Reprint an article--a person and three person (Zhou Guoping)

I, you, he, this is known to all three personal pronouns. In a certain context, they are used in different people. Some writers like to use different people to describe the same protagonist, constantly changing the visual angle, so that the image of the figure is full of three-dimensional. I think that every one of us can look at ourselves in this way.

When it comes to yourself, using the first person is a natural thing to do, as if needless to say. Who I am, what I want, what I do, I love xxx, I hate xxx, and so on, seems to be at a glance. However, it is not easy to really be yourself, to be caps, to impartiality, to be brave. Because of this, many philosophers regard "being yourself" as a high goal in life. On the other hand, if a person is just doing his own thing, he never jumps out and looks at himself from another angle, and he is living blindly. So, the other two people say the perspective is also indispensable.

First, the third person. In the eyes of others, I am a "he" (or "she"). Therefore, in the third person to see themselves, is actually to use other people's or society's eyes to see themselves, look at what they are in the eyes of others, what role in the community. People can not live out of society, so this perspective is necessary. To be a spectator and critic of one's own, it is a kind of accomplishment, it can let us maintain some kind of sober, avoid fall into pretentious or pity of ridiculous complex sad situation. Of course, other people's opinions can only be used for reference, and to make their own decisions. According to my observation, in many people, this perspective is too strong, so that they are only in accordance with the opinions of others to live, into another kind of blindness.

If the first person is to be himself, the third person is to be his own bystander, then the second person is to be his friend. Treating a person as "you" means being in the face of the person, opening up like a friend, and communicating honestly. If this is not the case, the mind still secretly looked at and beware of the person in front of, it is not to treat this person as a "you", but as a "he".

Similarly, when we think of ourselves as a "he", the vision is often calm, sometimes very utilitarian, measured by their own social performance, role, status, reputation and other things. On the contrary, to oneself with "you" to treat, need a kind of both detached and considerate eye, concern is the more essential aspect of life. At this time, we are like to live in the world, happy, pain of their own welcome home, with concern and understanding of the feelings and his chat.

People in the world are inseparable from friends, but the most loyal friends or themselves, to see if you are good at being friends. To be able to be your friend, you have to stand higher and farther than the outside, so that you can give him a reminder, encouragement and guidance from the panorama of life.

In fact, in each of us, in addition to the external self, there is an intrinsic spiritual self. Unfortunately, the inner self of many people is always lethargic, even stunted.

In order for the inner self to grow healthily, you must give it sufficient nourishment. If you often read good books, meditate, admire art and so on, have a wealth of spiritual life, you will certainly feel that there is indeed a higher self in you, this ego is your life on the road of the constancy spiritual confidant.

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Sometimes the third person is too strong to focus on the opinions of others life, into another kind of blind, live is also very tired. If you think of yourself as "you", it means to face, like a friend open with sincere communication, good at doing their own friends, so the vision can be seen higher, see farther, as the article said, awaken a higher self.

Reprint an article--a person and three person (Zhou Guoping)