The first story: dilemma is giving
One day, the lion, known as the king of the forest, came to the face of the God of heaven: "I am very grateful to you for giving me such a magnificent and mighty physique, so powerful and powerful, let me have enough capacity to govern the entire forest."
God listened and smiled and asked, "but this is not your purpose to come to me today! It seems that you are troubled by something !"
The lion shouted, saying, "God knows me! I have something to do today. Even though I have good abilities, every day, I am always scared by the sound of chicken. God! I pray that you will give me another power, so that I will not be awakened by the sound of chicken !"
God smiled and said, "Go to the elephant. It will give you a satisfactory answer ."
The lion rushed to the lake to find the elephant. before seeing the elephant, he heard the beep of the elephant's foot.
The lion quickly ran to the elephant, but saw the elephant shouting straight forward.
The lion asked the elephant: "Why are you so angry ?"
The elephant shook his ears and shouted, "a nasty little mosquito always wants to get into my ears, which makes me almost itch ."
As the lion walked, he looked back at the elephants who were still running his feet and thought, "God wants me to see the situation of the elephants. It should be to tell me that everyone will encounter troubles, but it cannot help everyone. In this case, I have to rely on myself! In the future, as long as I am a chicken, I am reminding me to get up. In this way, the sound of Chicken sounds helpful to me ?"
Tip: An obstacle is a new known condition. If you are willing, any obstacle will become an opportunity to surpass yourself. On our way to life, no matter how smooth we are, as long as we encounter some bad things, we will habitually complain that god treats us badly, then pray that the Old God will give us more power to help us overcome the difficulties. But in fact, God is the most fair, just as it is for lions and elephants, every dilemma has its positive value.
The second story: success is not as difficult as you think
In 1965, a Korean student majored in psychology at Cambridge University. During afternoon tea, he often goes to the school cafe or teahouse to chat with some successful people. The successful figures include the Nobel Prize winners, academic authority in some fields, and those who have created economic mythology. These people are humorous and cool, it is natural and logical to see all your successes. After a long time, he found that he was cheated by some successful people in China. In order to let those who are starting a business know the difficulties, they generally exaggerate their entrepreneurial hardships. That is to say, they are using their successful experiences to scare those who have not yet succeeded.
As a psychology student, he believes it is necessary to study the mentality of successful Korean people. In 1970, he took "Success is not as difficult as you think" as his graduation thesis and submitted it to Professor welden, the pioneer of modern economic psychology. Professor breden was pleasantly surprised to hear that it was a new discovery that, even in the East and even around the world, however, no one has proposed it and added it to research. In addition to the surprise, he wrote a letter to his Cambridge alumnus, Park zhengxi, who was sitting in the first chair in South Korean political arena. He said in his letter, "I dare not say how much help this book has for you, but I am sure it can shake you any other command ."
Later, this book was accompanied by the departure of South Korea's economy. This book inspires many people, because they tell people from a new perspective that success and "work their bones and muscles, starve their bodies", "three lights, five more chickens", "head suspension, there is no inevitable connection between the cone and the slogan. If you are interested in a career, you will succeed if you stick to it for a long time, because the time and wisdom God has given you can complete one thing. Later, the young man was also successful. He became the president of Korean pan-industry Automobile Company.
Tip: it is not because we dare not do things, but because we dare not do things. Many things in the world can be done as long as they want to do it. The difficulties to be overcome can also be overcome. As long as a person is still living in a simple and interesting life, he will eventually find that the Creator's arrangements for the world are successful.
The third story: the pursuit of self-forgetting
In 1858, a rich Swedish family gave birth to a daughter. Soon after, however, the child suffers from an uninterpretable paralysis and loses the ability to walk.
Once, a girl and her family took a boat trip. The wife of the Captain tells the child that the captain has a bird of heaven. She is fascinated by the description of the bird and wants to see it in person. As a result, the nanny left the child on the deck and went to find the captain himself. The child was impatient and asked the waiter on the ship to take her to the bird of heaven immediately. The waiter did not know that her legs could not walk, but only took her to see the beautiful bird. The miracle happened. The child was so eager that he forgot to hold the waiter's hand and slowly walked up. Since then, the child's illness has recovered. When girls grow up, they forget to devote themselves to literary creations, and finally become the first woman to win the Nobel Prize for Literature, that is, sierma lagerluow.
