The four stories you never regret

1. misunderstanding
In early years, a young man got married and gave birth to a child in Alaska. His wife died of dystocia and left the next child. He is busy with his life and is busy with seeing his house. Because no one helps to watch the child, he trains a dog. The dog is smart and obedient. He can take care of the child and feed the child with a bottle, raise a child. One day, the master went out and asked him to take care of the children. He arrived in another village and couldn't come back that day due to heavy snow. The next day, the dog immediately greeted the host. He opened the door and looked at the room with blood everywhere. The bed was also blood, the child was gone, the dog was around, and the mouth was full of blood. The Master found this situation and thought it was a dog attack, eat the child. In anger, pick up the knife to split the head of the dog and kill the dog. Then, I suddenly heard the child's voice and saw him climb out of the bed, so he picked up the Child. Although there was blood on his body, he was not hurt. He was very strange. He did not know what was going on. Then he looked at the dog and the meat in his leg was gone. There was a wolf beside him, and he bit the dog's meat in his mouth. The dog saved the little master, this is the most surprising misunderstanding in the world.
[Note: misunderstandings often occur when people do not understand, have no reason, have no patience, have no thinking, have no understanding of each other, reflect on themselves, and have extremely impulsive feelings. At the beginning of a misunderstanding, I always thought of the other side's thousands of errors. Therefore, the misunderstanding will get deeper and deeper, and people will get confused about the ignorant animal and dog, there will still be such a terrible and serious consequence. This misunderstanding between people makes it even harder to imagine.]

2. Nails
Once upon a time, there was a very bad boy. One day his father gave him a bag of nails and asked him to nail a nail on the fence in his back yard with a hammer every time he had a bad temper. The next day, the boy pinned 37 nails on the fence.
After a few weeks, as he learned to control his anger, the number of times that the boy had to nail the barrier gradually fell. He finds it easier to control his own bad temper than to pin a nail on the fence ...... Finally, the little boy lost his temper.
He told his father about his transformation. His father suggested: "If you stick to your temper for a day, you will unmount a nail from the fence ." After a while, the boy finally pulled out all the nails on the fence.
His father took his hand to the barrier and said to the little boy, "Son, you have done a good job. However, if you look at the holes that the nails leave on the fence, the fence will no longer look like it was. When you lose your temper to others, your words are like these nails, which will leave scars in people's hearts. It's like sticking a knife to someone's body and pulling it out. No matter how many times you say sorry, the wound will always exist. In fact, the verbal harm to people is no different from the physical harm to people ."
[Note: People often suffer permanent harm due to persistence that cannot be put together. If we can start from ourselves and start to look at others with tolerance, I believe you will surely receive many unexpected results .... open a window for others, that is, to let yourself see a more complete sky ....]

3. Slow Start
Most of my colleagues are very excited because a new supervisor is transferred from the organization, which is said to be a talented person and has been specially sent to reorganize the business. But every day, the new supervisor has nothing to do, every day, when you enter the office politely, you will find it difficult to go out. The bad guys who were so nervous now are even more rampant.
He's a good guy! It's really a good guy, and it's easier to get started than the former supervisor!
In the past four months, when we were really trying to disappoint the new supervisor, the new supervisor was excited. All bad guys were excited, and those who could be promoted. It's like a complete change of people to get started quickly and get disconnected. He is conservative in April.
During the year-end dinner, the new supervisor gave a speech after three rounds of wine: "I believe everyone will be puzzled by the performance of my new tenure and the drastic changes I 've made in the future, now let me tell you a story and you will understand: "I have a friend who bought a house with a courtyard. As soon as he moves in, the courtyard will be comprehensively reorganized, all the weed trees were cleared and new flowers were planted. The previous house owner visited the house one day and asked, "Where is the most expensive peony? 』 This friend of mine discovered that he had used the Peony as a grass shovel.
Later, he bought another house. Although the yard was even more messy, he could not move. In winter, he thought it was a plant of miscellaneous trees. In spring, flowers were blooming. In spring, he thought it was a weed, in the summer, it became a brocade tree; there was no movement for half a year, and the leaves were red in the autumn. It was not until late autumn that it realized which plants were useless, but vigorously removed them and kept all the precious vegetation preserved .」 Speaking of this, the supervisor raised his cup and said, "Let me respect everyone here, because if this office is a garden, you will all be the treasure in it. It is impossible for the treasure to blossom all the year round, it can be recognized only after long-term observation!

4. Loose
This is the story of a soldier who returned from the Vietnam War.
He called his parents from San Francisco and told them, "Mom and Dad, I have come back, but I have an unfriendly invitation.
I want to bring a friend home with me .」 「 Of course !」 They replied, "we will be very happy to see you .」
But the son went on again. "But I want to tell you one thing that he was seriously injured in the Vietnam War,
With one arm and one foot missing, he is nowhere to go. I want to ask him to come back and live with us .」
「 Son, I am very much left behind, but maybe we can help him find a place to settle .」
Then the father said, "Son, you don't know what you are talking about.
People with disabilities like him will put a lot of burden on our lives.
We still have to live our own lives, so we can't let them do this.
I suggest you go home first and forget him. He will find his sky .」
At this time, he hung up the phone and his parents had no message.
A few days later, the parents received a call from the San Francisco police,
Tell them that their dear son has fallen to the building and died. The police believe this is only a simple suicide case.
As a result, they were heartbroken to fly to San Francisco and, under the guidance of the police, to identify their son's body in the parking room.
That is indeed their son, but he was surprised that he had only one arm and one leg.
The parents in the story are the same as most of us. It's easy for people who love their faces and have a good conversation,
However, it is too difficult to like those who make us inconvenient and unhappy.
We always prefer to stay away from people who are not as healthy, beautiful, or smart as we are.
But thanks to God, some will not be so cruel to us.
They will love us with no regrets, no matter how bad we are, always willing to accept us.
Before you fall asleep tonight, pray to God and ask him to give you the power to accept others,
Whatever they are, ask him to help us understand those who are different from us.

Everyone has a magical thing in their hearts called "friendship 」,
You don't know how it happened, but you know that it will always give us special gifts.
You will also understand that friendship is God's most precious gift to us!
Friends are like rare treasures. They bring laughter and inspire us to succeed.
They listen to us and share each word of praise with us.
Their hearts are always open for us. Tell your friends how much you care about them.
Forward this article to all people you think are friends.
If this article comes back, you will know that you have friends for a lifetime.
Imagine: you may feel deeply after reading it all the way.
Before deciding and judging others, consider whether this is a "misunderstanding 」,
Then, consider whether you must pin this "nail 」,
If you can, please "Take it easy 」.
Because, when you are "loose" to others, you are loose to yourself.