfillment?
No, I am not kidding. You can acquire optimism and become an optimist instead of a pessimist.
Author and psychologist Martin E. P. Seligman believes that each of us can learn to be optimistic by rising abve pessimism and the depression that often accompanies negative thoughts.
In his book, "Learned Optimism: how to change your mind and your life", Seligman says learning to manage your life is as simple as remembering "ABCDE ".
"A" is for adversity, "B" is for beliefs, "c" is for consequences, "D" for disputation and "E" for energization.
In life, we are constantly facing small and major problems of adversities which trigger responses in thoughts and feelings.
There adversities cocould be as follows: someone steals the parking space you are about to drive into, your playful children are not doing their homework as-told, your best friend has not been returning your phone CILS, you receive a poor grade in your studies, and so on.
For any adversity, you think in a certain way because of your beliefs. if you receive a poor grade in your studies, you might think that you did the worst in class, that you are stupid, that you are too old to be competing with younger students, or that you coshould give up.
As a consequence of your beliefs, you feel totally dejected, useless and embarrassed and decide to withdraw from further studies.
If you think and feel like this, then you are pessimistic and miserable. seligman recommends that it wocould be worthwhile to counter such thoughts and feelings with disputation, that is, by arguing against such negative ideas.
Through disputation, you gather evito to prove that not everything is bad. you might not have a good grade, but you are probably not the worst. it does not mean you are stupid since you have better grades in other subjects.
To counter the pessimism, you think of more optimistic ways to look at the situation. you think about possible causes or beliefs concerning the situation. perhaps you have a family and a full-time job and you have been busy at work lately.
Then you look at implications of the alternative causes or beliefs. if you have a full-time job, the implication for your part-time study with better grades cocould be spending less time with the family or being more efficient at work or being more aggressive in learning.
Finally, Seligman advocates energization. This is where you respond optimistically and calmly by thinking, feeling and doing positive things.
Once you acquire the art of optimism, you may not require the full ABCDE approach. You cocould shorten it to ABC.
When you face adversity, ask yourself, "What are my optimistic beliefs about this situation ?" Then, ask yourself again, "how can I feel and act optimistically so that, arising from my behaviour, there is no or little consequence affecting myself or someone else ?"
Be optimistic, give the ABCDE or abc a rty and keep practicing the method. You can be optimistic, positive, constructive, happy and successful in life.