Tip: Do not treat yourself as a mouse; otherwise, you must be eaten by a cat. Forgetting myself is a shortcut to success. Only in such an environment can talents surpass their own limitations and release the greatest energy.
Fourth story: Let's cut the arrow-never believe in your own will, never become a general.
In the Spring and Autumn and Warring States Periods, a father and his son fought for war. My father was a general and his son was just a pawn. Another horn sounded, and the drums thundered. His father solemnly held up an arrow with an arrow inserted in it. His father solemnly said to his son, "This is an arrow of family attacks. It has infinite power, but it cannot be drawn out ."
It is an extremely exquisite arrow, thick cowhide, inlaid with a faint copper edge, and then look at the exposed arrow. It can be determined at a glance that it is made with the finest peacock feathers. Son was excited, greedy to think about the appearance of arrows, arrows, ears as if an arrow passed over, the enemy's coach to fold the horse.
Sure enough, the son with the arrow is brave and invincible. When the horn of the treasure was blown, the son could not help but win again. He gave up his father's jealousy. his strong desire drove him out of his arrow and tried to see the truth. Suddenly he was shocked.
A broken arrow is contained in the arrow.
I have been rolling out an arrow to fight! The son was scared out of a cold sweat, as if the house was suddenly lost, and then collapsed.
The result is self-evident, and the son died in chaos.
The father picked up the broken arrow and gave a heavy blow: "If you don't believe in your own will, you will never be a general ."
Tip: I can never be a general without believing in my will. You are an arrow. If you want it to be tough, if you want it to be sharp, if you want it to wear a hundred steps, you can sharpen it, you can only save it yourself.
Fifth story: Try again
A young man has applied for a job at Microsoft but has not published any advertisement. Seeing that the general manager was puzzled, the young man explained in less skillful English that he happened to pass by here and rushed in. The general manager felt very fresh and made an exception to let him have a try. The interview results were unexpected and the performance of young people was poor. He explained to the general manager that he was not prepared in advance. The general manager thought that he was just looking for a token to go down the stage and said, "Wait for you to prepare and try again ".
A week later, the young man once again entered the door of Microsoft, but he still failed. But he performs much better than the first time. The general manager still gave him the same answer as the previous one: "Wait until you are ready to try again ." In this way, the young man step into the door of Microsoft five times and is eventually hired by the company, becoming the key training object of the company.
Tip: What is harder or softer than water? However, soft water has penetrated the Hard Rock and persisted. Perhaps, our journey of life is full of swamp land and sea of thorns; maybe the scenery we pursue is always a heavy mountain, not dark; maybe, our progress is always heavy, stumbling; maybe, we need to explore the dark for a long time before we can find the light. Maybe, our devout belief will be entangled in the dust of the secular world, and we cannot fly freely. Maybe, our noble soul cannot find the Pure Land in reality for the moment ...... So, why can't we say "try again" to ourselves with a strong and confident spirit of the Creator !" Try again, and you will be able to reach the other side of success!
Sixth story: Draw a leaf for life
American writer ou; Henry told a story in his novel "The Last Leaf": a dying patient in the Ward saw a tree out of the window, falling down in the autumn wind. The patient looked at the fallen leaves of Xiao, and the health of the patient went from bad to bad. She said: "When all the leaves fall, I will die ." After learning it, an old painter painted a green leaf on the branches.
The last leaf never fell. The patient miraculously survived because of the green color in his life.
Tip: Draw a leaf for your life
Story 7: crossing yourself
One day, the lobster and the crab meet in the deep sea. The Crab sees that the lobster is taking off its hard shell and only revealing its delicate body. The zombie said nervously: "How can you give up the only hard shell that protects your body? Aren't you afraid of a big fish eating you? According to your current situation, even the rapids will rush you to the Rock. Then you will not die before it will be strange ?"
Lobster calmly replied: "Thank you for your attention, but you don't know. Every time we grow our lobster, we must first take off the old shell to grow a stronger shell. Now we are facing the danger, it is only to prepare for better future development."
While thinking about it, you can only find a place to avoid it all day, instead of thinking about how to make yourself grow stronger and live in the shade of others all day, it is no wonder that our development is always limited.
