The most important thing in marriage ......

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A friend discussed with me what is the most important thing in marriage. I said, the outlook on life is consistent. My friend dismissed me and said I am an old man. But I still think this is the most important factor in marriage.
For example, if you are a person who wants to get ahead, you can sacrifice time, energy, or even friendship, kindness, and justice for the success of your career. It doesn't matter. If your wife and you share the same idea that you can do whatever you want to succeed, then you will be like a good partner who can plot together every night. Of course, the legal and moral problems caused by this are not listed in this article.
If you are born indifferent to life, just want to have three or two friends and a good book, then you must have a person who shares the same philosophy of life with you and can enjoy your life.
I have two couples, one who pursues hedonism and actively advocates all entertainment and tourism projects. The other is a cautious consortium who defends against aging and raises children, it means taking a bus also needs to consider whether the subway saves money or the bus Saves money.
The two couples had a very sweet time. For example ...... The consequences are unimaginable.
Therefore, I insist that you are irrelevant to anyone. The important thing is to find someone consistent with your philosophy of life.
The so-called radish and vegetables have their own love. I believe there must be a person who appreciates you and is the same as you. Never find the wrong person. You must know that your advantage in one person's eyes may be an unacceptable evil behavior in the eyes of another person.
In addition, there is another factor in marriage. It is not the character, not the amount of money it makes, nor the taste of eating or whether it stints, but whether you can truly relax in front of each other.
I have read an article Article Let's talk about how the Japanese wife likes her husband: Calculate her husband's off-duty time, put on makeup and put on the most pleasing clothes before she opens the door for her husband, A perfect smile. In the evening, before the husband changes his clothes, he will first lie down on the bed, wear sexy pajamas, put on the sultry perfume, and turn on Dark lights. In the morning, you need to wake up before your husband wakes up. Otherwise, let him see what's wrong with the pillow. When he opened his eyes, he saw the Fresh Out-Of-The-bath beauty and breakfast in the exquisite tray.
Oh, my God! To do this, you must at least be a full-time housewife who can take a nap at noon. Otherwise, the professional women will be able to survive such a 24-hour period! Not to mention when you are in bad mood or when you are ill.
Therefore, the second element of marriage is that you can not brush your front teeth or wash your face; you can put your feet on the table; you can cry; you can give a comment, I hope that the boss who wears your shoes will have a bad illness. You should replace it ......
In short, you dare not hide the most authentic, beautiful, ugly, kind, and vicious content in front of each other. Congratulations, you have found someone who can survive for a lifetime.
One of my girlfriends had an affair with her boyfriend in year 34. Her boyfriend talked about getting married several times and she couldn't think of any objection, but she thought she was not right. One day, I suddenly realized that I couldn't find a close feeling with my boyfriend. My boyfriend was in a hurry and said that we had done everything we were most close to. Where else are you not close to me! The girl said that I don't want to brush my teeth in front of you.
The two eventually ended up breaking up. It can be seen that a person who can live a lifetime can not be found, not as long as he has accumulated time. Some people are familiar with the first day of the first day. For example, Jia Baoyu first saw Lin's sister. Of course, this is the highest level, and it is not easy for me to reach ordinary people. However, if the contact was still stretched in front of the other Party in year 35, it would be quite tiring. Nowadays, the competition is fierce. If you are at home, you cannot find the feeling of absolute relaxation.
I thought that the elements of marriage should be none of the other two points.

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