Topic: My colleagues will help me introduce the whole process of shanghai girls)

Topic: My colleagues will help me introduce the whole process of shanghai girls. Author: 1388 I am a department manager of a company. Due to a problem in the upper layer of the company recently, the company seems to be in a mess. I am a career developer and usually have no time to consider emotional issues, by chance, the next employee (who I applied for) asked me if I had a girlfriend? I told her the truth. She didn't have time to talk about her friends. She volunteered to help me introduce a girl in Shanghai. She was a classmate and she was very temperamental. I think that the company is also messy anyway, just relax for yourself. It doesn't matter if you meet me. Besides, if you are a good girl, you should also consider finding a girlfriend. The first time we met, we felt that we were still quite good looking from the external appearance. We were very fond of the temperament and elegance. We were eating in a relatively upscale Western restaurant, from chatting, I know that she can play the piano, drive, and have a car at home (in fact, I don't like finding a good place to live, which puts a lot of pressure on myself ), when I met at the beginning, I chatted casually. I learned from the chat that she also liked traveling, and everyone talked about it. I saw it almost as well, I want her to change the seat of the cafe. She said it was too late to go and I will send her home. This is the first time. Since I haven't been in love for a long time, I feel very good (I used to talk about a girlfriend for four years. At that time, I had nothing to do, because she chose reality and left me far away. From then on, I was dedicated to my career, don't talk about friends), then we will contact her on MSN, and then we will feel that this girl is very vanity and a little hypocritical in her communication, I asked a few friends that they told me not to look for such a girl and told me to give up. Later I didn't contact her very much, but I found that she was more and more active in contacting me, just as the company was in a very messy management, and she was powerless, she continued to chat with her. I chatted with her passively for almost a week, she said that she was bored and asked me to have dinner. I think it would be no big deal not to eat. Maybe we could develop. We went to dinner with her next class. It was the restaurant she was looking, after dinner, I paid a few hundred yuan for it. (I thought she was also such a high-consumption user. In fact, I knew later that she was a tough guy ), after dinner, her friend called her to wash her hair and she went there. Then she told me that we will make an appointment tomorrow. That time we just had a meal and it was over. The next day I bought a flower shop named xiao'er and sent it to her company. She was very happy. At that time, I felt like I was in love. Maybe it was too long to feel that way, I felt satisfied when she said that she was very happy on MSN. The next day, she took the initiative to ask me if there were any surprises, which made me feel inferior to her. I liked girls very much, and we were not sure about anything, I only met twice, talked for a week, and asked me for something, so I didn't want to care about her anymore. However, she contacted me very actively. I am a man, and she cannot be rejected. I will go back as long as she calls a photo. After talking about her for some time, I found that I still had some fantasies about her. Maybe I do think I want to find a girlfriend, and I will think about her from time to time. On the 11th holiday, I just went to Huangshan with my friends. (In fact, I hope she will go with me. But when I first met, I mentioned that I would like to go with me during the 11th holiday, she told me that she was going to travel to Thailand, and I didn't ask her.) She asked me how to make the arrangement on the 11th day when it was about to arrive at the 11th day. I said that I went to Huangshan, and she said that she would also go, at that time, our group had no votes, and I asked her, didn't you say you were going to Thailand last time? When did she say this? Later I told her that it was the first time she had dinner. Then she said, oh, forgive me for not asking her to go together (this made me feel so hypocritical ). When Huangshan came back, she volunteered to ask me where to go and asked me if I was back. She said she was bored at home, I think that since everyone is bored, she said, "Well, you come to me, eat together, And stroll around the street ". After an appointment, she suddenly told me that she had something to do when I was about to go out. She contacted me at. I 'd like to do it. At, she gave me information, I was asked to go directly to a restaurant at. It would take me an hour to build a car. When I arrived, she had already eaten with a female friend of her, I didn't want to eat it in the past, because it wasn't enough time for me to eat at. I used to call a cup of black tea and prepare to pay for it. (It makes me feel like I am paying for it, and we have nothing to do with it) She asked me where to go and where to go. I thought it would be nice to go to a movie or visit any time. I thought it was strange that when she asked me to visit together, why do I always ask me to find a good place to take action? Then she told me that the shoes and feet she wore are very painful. Whenever she went, she had to buy a pair of shoes first, now that people say this, I will accompany her. When I went to the mall to buy shoes, I chose a relatively expensive one, which is about one thousand yuan. I asked if I was so nice. I must have said that it was nice, I didn't expect her to tell me that you bought it for me. I bought a ticket for her very generously (however, her image in my mind could go down all the way, I really don't like girls taking the initiative to ask for things with me. Although this money is nothing for me now, I like girls so that I can take the initiative to buy things for her and I am very happy ). I suddenly realized that her appearance and what she said at ordinary times were two things at all. I felt that such a woman was a bit as a beggar, so I was too eager to gain advantage. After I bought it, I came out, she made a phone call and said that her birthday was about to pass. Of course I said that she was away. I wanted to leave her long ago. I was too lazy to talk to a girl I didn't like, sorry for her behavior. After separation, she sent me a message saying "we are very happy tonight, thank you". I replied, "Thank you!", and there will be no news. After work, we no longer chat on MSN, and she is no longer the same as before, I just need to take the initiative to contact me on MSN. In fact, if she is a very generous woman, I still can understand it, but she will walk in ten minutes from the subway station in her own house, how can it show that the industry is very expensive? I can't understand it a bit, and my mouth is famous brands, high-end restaurants, etc, in her behavior, I think she is unlikely to spend the money at all. (from three contacts with her, she never saw her take the initiative, even politely taking out one dollar, because I cannot afford her money.) She suddenly gave me a prejudice against Shanghai women and lost some confidence in finding a good girl. I am a colleague who helped me introduce the whole process of my experiences with shanghai girls.