To be accompanied by a book--reading "meeting The Unknown Self"

Wash the heart, Bloom true Me

-- read "Meet the Unknown oneself" feeling

for a long vacation, I never knew how to "amuse" my time in a meaningful way. All day with the book Companion's sister to me recommended a book, perhaps as a loved one of her understanding of my life in the habit of complaining, negative to face difficulties and setbacks, the future is full of sadness and confusion, so she gave me a can heal the heart, make people recognize the book-"Meet the Unknown." When I first got this book, I read a little bit about it and found that it was a top-selling book a few years ago, so there must be something different in this book that makes me so interested. So I decided to read it carefully and understand the truth.

This book is a body and mind growth novel, the author Zhang Defen by every day we may encounter a variety of things, help us see how the pattern of our own life is formed, and how to manipulate our body and mind. And in the form of stories to share her years of spiritual growth sentiment, to help us to lift the existing patterns of life, help us from the mind, emotion and the shackles of the body to free out, so as to live out the life we want to find the original real, happy self! The protagonist of the story, if Ling, graduated from the prestigious school, has an enviable job, but in the heart but sometimes ask yourself: why can't I have the life I want? Why am I not happy? How should I be the Master of my own life? If Ling encounter a wise elder, in the process of talking with the wise, she gradually fills the unhappy, frustrated Heart gap, find the most true and courageous self.

In this book, I did receive a lot of spiritual inspiration and spiritual cleansing. The hardest thing in the world to know is not someone else, but yourself, "dear, there is no one outside, and all external things are the result of your inner projection." "The root of human suffering is not knowing who you are, but blindly clings and pursuing things that cannot represent us." You are not your job, you are not your performance, you are not your success, it is not your failure. These external things, the slightest shake not your that inner real me, see clearly "ego" false identity. When death comes, it will sweep all things that cannot represent us, and the real you will not change with time or even death. This inner true I will not be born with your body, nor disappear with death, it can observe the world, appreciate the Sunrise moon, clouds out of the clouds, and the flow of the years, the changes in the environment will not change it. "These popular words may I 1:30 will not fully understand, after all, my life experience is not enough, there is no way to really understand." But every time I read these words, I feel as if my brain will appear a wise old man, in my melancholy to life, I am disappointed when I am not being misled by the "ego" in front of me, to seek the real unknown.

The book says: "Every event that happens to you is a gift, but a gift that is so ugly that we have a grudge or fear." So, it can make a disaster, or it can be a gift. If you can take the confidence, give it a little time, be patient, and carefully take apart this hideous shell package, you will enjoy the rich beauty within it, and the gift that is carefully tailored for you. "We also often" disguise "," God in the closing of a door party will open another door ", but how many people have encountered bad things are always sorry, with this positive attitude calmly. Just like some of us are ugly, we will only blame the parents of the genetic bad, but do not know that this is the God gave us a unique gift, a person has no attraction, not only appearance, more important is the connotation. Frankly speaking, I personally prefer to buy some beautiful clothes, expensive watches, designer shoes to decorate themselves, perhaps my vanity in the mischief, I would feel that the attention of these external things will make me more attractive. But I pay attention to the appearance of things, but ignore the inherent temperament. A person has inherent temperament, then even wear ordinary clothes will be very attractive. So we should not waste energy on things that are external, immutable, irresistible. Make a reconciliation at the inner level and then focus on the parts that can be changed externally. In this way we can cope with adversity in a duck's face, not in difficulties.

In addition, this book also let me know how to surrender. The surrender here is not to say that encountering difficulties, succumbing to setbacks, inaction, but with a positive attitude to accept and recognize its advent, and bravely face it, and not to do a daydream hope this unfortunate thing can not happen, while in this endless trouble struggling, not free. The advantage of surrender is that when you accept the present, not wasting your energy in vain to fight, things tend to have unexpected turnaround, you find that the original struggle is really a waste of effort. Whatever you resist, it will last. Use love to accept all that we have encountered, and then put it down. The biggest reason for suffering is to resist the truth and never know how to surrender.

Modern people in the impetuous bustling world mostly with the ego as the center, lost the original true me, "Meet the Unknown oneself" is to find the process of real me. The old man in the book says that the root of our suffering is that we are not aware of who we are, but blindly go to the clings to pursue those things that cannot represent us! The old man in the book should also be said to be our other self. We should have the pursuit, there is a dream, but not strong, not excessive, all or let its natural good, that is, the book said to learn to surrender it! Accept the present, do not waste energy in vain to fight, things tend to have unexpected turnaround, you just found that the original struggle is a waste of energy, also as a poem said "situations, Vista" it!

This book gives me the greatest shock should be said to be the most impressive and modern almost all people appear a common problem "we gradually turn our eyes from the outside world to our inner world, and then find that most of us are not the masters of our own lives, and worse, we are the slaves of our own thoughts and emotions." Just see this sentence, I was deeply shocked, we always think that they can do the fate of the master, control their own life, make the choice of freedom, but unconsciously, we have become the slaves of their own thoughts and emotions. Why are we not happy? Why can't we have the life we want? It is because we have so many things to do with the desire too strong, and all these problems we never know this is our own cause, as long as change ourselves, change their state of mind, all the outside world, including people, things and things will be the heart of the change. But the world can never see the meaning of this, so many people become victims of emotions and ideas. We are busy all day long, endless desire, tired we exhausted, there is no time to pay attention to the comfort of their souls. Our bodies meander through the world, but souls are helpless. The result is more and more trouble in life. In the midst of the pain and the inability to extricate ourselves, of course we forget that there is another one.

Mentality and character determine fate, life is much suffering, with this new cognition of their own, we will no longer alone, no longer fear. The new cognition of their own accompany us all the way, let us have a very confident future and confidence, into the steady, back to the sky, have a happy and comfortable life. I wish we could all find ourselves by meeting the unknown and falling in love, kindness and obedience to this new understanding. Through this book, I think we should properly communicate with their own heart, feel the difference between us and the real me.

To be accompanied by a book--reading "meeting The Unknown Self"