The person who is preoccupied will never get happiness _ life

The American psychologist William, through years of research, has proved by iron that people who are too calculating for money and material benefits are actually unfortunate people, even more sick and short-lived. More than 90% of them are suffering from mental illness. These people feel a lot more time and depth of pain than those who are not good at calculating. In other words, although they can calculate, but have no good life.

William, based on years of practice, has listed 500 test tests to see if you are a "too calculating person". These questions are very interesting, for example, do you agree to divide a penny into several flowers? Do you think it is fair that banks should be divided with you? Do you dream that the other person's money becomes yours? Do you often want to take a free ride on your way out? Do you often regret that what you bought is not worth it? Do you often feel that you are always in the position of being deceived in your life? Did you become glum because you spent money on others? When you buy things, whether to save a piece of money and pay a great price, even you think that you run too much long way ...

As long as you answer these questions truthfully, you can tell whether you are a "too calculating".

William thinks that those who are too calculated on the pecuniary benefit are the people who live quite hard and always feel unhappy. In these respects, he has a lot of valuable summaries.

First, a very calculated person, is usually a person who cares about everything. No matter how generous he may appear, he will not be calm in the depths of his heart. The calculation itself first has caused a person to lose the calm, fell in the entanglement of one thing. And a person who often loses his peace, usually causes more severe anxiety disorder. A person who is often in a state of anxiety is not only happy, but even painful.

Second, the calculation of the people in life, it is difficult to get balance and satisfaction, but will be due to too much calculation caused by people's dissatisfaction and resentment. Often with others make opinions, differences constantly, the heart is full of conflict.

Third, the calculation of the people, the mind is often blocked, can only live in the specific things to extricate themselves. Accustomed to looking at the present without regard to the long-term. What is more serious is that millions of things in the world, the calculated person is not only the calculation of a certain thing, but to all things are accustomed to calculation. Too much calculation buried in the heart, so accumulation is a worry. How can a person in trouble have a good day!

Four, too calculation of the people, is too want of people. And people who want too much, it's hard to live easily. Often also because of excessive calculation of the scourge, add trouble.

A man who is too calculating must be a man who always pays attention to the dark side. He always found problems, found mistakes, worry everywhere, everything fortification, the heart is always gray.

William's research also shows that: too calculated people, heart rate is generally faster, sleep is not good, often with insomnia phenomenon accompanied. The digestive system is destroyed, the blood is not adjusted, the immunity falls, easy to suffer from nerve sex, cutaneous sex disease. The most frightening thing is that people who are too calculating are always suspicious of their eyes and often put themselves on the opposite side of the world. This is indeed a great misfortune. Too calculating people are greedy in their bones, have more ideas, become the calculation of the lingering idea, like the mountain as heavy pressure on the heart. Life becomes no color.

The above is an article I happened to see, I read the address is: http://www.gmw.cn/02sz/2009-06/01/content_1003102.htm

Write down to remind yourself, whether intentionally or unintentionally other people intentionally or unintentionally, not stingy with a well-meaning look at things. In addition, the calm treatment gets and loses. Life is really worth catching only a few of it, the other, just, just let life more smooth, if because of petty, narrow-minded, destroyed the mood, it is too secular. I want to read, the biggest charm lies in this kind of edification.