The poor and rich raise the knowledge of the opinion

The real "poor", should be not accustomed to, let him know to want to pay, rather than let him think that is not, in any case can not get.
The true "rich" should be to provide him with all the conditions of growth and the right to choose, rather than blindly satisfy his desires, but not for him to indicate the direction.

I think that Fu is not the daughter to give anything, she as a princess. Instead, tell your daughter what you want and try to get it yourself, but if you fail, you have parents behind you, and you can borrow power from your parents. To foster a girl's mature mentality, to dare to fail the atmosphere, and to know how to deal with the correct values after failure.

Rich children go out, even if the wall also know home there is a place, hands and feet open, from the eyes of the reflecting, there is a wide range of the vision of the tutor, naturally confident have the confidence. Poor children every step of the relatively difficult to walk, no posterior opportunity is also less, do not dare to make mistakes, sometimes instead shackled. As for life and feelings, different from each other, not because of the label and commonality ignore each person's characteristics.

Regardless of the male or female, the poor upbringing child often loses in loses "the relaxed feeling". Because of the scarcity of small resources, not only money, but also from the family's sense of recognition and support. This makes them think that the lost things will not have the opportunity to have, anything if not grasp, is doomed, and even someone will blame you for such negligence.

Worry too much, after thinking, oneself awkward death oneself. Can't see the world's big, put too much energy in comparison and inferiority, or is closed and conceited.

Just like the Shengmi in the song of Joy, this from small town all the way to spell into a foreign enterprise HR white-collar, bent on the 30-year-old to climb high branches of the former "Sparrow", "comparison" is always the most important topic in her life, and what package of their own happy, depending on what others back. Others carry Hermès, and their Prada doesn't even get it.

In contrast, is also born small small, just stepping out of the campus no two years of Chiuling is more concerned about "oneself", even to get a box of delicious chocolate, she can also get satisfaction, and then generous admit, oneself incredibly was a box of Godiva bought.

If the 23-year-old Shengmi, will probably throw the door in the rich second generation Chisi burnt face that sends the chocolate.

Having "relaxed feeling" is absolutely a kind of ability, in other words is balanced mentality and calm mood, of course, I do not mean at any time is inner peace, but refers to meet and oneself different, especially in some aspects grind oneself of person, can objectively view oneself, face the difference confidently.

Male empathy, even in the social competition, also bear more pressure. Women may also be able to turn over a night of marriage, and men can only fight hard.

Losing the "relaxed feeling" of the male than women will survive more difficult, because in his eyes what is a matter of self-esteem, profit when the big swell, when the loss of teeth bite tooth endurance, no end.

Life, after all, should be a self-reconciliation, not a lifelong reversal.

The poor and rich raise the knowledge of the opinion