Tip: dangerous people are everywhere. Everyone has a certain security zone. If you want to overcome your current achievements, do not leave yourself Limited and be brave enough to accept the challenges and enrich yourself. You will certainly develop better than you think.
Story 8: A course forever
The snow that day was so violent that there were countless crazy monsters outside. The snow grayed out to find the target, and the wind swallowed around to search. Everyone is shouting, and the mind of reading seems to have been frozen. The opening of a house. When the teacher Ouyang, whose nose is red, squeezed into the classroom, waited for a long time for the wind to swept in. The middle school student code on the wall burst into the air and rolled around like a joke, another one has been planted. The chaotic classroom calmed down and we looked at Ouyang with amazement.
"Please put on rubber shoes and we will go to the playground ."
Dozens of eyes are asking.
"Because we have to stand upright on the playground for five minutes ."
Even if teacher Ouyang gave me the word "don't take this class, never take my class", there were still a few pretty girls and a few very handsome boys who didn't leave the classroom.
The playground is in the northeast corner of the school. The north side is an empty garden, and the north side is a great pond. On that day, the playground, garden, and pond were connected by snow. Many of the shorter basketball frames were cracked by snow balls, and the rolling volumes of snow balls were too open to open their eyes. There are several narrow knives in the face, thick clothes like iron blocks of ice, and feet like stepping on the ice water.
We squeezed under the eaves of the classroom and refused to step into the playground. No one said anything. We went to the playground to arrange three columns. The thin Ouyang teacher only wears a white lining, and the thin lining is more thin. Later, we stood in the playground for more than five minutes. When they were in the classroom, they thought they could not beat the storm. In fact, they told them to stand for half an hour and they couldn't afford it. They told them to wear only one shirt, they can also survive.
Tip: in the face of difficulties, many people wear a magnifying glass, but if you struggle with difficulties, you will feel that they are difficult. As with the pain in life, it is not as serious as you think. If you don't take it seriously, it won't hurt. You feel pain, because you think the wound is hurting, afraid of the wound pain.
The ninth story: always-on Ticketing
A person who is on a regular business trip often cannot buy a ticket with the correct number. However, no matter whether it is a long distance or crowded, he can always find his seat.
His approach is actually very simple, that is, patiently finding a carriage. This method does not seem clever, but it works very well. Every time, he finished his preparations from the first carriage to the last carriage, but every time he had no need to go to the end, he would find the vacant space. He said that this is because there are not many passengers who are reluctant to find seats like him. It is often because there are still a few seats in his compartment, while the aisles and joints of other carriages are full of people.
Tip: Life is really interesting: If you only accept the best, you will often get the best. Self-confidence, perseverance, foresight, and diligence in practice will give you a ticket to rest on your life journey forever.
The tenth story: the stubborn stone in the heart
Once upon a time there was a huge stone in the garden of a family with a width of about 40 centimeters and a height of 10 centimeters. The person who arrives at the garden will accidentally kick the big stone, either falling or bruised.
The son asked, "Dad, why didn't I dig out that nasty rock ?"
Dad replied: "You said that stone? It has been in the age of your grandfather since now. It is so large that you don't know when to dig it. It's okay to dig a stone. It's better to walk with caution, you can also train your response capabilities."
After a few years, this big stone was left to the next generation. At that time, his son married his daughter-in-law and became a father.
One day, my daughter-in-law angrily said, "Dad, the big stone in the garden. The more I see it, the less pleasing to the eye. Please move it another day ." Dad replied, "forget it! The big stone is very heavy. If I can move it away when I was a child, how can I keep it for now ?"
The daughter-in-law's heart is not a taste, and she does not know how many times she fell. Ten minutes later, the daughter-in-law loosened the dirt around the big stone with a hoe. The daughter-in-law had a mental preparation and may have to dig for a day. No one had imagined that the stone would be dug up in a few minutes to see the size of the stone, which was not as big as imagined, they are all fooled by the huge appearance.
Tip: What hinders us from discovering and creating is only a mental obstacle and an anchor in our thoughts. You can't climb a mountain with the idea of going downhill. If your world is dull and hopeless, it is because you are dull and hopeless. To change your world, you must first change your mindset.