Suggestions on reading sequence of parenting books

Listening to children is a quick teaching material. The parents who have a headache for their children's crying, losing their temper, and fear will find a good solution.
However, if you do not know the child's nature, the parents will listen to the child to listen and feel very tired. If you cannot do so, they will feel inner. Program problems seem to have outstripped the nature of things. If you do not grasp the child's nature and really understand the language behind the child's behavior, the parent will send a "do you want to listen every time" sentiment, so that the parents' behavior is not obedient and inner, then, the parents will care: I didn't listen to the program, rather than focusing on the nature of the matter. Giving love and freedom to children is fundamental. Listening is just a means.
It is recommended that you read this book again after "Secrets of childhood" or "Discover Children.

"Who has taken the happiness of the child" and "freedom for the child" can be regarded as an entry-level book. If a parent does not want to change his or her mind or establish a correct idea, nothing will be meaningful in the future. These three books, especially "who has taken the happiness of children", show us how an educator has changed his idea about the happiness of children, it brings happiness to children. Every word beats our hearts until we know clearly where our children are happy. This is the introduction to the transformation of educational concepts.
"The little peas by the window" shows us a brand new educational concept with the growth of a child. Because it is a complete story, we will sigh: it can be so beautiful to go to school!

"Love and Freedom" Sun ruixue introduced Montessori's theory in a general manner based on the situation of children's home. If you suspect that Montessori has too many books, you may wish to start from here. It introduces the concepts of psychological embryo and absorbent mind. The most important thing is to present the educational method of love and freedom to readers. After reading this article, you will want to learn more about Montessori. After reading this article, I lost my tears for my child's love for adults. I always thought that I was the most smelly person.

The secrets of childhood analyzes the nature and characteristics of children from the perspective of physiology and psychology, and puts forward the concept of sensitive period, it reveals that "a child's psychological life will naturally develop and show his secrets only in an environment suitable for his age ". We suddenly realized that the actions of the children contained such great significance. Understanding is the basis of true love.

The first half of discover a child summarizes part of the secrets of childhood, the second half focuses on new ideas and new methods for cultivating children from the perspectives of cultivating will, intellectual development, and imagination. I personally think that the "mentor of Love" section can truly awaken our sleeping hearts. While cultivating our children, we also grow up under the guidance of our children. Is it not an opportunity for us to grow up as a parent (a career for a lifetime? I don't think any job is more challenging and meaningful than this one.

An absorbent mind reveals the ability of children to educate themselves and the role of our direct educators in children's education. This should be continued on the basis of the above two books, from understanding the children to changing the concept of education to truly understanding what is

Children's educationThe course of the three books may take a long time.

Montessori early education law and Montessori children's education manual provide methods to introduce how to implement Montessori education. The reason why these two books are written after "Secrets of childhood", "Discover Children", and "an absorbent mind" is that the Procedures should be understood. If you can grasp the contents of the first three books and learn from them, these two books are just a method. I think the concept is always the first. Otherwise, Montessori will only become an education of "Montessori Learning Tools.

Xiashan School is a dangerous book. If we do not have a thorough understanding of freedom, it will lead people astray, which is quite harmful. Indulgence is not the educational method that this book recommends. If you think carefully, you will find that he still advocates love and freedom. Without the foundation of the above books, I will put this book down for the time being.

"Give your hand to me" is highly operational, with both psychological analysis and detailed methods, and strong skill. I want to answer all the questions that my parents are confused about. For example, potential information, courtesy, lying, and theft after a child's language action. This book is like an unlocking book. I think every parent is worth reading. You can even solve some problems immediately.

This is a new book by Sun ruixue. Use a large number of instances to guide us to capture the sensitive period of a child. If you are careful enough, you will learn how to observe the child from the examples. However, I think this book seems to be a work Note of the teachers of the children's home, not as much as I imagined-and I do not know what words should be used to express it-it is not as satisfactory as I imagined, can this be done?

Raising a son reveals the differences between boys and girls, from physiological factors to psychological factors. Therefore, we should provide targeted guidance based on different characteristics of our children. I don't believe in the saying that men and women are the same, and these two books do not advocate inequality between men and women. Now they are a little scared. When talking about differences between men and women, they are often scolded, it seems that the difference must be divided into advantages and disadvantages.

It doesn't make much sense to see "good mom is coming slowly. If you have mastered the content of all the above books.

My learning method is to learn and observe the practice. After reading the book, I learned the essence (I need about four times), and I will leave the book alone. Otherwise, books will become an obstacle.

In the course of learning, there are often some things that cannot be understood, and others cannot give directions. At the end of a certain day, such as the top of the storm, a burst of laughter! Piyajie's theory of children's intellectual development is so cool that it is good to use it for hypnosis. When I read "Discover Children", I suddenly picked up piyajie one day, just like the sun, and it was no longer difficult to read. What other educational methods does Montessori have come from piyajie's theory.