Respect others and respect yourself.

A few friends went to a restaurant for dinner yesterday afternoon. A guy shouted at her sister to clean the table and move the bench. Later he shouted at her to take chopsticks and add alcohol. He shouted and said no, and joked with the waiter. The waiter's face changed, and he did not dare to get angry.

At that time, I started to talk about it. I took two yuan to eat a meal and asked others to call the girl to serve. That's not good. Similar things are common nowadays. Many people lose their own quality when they cheat on others. We often read that we need to respect each other. However, we often forget to do so inadvertently.

There is a classic story about respect.It is said that in the United States, a famous rich merchant encountered a thin young man selling old books at a stall while walking, and he bent down to eat moldy bread in the cold wind. The rich businessmen put $8 in the hands of the young man with mercy, and never go back. I did not go far, and the rich businessmen suddenly returned. I picked two old books from the stall and said, "Sorry, I forgot to pick up the books. Actually, you are a businessman like me! "Two years later, when a rich businessman was invited to a charity fundraising meeting, a young bookseller clasped his hand and said gratefully: "I always thought that I had only the fate of begging in my life, it wasn't until you said to me that I was a businessman like you, that created my own self-esteem and self-confidence, and created my performance today ...... "It is hard to imagine that without such a word of respect and encouragement, even if the rich businessman gave the young man more money, the young man would never see great changes in his life.

Famous wealthy businessmen and young people who sell old books in street stalls should have a big gap, but this rich merchant can respect him. However, some of us, just a little better than others, will turn their tails up.

It is difficult for us to have such a level of respect and accomplishment in one's career. We just need to maintain the most basic principles of treating people with respect as one kind of cultivation, one kind of character, and one kind of equal treatment with respect to people, fully affirmed the personality and value of others. No one can be perfect and perfect. We have no reason to look at others with mountains, and we are not qualified to laugh at others with a look of disdain. If others are inferior to ourselves in some aspects, we should not use arrogant or disrespectful words to hurt others' Self-esteem. If we are inferior to others in some aspects, we do not have to replace the proper respect with inferiority or jealousy.

People who really respect others will surely win the respect of others. Therefore, "respecting others is not losing yourself ". Start from trivial matters, start from yourself, respect others, and respect yourself!

 

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